Originally posted by: The_Best
Because of socialization since childhood
Took me lot of time and road blocks to unlearn and equip myself this of putting myself last..
In my teens I was told I was rude selfish for being assertive..I went thru a brief 3 -4 year period of confusion..this was around the time just after dadu death..he used to be able to help me in these situations..
But my bro who was in engineering helped me to understand it's not wrong to go after what u want and value respect and loyalty
I have flattered a couple of times due to emo blackmail and it has not given me anything but grief
Yes I agree most of it is conditioning
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