In this day and age , poddar house is displaying stone age thought process. A person mistreated Charu but still somehow they come to agree that the marriage is appropriate. What else can be the last straw for these poddars to call out or break the potential marriage.
As for Charu , she too can't be sympathised with. Even she believes that the family's 'ijjat' is a function of her supposed 'purity'. In this day and age , girls from even rich families move out , work to become fully independent. Some leave the comforts of their father's mansion to live in a working women hostel so that they can live a life on their own terms. A big house doesn't always translate to a broad mind and material amenities don't always include freedom.
In what happened with her at the hands of neeraj she was really a victim , but being deliberately quiet and displaying such old mindset regarding her own rights is nothing but self abuse.
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