Kartik was a true lover - Page 6

Originally posted by: Krinya

I agree..real life is not like kuch kuch hota hai

love and marriage are two totally different things ..they can be mutually exclusive ..

It's a personal choice..and it's unfair to judge anyone like that coz everybody's circumstances are diff ..

There was this movie of sid malhotra ..shershah..it was based on real life..his girlfriend chose to stay single all her life ..she's a teacher in chandigarh ..

There r instances where ppl moved on & had a happy contented life , with their past as a happy memory ..

Exactly. Just because someone decides to marry again after spouse death or some other circumstances, doesn't mean he never was truly in love with the first partner. Yeh kya logic hai. (Though a lot of actions of kartik goenka i don't agree with)

Yes , i have seen that movie. She chose not to marry ever. That is what am saying it's a choice. Whether a person wants to marry, doesn't want to, it's always a choice.

Love can happen after marriage also. Didn't Abhira's parents had a beautiful love story, despite both of them not at all being romantically interested in each other initially and marrying just for her brother?

The whole concept of pyar ek he baar hota hai , is not true

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

Exactly. Just because someone decides to marry again after spouse death or some other circumstances, doesn't mean he never was truly in love with the first partner. Yeh kya logic hai. (Though a lot of actions of kartik goenka i don't agree with)

Yes , i have seen that movie. She chose not to marry ever. That is what am saying it's a choice. Whether a person wants to marry, doesn't want to, it's always a choice.

Love can happen after marriage also. Didn't Abhira's parents had a beautiful love story, despite both of them not at all being romantically interested in each other initially and marrying just for her brother?

The whole concept of pyar ek he baar hota hai , is not true

Yes didi I said always that it's a different thing that people did not agree with Kartik's some situational behaviour that was wrong but In a pot full of water there was 10-12 mistakes Kartik did that was forgiven and his love is a full pot of water for Naira and mistakes he did with Naira was just few drops.

And It's a totally filmy thing jindagi mein ek baar jeete hai,ek baar marte hai or pyar bhi ek hi basr hota hai shadi bhi ek hi baar hoti hai.

It's a old thinking nowdays people are well educated and understandable jsit liek you mentioned Anhira's parents love was a love of true sense and it'a choice some choose living with that fate some choose to move on and who are we to talk about these thing by just reading few articles and watchign some movies.

When it is happening upon a person only he/she can know what's the thing and feeling he/she gping thoroughly in that time and only he/she have option to decide.

And both the things are good at their own.

When a widow married to another man then some people feelimg jealous and sayogn look she is so happy mean she did not love her previous husband,like goosp aunties and etc. and it hurts the most that we think like that despite being well educated.

Originally posted by: Maanbhira

Yes didi I said always that it's a different thing that people did not agree with Kartik's some situational behaviour that was wrong but In a pot full of water there was 10-12 mistakes Kartik did that was forgiven and his love is a full pot of water for Naira and mistakes he did with Naira was just few drops.

And It's a totally filmy thing jindagi mein ek baar jeete hai,ek baar marte hai or pyar bhi ek hi basr hota hai shadi bhi ek hi baar hoti hai.

It's a old thinking nowdays people are well educated and understandable jsit liek you mentioned Anhira's parents love was a love of true sense and it'a choice some choose living with that fate some choose to move on and who are we to talk about these thing by just reading few articles and watchign some movies.

When it is happening upon a person only he/she can know what's the thing and feeling he/she gping thoroughly in that time and only he/she have option to decide.

And both the things are good at their own.

When a widow married to another man then some people feelimg jealous and sayogn look she is so happy mean she did not love her previous husband,like goosp aunties and etc. and it hurts the most that we think like that despite being well educated.

Yes, that's why I always said Kartik-Naira, Akshara-Abhinav truly loved each other and were soulmates. But that being said, they also loved different people at different times and that is completely ok. Just like Kartik never could stop loving Naira, even Akshara (though I don't like her) never stopped loving Abhira's father.

Kartik might have done some wrong things like exchanging baby with Keerti, blaming/asking Naira if she had relation with another man and for that he is completely wrong. But Kartik also has done lot of good things which people forget, and he always was there for Naira.

I am surprised despite being educated, if people think love only happens once in a lifetime.

So ya, Kartik loved Naira , and Kartik loved Sirat at different timelines. But his love for Naira was very pure and nobody can question if he love Sirat, that means he never loved Naira.

Abhira's mom is nishani of their love.

Hehehe....kartik ke toh kehne hi kya.

He was anything but a lover.

Forget about aftermath of naira's death, he didn’t even treat her nicely when she was alive. He was toxic as hell. He badmouthed her , gas lighted her , blamed her for everything and anything.

ALSO, yes true lover doesn't replaces loved ones so easily as kartik and subsequently akshara goenka did.

People do remarry or jump from one partner to other, even animals do that.....but then it's never love in any case or with any partner, period.

People who remain single throughout life don't literally force ownselves to remain single but rather it means that they had something to hold on to, their past love had such a place in their heart that it went beyond anything materialistic. That's why they continue to love and remain single even when the other person goes away or dies, because love isn't about physical body.

Kartik always was obsessed about naira's look and nothing beyond that. He never loved naira rather his side of the relationship was always carnal. Kartik was able to move on because once naira vanished or died , i.e her physical existence wasn't in sight there was nothing to hold on to for kartik.

Originally posted by: ghostlyghost

Widower can marry anytime.

However someone who truly loved, can never fall in love with someone else again as matter of fact. If you fall in love twice, earlier love was fake or just an infatuation as simple as that.

Your justification is not gonna convince anyone. Stop wasting your own time.

Exact same point. Love itself is a special thing which doesn't require replacement or moving on. Love itself is that impactful that true lovers can live their whole lives cherishing it.

If jumping from one mate to another like animals was love , then it wouldn't have been special and glorified in the first place.

Just because true love is rare doesn't mean anyone can change it's very concept to fit the low standards of society.

https://youtu.be/1iZvByid9cw?feature=shared

Everyone knows Kartik never loved naira, but he wasn't even a good friend or understanding companion.

Although toxic man kartik had so many toxic moments in his name. This is one of them. Instead of throwing his ego in the bin and asking for forgiveness by rubbing his noes, lusty man decorated the bed for his romantic plans.

He could have given her a coffee cup , have a meaningful talk regarding their issues , asked her for forgiveness , treating her like a human with feelings but instead all he could think of was making a honeymoon suite.

Originally posted by: Maanbhira

It's a character dear,nit a real one,and he did what he likes,He love seerat by because Naira release him from all vows he taken during their marriage and told her to remarry and have a good family, that's why he move on but never forgot Naira,that's tye main thing.

Kartik's was already obsessed over sirat , he just wanted to have an excuse by which he can remarry and at the same time carry the pretense of not being characterless. So he started hallucinating naira who agreed to his second innings (in the hallucinations). It was his own mind that wanted to be free from naira and her bond , pretty much like how munna mbbs saw gandhi.

Even if for once we assume that it was really naira's atma , still naira encouraging kartik's second marriage was a mark of HER (naira's own) love.

She proved her love by allowing him to pursue someone else , but kartik's mark of love depended on his response to this development. The test was whether he would really go ahead to pursue someone else now that he had naira's acceptance or remain loyal and devoted to his special girl. He terribly failed because like an animal he chose another partner.