YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread #116 - Page 61

Originally posted by: Abhirasharma

Abhimanyu and Armaan - one is not better than the other.

Just because Abhimanyu was angry from start and Armaan was understanding initially, doesn't make Armaan better. Toxicity and emotional abuse is not about constant cruelty, but about inconsistency and control. When someone is good on some days, atleast mostly okay, but they turn emotionally abusive or angry when it really matters, is also a red flag. True respect means consistent emotional safety, respect and acceptance, not conditional kindness.

When was Armaan understanding? In a large duration of their deal marriage, he was leading Ruhi on, he wasn't faithful to his wife

During Charu-Dev thing, he manhandled her, blamed her for accident

After deal marriage, he was marrying Ruhi and Abhira was begging for food

After marriage, he tortured her for 3 months

Abhimanyu wasn't a good husband and Akshara wasn't good wife to him, both were bad for each other

But Abhira has not been a had wife to Armaan, two relationships are not comparable

Originally posted by: Abhirasharma

Abhimanyu and Armaan - one is not better than the other.

Just because Abhimanyu was angry from start and Armaan was understanding initially, doesn't make Armaan better. Toxicity and emotional abuse is not about constant cruelty, but about inconsistency and control. When someone is good on some days, atleast mostly okay, but they turn emotionally abusive or angry when it really matters, is also a red flag. True respect means consistent emotional safety, respect and acceptance, not conditional kindness.

Manyu and Armaan are both toxic pieces of shit. They are all lovey dovey when things go their way. Real face comes out when there's an issue. Manyu used to make grand statements about supporting Akshu and even insulted Aarohi over Sirat matter. But when shit hit the fan, he was the first to dig up Akshu's old wounds and use it to hurt her. And Armaan is doing the same now. He claimed to love Abhira, married her against everyone's wishes and promised to support her. And could not even keep that promise for a single day. From the day they got remarried, he has been hurting her one way or other. Now, he has crossed all limits and is using Abhira's biggest pain as a weapon against her. So no, neither of these men are better than the other. And no one deserves to live a life with such toxic abusers.

Originally posted by: Abhirasharma

This is his real personality. I am glad abhimaan fans including me are finally realising. For me, he is the worst male lead of this show

Armaan is carbon copy of Akshara

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

When was Armaan understanding? In a large duration of their deal marriage, he was leading Ruhi on, he wasn't faithful to his wife

During Charu-Dev thing, he manhandled her, blamed her for accident

After deal marriage, he was marrying Ruhi and Abhira was begging for food

After marriage, he tortured her for 3 months

Abhimanyu wasn't a good husband and Akshara wasn't good wife to him, both were bad for each other

But Abhira has not been a had wife to Armaan, two relationships are not comparable

I said the same that both are not comparable. May be that person meant Armaan was understanding towards Abhira in the beginning , which is what i agreed to, but thank you for reminding me how he manhandled Abhira and also was leading on Roohi.

Abhira had always been a good wife to Armaan, but in case of AbhiRa, both behaved impulsively and were at fault.

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

Armaan is carbon copy of Akshara

Abhira also has anger issues. She broke glass of car. Used to scream at people that without any trauma. But abhimanyu had a justification why he had anger issues. As he started protecting his mother from very early age from his abusive father. His anger only comes out when some one misbehaves with his ppl or someone does wrong unlike abhira who just broke a car mirror just because she felt armaan is bribing her with a costly gift.

Armaan is doing the same thing what ak did with abhimanyu.

Just because ak was a bad wife and abhimanyu was a bad husband she took his rights of being a father and distributed it to unknown man by saying phone nahi uthaya instead of co parenting and moving on with abhinav.

And here armaan too punishing abhira by saying ruhi is better since she has not given birth.

abhimanyu sperm donor bana diya taha akshara ne and armaan is making abhira as egg donor 💁‍♀️ in a way ppl who think akshara was always right should support armaan but just because galath fl ke saath ho raha hai ppl are sympathizing 😮‍💨 but same ppl will cheer when abhira takes the child and seperates it from armaan. Why bhai co parenting and court nahi hai ?

