Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 22 Mar 2025 Written Update and EDT - Page 12

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

no she is not old she is in the verge of dying. She was cursed by a dayan to die. So she is getting old as her death is near. As per show she will die in one or 2 days. So within that leads has to get married.

What nonsense is this???

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

None willingly puts themselves through the pain of 9 months.

I have my reservations with practices like surrogacy, especially in a nation like ours where 80% of organ donors are women, and although it is claimed that "She is doing it willingly", women in India go through years of conditioning and guilt tripping to have this mentality of "sacrifice"

Like Ruhi in the show is doing it out of guilt, they had to show that she started feeling bad for Abhira

But because it is a show and Ruhi is shown willing, I am saying all 4 adults are responsible. In real life, I don't think that a woman should go through something like surrogacy because two people are obsessed with having kids who share genes with them

Of course, One shouldn't adopt if they can't love the child

But discussing real life scenario is waste here because I don't think people here are sensitive enough to understand the severity of the topic, this issue can be discussed on an appropriate forum where people don't come and say "You are against surrogacy because Abhira is Sharma"

Even I think along similar lines ..it's almost like ru is emo manipulated here ..even when dakshu was hers peep around her kept telling ab is better though ab put dakshu in danger.

But most peep in forum are aware i like ru ..they only view from that angle

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Ab I don’t know drama ke liye kya karte hai but Ruhi CANNOT refuse to give the child.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

If all parties involved, including the surrogate, are willing and consenting, I don’t see anything wrong with surrogacy. Exploitation can certainly be an issue if it’s done illegally or unethically, which is why strict laws and regulations exist to prevent such cases. However, if a woman willingly chooses to be a surrogate—especially if she is a relative or someone close to the couple—there’s no reason to view it negatively.

On the other hand, adoption isn’t the right choice for everyone. While it’s a noble and beautiful option, it requires genuine love, care, and commitment. Taking in a child without giving them the emotional support and attention they need is far more unfair than choosing not to adopt in the first place.

A fictional example of this is Krishna from Gen 2, who was supposed to be adopted by KaiRa. But after Naira passed away, Krishna was sent back to an ashram. While this was just a show, similar situations happen in real life as well. Children placed in adoptive homes sometimes end up neglected or abandoned due to changing circumstances or a lack of emotional attachment from the adoptive family.

Adoption is undoubtedly a wonderful option, but if a couple does not feel ready for it, it’s better left alone—for the well-being of both the couple and, more importantly, the child.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Even I think along similar lines ..it's almost like ru is emo manipulated here ..even when dakshu was hers peep around her kept telling ab is better though ab put dakshu in danger.

But most peep in forum are aware i like ru ..they only view from that angle

Not emotionally manipulated

She was guilty for all she did, her thoughts, actions and decisions are her own in this track. What I was saying is that the underlying cause of her agreeing for Surrogacy was shown as her guilt

The base itself is wrong

Then you have an audience that is wishing for miscarriage of child

Idhar ye sab discussion is wasted, this show is only for fun

Originally posted by: MsWhiskerson

4 adults took a decision

If I think about it clearly, Ruhi is a good option for surrogacy because she fits legal criteria and she is willing to do it

I don't like surrogacy because I think it is just a practice of exploitation of women, going through all that for 9 month is not fair for anyone and there are more ethical options like adoption

Now these 4 adults are responsible for their decision, only innocents involved in this are Daksh and the upcoming baby

Undoubtedly . I don't have views on surrogacy ..

But now that the deal is done , and 4 of them signed it , it's their responsibility .

Arman was right on one point. That if it was a stranger , they cud show the contract papers and drag them to court but not with ruhi. So madam said yes to everything so there's no reason to cry later. She can tell as much " am I this bad " .

I don't know if ruhi will / won't give the baby, but if everything goes fine , why would they even bring this track ? They cud show a successful ivf and abhira giving birth Instead.

https://youtu.be/ue1PQrfTHf0?si=ru9NCCdg6ZnUW90K

@Aadi04 Today only we spoke about this and looks like Sam (and Gen 4) has completed 500 episodes.

Also someone blocked me for the first time here.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

in countries where surrogacy cannot be done for profit…women do,it for love. Yes..a woman can truly love her sister or cousin and decide to help her have a child of her own.. The very first successful case of surrogacy was a mother who carried her daughters babies.. her daughter couldn’t have kids so she decided to carry them,for her and give her daughter the opportunity to be mom. And I know of a woman who was a surrogate twice for her cousin who struggled for years to have her own kids, and these women do,it for the love they have for their family member. And I think it’s very noble of them.there’s nothing wrong in it ..if you choose to give a special gift like surrogacy for your sister or any other family member..

I completely agree with you. I've come across similar situations where older women have carried a child for their son or daughter. In such cases, they are not the biological mother of the child but rather act as a surrogate, helping their family in a deeply selfless way. It’s a noble and beautiful process, rooted in love and generosity.

Ultimately, how one perceives it depends on their mindset. Some may see it as an act of exploitation, while others recognize it as a profound expression of love—an extraordinary way of supporting a loved one, whether it’s a son, daughter, cousin, or sibling.

Not to Indira: While everyone is entitled to their own opinions, it’s important to remember that not everyone shares the same perspective as you.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

https://youtu.be/ue1PQrfTHf0?si=ru9NCCdg6ZnUW90K

@Aadi04 Today only we spoke about this and looks like Sam (and Gen 4) has completed 500 episodes.

Also someone blocked me for the first time here.

Wow. Don't block me in future pl🤣I like to read you perspective..infact everybody's (but not the fangirling , that's a waste of time for me ) . You always give a balanced viewpoint ..unfortunately, whenever I reply to someone & it's an opposing view they take it the othe way and block..I normally don't even remember who I replied to, what and why

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

I completely agree with you. I've come across similar situations where older women have carried a child for their son or daughter. In such cases, they are not the biological mother of the child but rather act as a surrogate, helping their family in a deeply selfless way. It’s a noble and beautiful process, rooted in love and generosity.

Ultimately, how one perceives it depends on their mindset. Some may see it as an act of exploitation, while others recognize it as a profound expression of love—an extraordinary way of supporting a loved one, whether it’s a son, daughter, cousin, or sibling.

Not to Indira: While everyone is entitled to their own opinions, it’s important to remember that not everyone shares the same perspective as you.