RuBhir - A beautiful sibling’s bond💕🧿 - Page 10

Originally posted by: anshvi

So, Abhira sings the song which ends up triggering Abhir and he begs her to stop signing and in return he will do whatever she says ? Instead of being worried when he literally closes his ears and reacted this way, she ends up asking him to come to Goenka house? So, she ends up emptionally blackmailing him instead of being emphathetic towards him. 🤦‍♀️

I knew most writers are incapable of handling such tracks where trauma is involved and this is no different ! Abhira just wants Abhir to come home, Armaan went & told Abhir that Abhira is unlucky to have a bro like him. Manish was crying for himself. 🤦‍♀️

Is it so hard for writers to give a sensible Abhir - Abhira scene where she asks him about how he feels? Where she acknowledges his pain, his suffering and trauma instead of emotionally blackmailing him?

I guess writers won't be able to do justice to Abhir's character that actually had so much potential. Sigh!

@Bold: OMG! Is this even FR! This is so insensitive! 🤬🤬🤬

Originally posted by: Shineeeee

@Bold: OMG! Is this even FR! This is so insensitive! 🤬🤬🤬

Heroine ne kiya hai toh thik hi kiya hoga.kisi ko space dena ,time dena ,unke mental trauma ko samajhna yeh sab heroine ke samajh ke bahar hai.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Heroine ne kiya hai toh thik hi kiya hoga.kisi ko space dena ,time dena ,unke mental trauma ko samajhna yeh sab heroine ke samajh ke bahar hai.

Yeah FL is always right

Originally posted by: anshvi

So, Abhira sings the song which ends up triggering Abhir and he begs her to stop signing and in return he will do whatever she says ? Instead of being worried when he literally closes his ears and reacted this way, she ends up asking him to come to Goenka house? So, she ends up emptionally blackmailing him instead of being emphathetic towards him. 🤦‍♀️

I knew most writers are incapable of handling such tracks where trauma is involved and this is no different ! Abhira just wants Abhir to come home, Armaan went & told Abhir that Abhira is unlucky to have a bro like him. Manish was crying for himself. 🤦‍♀️

Is it so hard for writers to give a sensible Abhir - Abhira scene where she asks him about how he feels? Where she acknowledges his pain, his suffering and trauma instead of emotionally blackmailing him?

I guess writers won't be able to do justice to Abhir's character that actually had so much potential. Sigh!

Lol Akshara's own blood also is allergic Oh Khana apart from Ruhi 😂😂

Now mahaan Abheera who understands Manish's pain fails to understand her newfound brother's pain and use his vulnerable state to fulfil her saath saath mein hai promise . She comes across as a very selfish person who would do anything to force her ideals and relationship on others.

Originally posted by: anshvi

So, Abhira sings the song which ends up triggering Abhir and he begs her to stop signing and in return he will do whatever she says ? Instead of being worried when he literally closes his ears and reacted this way, she ends up asking him to come to Goenka house? So, she ends up emptionally blackmailing him instead of being emphathetic towards him. 🤦‍♀️

I knew most writers are incapable of handling such tracks where trauma is involved and this is no different ! Abhira just wants Abhir to come home, Armaan went & told Abhir that Abhira is unlucky to have a bro like him. Manish was crying for himself. 🤦‍♀️

Is it so hard for writers to give a sensible Abhir - Abhira scene where she asks him about how he feels? Where she acknowledges his pain, his suffering and trauma instead of emotionally blackmailing him?

I guess writers won't be able to do justice to Abhir's character that actually had so much potential. Sigh!

Ye rishta jodi rhi hein ya apne aap ko Goenkas ki beti prove kr rhi hein?

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Wohi, that is why this siblings drama feels more like drama than actually emotional.. ruhi abhir have a past at least, so her feeling emotional makes sense. Abhira forcing herself on them, Armaan doing nonsense and forcing his biwi on them, neither makes sense and makes a mockery of siblings to me.

I am repeating myself, but you don't transfer emotions by blood, only diseases get transfered through that.