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

exactly armaan is carbon copy of akshara

Abhira also has anger issues. She broke glass of car. Used to scream at people that without any trauma. But abhimanyu had a justification why he had anger issues. As he started protecting his mother from very early age from his abusive father. His anger only comes out when some one misbehaves with his ppl or someone does wrong unlike abhira who just broke a car mirror just because she felt armaan is bribing her with a costly gift.

Armaan is doing the same thing what ak did with abhimanyu.

Just because ak was a bad wife and abhimanyu was a bad husband she took his rights of being a father and distributed it to unknown man by saying phone nahi uthaya instead of co parenting and moving on with abhinav.

And here armaan too punishing abhira by saying ruhi is better since she has not given birth.

abhimanyu sperm donor bana diya taha akshara ne and armaan is making abhira as egg donor 💁‍♀️ in a way ppl who think akshara was always right should support armaan but just because galath fl ke saath ho raha hai ppl are sympathizing 😮‍💨 but same ppl will cheer when abhira takes the child and seperates it from armaan. Why bhai co parenting and court nahi hai ?

Armaan and Abhimanyu are being compared because of their sex, that's just simplistic way of looking at things otherwise Armaan's is doing what Akshara did

Difference is in Ruhi who gave birth to pookie but didn't impose herself in her life, she understood that the child is not hers. People who do good things don't call themselves "Acha Admi'

If today Ruhi had claimed her right on pookie like Abhinav did, then Armaan would have gladly handed it to her, because he was doing so without her asking for it

Compare desperate Ruhi who wanted Armaan with Abhinav, that's similar characteristics but Ruhi grew up and moved on while Abhinav became doormat of Akshara

Scenario assumption:

I have sometimes wondered if Abhira was gen 3 lead and AK was gen 4 what would the story be? Suppose Abhira and Abhimanyu were paired opposite each other, would Abhira ever have moved on with Abhinav and left Abhimanyu?

What If Akshara was not gen 3 lead , but gen 4 heroine? Suppose Akshara was paired opposite Armaan, would their marraige have worked?

Can someone here please write an OS on this

Guys this thread was fun to follow pls leave it like that . Already half of forum is filled with all this negativity atleast leave this one for others

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

Armaan and Abhimanyu are being compared because of their sex, that's just simplistic way of looking at things otherwise Armaan's is doing what Akshara did

Difference is in Ruhi who gave birth to pookie but didn't impose herself in her life, she understood that the child is not hers. People who do good things don't call themselves "Acha Admi'

If today Ruhi had claimed her right on pookie like Abhinav did, then Armaan would have gladly handed it to her, because he was doing so without her asking for it

Compare desperate Ruhi who wanted Armaan with Abhinav, that's similar characteristics but Ruhi grew up and moved on while Abhinav became doormat of Akshara

This gen neither armaan gave birth nor abhira so with that logic only ruhi has rights. But morally and ethically child belonged to Abhimanyu and akshara irrespective of who gave birth to it and abhinav had 0 rights on that child. He was nothing but a baccha chor.in gen 4 also child belong to armaan and abhira irrespective of who gave birth to it so ruhi as sane human being went away from poddar house so that child can bond with abhira and armaan. Where as abhinav did not even let abhimanyu to celebrate his son's birthday and even stopped manjari from hugging her grandson. Those scenes still haunt me. Accha aadmi boldene se accha nahi banthe.

If people think abhira is getting this treatment same treatment was hailed in gen 3 just because so called fl did it who was the villain in disguise of fl.

Originally posted by: Payalshoni

Guys this thread was fun to follow pls leave it like that . Already half of forum is filled with all this negativity atleast leave this one for others

Note: if something looks negativity to you. It is not necessary that it's negativity for others.