Originally posted by: Solitudelover
There is only person who was cheated in this mess in terms of marital cheating and that is Rohit.
EMA is a very wrong word to be used in context of Ab- Ar marriage where it was an agreed deal between both parties for a year where both parties said they will not have an haq on each other. Nothing more describes this than the fact that the day when Ar actually slipped in Ruhaani palace, Ab after witnessing it lied to save Ar in front of family and was absolutely ok with it and saying he does not owe her any details. That is not a relationship where sanctity of marriage is expected. Now that shiv shakti Or divorce talk happened after Ab fell in love is not a factor considering Ar was unaware of it.
Issue was that that he did not come clean with the fact that it was Ruhi (from Ar side he might not have said because it was Ruhi and the dynamics) and standing mute when Ruhi insulted Abhira and Abhira spoke back and even when she questioned Ar about it. It was a trust issue and the fact that she would have felt like a fool. Also if she knew chitwali was Ruhi, she would have guarded her heart better.
But there is a sanctity even in deal shaadi though.
If Ab had dated or had flings while being married to him, would he have been cool with it?
I'm sure not.
Ruhi was flirting and openly propositioning him and he allowed it.
Infact if she had just had a male "friend" like Ruhi , he'd not have accepted it.
So why should Abhira? Yet she dealt with him having a bff like Ruhi who kept on speaking in her matters.
She asked him repeatedly and he kept lying saying "dost" hai Ruhi when she was always more than that. Why did he lie. Abhira would have accepted his truth if he told her.
She definitely feels like a fool now for reprimanding Ruhi for interfering when all along she was viewed as the barrier between Ar and Ru after Rohit disappeared.
He had 10 months to tell her about his past. Initially when they were newly married he didn't tell her- ok. Once he confessed love and they were on the verge of getting back- he avoided it not to spoil her mood. But there were 10 months in between where Ab kept asking and he just lied.
He can't go back in time and change it. But that lie that went on for so long will weigh heavily on Abhira. It is keeping her from running to Armaan. She wants more than anything to be with him. But the fact that he lied about this when he really didn't need to will make her pause.
She understood he had a past. She'd have been able to help him if he had come clean regarding Ruhi and helped him break free of his guilt to Ruhi . But now its messy. She feels like he's an indecisive man who cant decide who he loves and leads people on coz thats exactly what he has done.
The way he behaved with Ab did give her hope of something real. He called her wife haq seh and behaved like a husband and not a friend, was always touchy and in her space, didn't talk about divorcing her even after Ruhi brought it up .
She would have prepared herself, been guarded if he had been transparent with her from get go.
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