Dekho there is a very old saying blood 🩸 is thicker than water

Own siblings will be closer than step siblings

But still still step siblings will take priority over cousins or friends.. unless they are fighting for the throne or some inheritance

However once a person gets married .. spouses are higher in priority than siblings

If the story follows a logical pattern both will want to be curious how Akshara lived her later lives .. and Abhira will want to know the kasauli life of Abhinav n Akshara ..

Rohit and Armaan are closer to each other than they are to Krish and Aryan . And krish and Charu have a deeper bond than they have with their cousins.. though they all grew up together..

And its BS about MG and Ruhi .. MG has so many other grandchildren Keerti must be having kids and their family . Kairav must be having his own set of family ..technically for both Abhir and Abhira kairav’s family is closer by blood ..

If Ruhi sticks to the theory of Akshara being Khooni Abhir can also say Arohi was abhimanyu’s live in partner for 7-8 years they had an off engagement.. and they used to go for trips together .. celebrate festivals like karva chauth and gangaur together .. but pata nahi break up kyu hua ..after doing gulu gulu

Ideally udaipur family Poddars should have done some research before sending rishta for Ruhi and Rohit ..

at least we do when in our family we send rishta for arranged marriage and we are plain middle class

How come Goenka family scandals were not known to them .. and why did they not enquire about Ruhi’s paternal family members.. is height of idiocy ..

Now SB is complaining.. kuch bhi

Originally posted by: Aadi04

Dekho there is a very old saying blood 🩸 is thicker than water

Own siblings will be closer than step siblings

But still still step siblings will take priority over cousins or friends.. unless they are fighting for the throne or some inheritance

However once a person gets married .. spouses are higher in priority than siblings

If the story follows a logical pattern both will want to be curious how Akshara lived her later lives .. and Abhira will want to know the kasauli life of Abhinav n Akshara ..

Rohit and Armaan are closer to each other than they are to Krish and Aryan . And krish and Charu have a deeper bond than they have with their cousins.. though they all grew up together..

And its BS about MG and Ruhi .. MG has so many other grandchildren Keerti must be having kids and their family . Kairav must be having his own set of family ..technically for both Abhir and Abhira kairav’s family is closer by blood ..

If Ruhi sticks to the theory of Akshara being Khooni Abhir can also say Arohi was abhimanyu’s live in partner for 7-8 years they had an off engagement.. and they used to go for trips together .. celebrate festivals like karva chauth and gangaur together .. but pata nahi break up kyu hua ..after doing gulu gulu

Ideally udaipur family Poddars should have done some research before sending rishta for Ruhi and Rohit ..

at least we do when in our family we send rishta for arranged marriage and we are plain middle class

How come Goenka family scandals were not known to them .. and why did they not enquire about Ruhi’s paternal family members.. is height of idiocy ..

Now SB is complaining.. kuch bhi

Am not saying you can be closer to cousins than siblings, am saying that Ruhi and Abhir have shared memories and pain, which makes their emotional connect and response valid. Abhir and Abhira didn't even know the other person existed, so they can't have an emotional connect just because they share blood. Abhir just found out his mother died and didn't even remember him, let alone look for him, and Abhira wants to hug him and force herself on him?

We build relationships and closeness due to shared past, always. Time doesn't matter, but shared memories do. Hence, them showing Abhira and Armaan force Abhir is the problem, or they posing how Abhira is God's greatest gift to them that they are ignoring, thus making them horrible humans, that's what's the problem. You can't force relationships, you can try to form bonds, understand each other and let time make those bonds, but forcing someone to accept you isn't forming relationships, it is taking away that person's choice to choose you for you, not because you share 1/2 of your blood dna with them.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Am not saying you can be closer to cousins than siblings, am saying that Ruhi and Abhir have shared memories and pain, which makes their emotional connect and response valid. Abhir and Abhira didn't even know the other person existed, so they can't have an emotional connect just because they share blood. Abhir just found out his mother died and didn't even remember him, let alone look for him, and Abhira wants to hug him and force herself on him?

We build relationships and closeness due to shared past, always. Time doesn't matter, but shared memories do. Hence, them showing Abhira and Armaan force Abhir is the problem, or they posing how Abhira is God's greatest gift to them that they are ignoring, thus making them horrible humans, that's what's the problem. You can't force relationships, you can try to form bonds, understand each other and let time make those bonds, but forcing someone to accept you isn't forming relationships, it is taking away that person's choice to choose you for you, not because you share 1/2 of your blood dna with them.

I am just saying .. what my elders have always said blood is thicker than water ..

Spouses share a deep connection.. and they are bound by destiny .. we chose our partners .. but siblings or step siblings are our given to us by fate

📺 me kuch bhi dikhate hai .. ya dikha sakte hai ..

Munh boli can be closer to sagi bla bla bla ..reality me aisa nahi hota .. altkeast mere sath Toh nahi Hua ..

Is thread me koi yeh bol de .. my cousin is closer to me than my own sibling .. well I will say congratulations 🥂.. wait for 20-40 years later and then think about it

Originally posted by: Aadi04

Dekho there is a very old saying blood 🩸 is thicker than water

Own siblings will be closer than step siblings

But still still step siblings will take priority over cousins or friends.. unless they are fighting for the throne or some inheritance

However once a person gets married .. spouses are higher in priority than siblings

If the story follows a logical pattern both will want to be curious how Akshara lived her later lives .. and Abhira will want to know the kasauli life of Abhinav n Akshara ..

Rohit and Armaan are closer to each other than they are to Krish and Aryan . And krish and Charu have a deeper bond than they have with their cousins.. though they all grew up together..

And its BS about MG and Ruhi .. MG has so many other grandchildren Keerti must be having kids and their family . Kairav must be having his own set of family ..technically for both Abhir and Abhira kairav’s family is closer by blood ..

If Ruhi sticks to the theory of Akshara being Khooni Abhir can also say Arohi was abhimanyu’s live in partner for 7-8 years they had an off engagement.. and they used to go for trips together .. celebrate festivals like karva chauth and gangaur together .. but pata nahi break up kyu hua ..after doing gulu gulu

Ideally udaipur family Poddars should have done some research before sending rishta for Ruhi and Rohit ..

at least we do when in our family we send rishta for arranged marriage and we are plain middle class

How come Goenka family scandals were not known to them .. and why did they not enquire about Ruhi’s paternal family members.. is height of idiocy ..

Now SB is complaining.. kuch bhi

Actually full quote idiom " blood is thicker than water " goes like this " Blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb"..that actually means bonds formed through loyalty and trust is thicker than blood relations...But over the time " Womb" & " covenant " was dropped ..

It changed the entire meaning of the original idiom...

Coming to this story , I am not that bothered , let them tell their foolish story ..I am over the phase will loose my thoughts over 🙃 ITV dramas which has all kind of illogical comical plots ...

I don't care about any of the foolish characters much I am fine if I get some entertainment

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Am not saying you can be closer to cousins than siblings, am saying that Ruhi and Abhir have shared memories and pain, which makes their emotional connect and response valid. Abhir and Abhira didn't even know the other person existed, so they can't have an emotional connect just because they share blood. Abhir just found out his mother died and didn't even remember him, let alone look for him, and Abhira wants to hug him and force herself on him?

We build relationships and closeness due to shared past, always. Time doesn't matter, but shared memories do. Hence, them showing Abhira and Armaan force Abhir is the problem, or they posing how Abhira is God's greatest gift to them that they are ignoring, thus making them horrible humans, that's what's the problem. You can't force relationships, you can try to form bonds, understand each other and let time make those bonds, but forcing someone to accept you isn't forming relationships, it is taking away that person's choice to choose you for you, not because you share 1/2 of your blood dna with them.

Agree with your words!

Bold : Exactly, it's about the fact we grew up and form closer bonds with our siblings that we are closer! It's not only about blood.

Italics: Fun fact ye hein ki Abhira shares 1/4th DNA with Abhir. And who else shares 1/4th with Abhir? Ruhi Birla.