Originally posted by: Pinecone
some good points. but I have some thoughts too.
he may not want to accept feelings for Abhira or put her over family. thats fine. thats his conditioning. its fair.
But why is he seeing Ruhi as some mahaan person when she hasnt even been hiding her intentions of kicking Abhira out ?!
She has literally told him she wants to see Abhira out of his life, planned to do so in front of eyes. so this whole blind trust on how Ruhi is so amazing and acchi, sacchi and good bahu is BS. She has not done anything good for anyone in family which stands out as being something memorable. ishe has simply been mute spectator to every injustice. And even if that is his expectation of good bahu- one who accepts things without arguing- even then, she is his brothers wife so he should never marry her unless he is accepting that he still has feelings for her. What is stopping him from simply saying NO to shaadi. just because she is acchi doesnt mean he needs to marry her now. why cant he simply say he doesnt want to marry his SIL. Just because Vidya and Kaveri approved the idea of this BIL-SIL marriage, he is acting like he is obliged to follow through. arey kyun?! and that too, he has been insensitive enough to announce it while Abhira was leaving so that she can hear, he didnt tell her about the "past" either which he thought she deserved to know for a few secs atleast, he didnt feel apologetic about anything! does he really have to plan marriage and marry in a rush within hours and days of divorcing Abhira. even if it was just a deal, is she so worthless in his eyes that he cant even wait a few days before he plans to marry another girl. kaisa insaan hai?!
if he supposedly agreed only coz "family" wants him to marry Ruhi- well there are a good number of anti-Ruhi seh shaadi people too. he can see that Madhav and MG, Manisha and Krish dont approve of him. So are they all inconsequential? only Vidya and Kaveri matter to him ig even when he can see that their decision is coming from a place of ego and not out of genuine concern for him because otherwise he would not be "pressured"
Armorons character is making no sense to me. he made Abhira feel like a bojh, everyone including him insulted her and her upbringing, he served her DP in the harshest way but in the end he is blaming her for "sacrificing" their equation and for "lying" . what was she supposed to save?! why should she not have expedited divorce knowing she is hated by all of them.
and even after knowing that she has been suffering, has financial issues, he still acts "irritated" at her and not concerned. the least he can do is feel guilty and apologize. but usmein bhi these people try to act mahaan by taking turns to offer her cheques, trying to do sifaarish for her naukri etc. Kyun?! can they just stay out of her way and simply feel sad and guilty for their own kartoots and that of Sanjay, Armaan's "friends"
After all that they have shown why should anyone in audience root for Armaan-Abhira. Aisa kya hain Armaan mein as a ML that audience should feel for him. they have gone overboard and made ML so unlikeable and even now instead of redeeming him they are still showing him as super unlikeable. I dont understand why.
considering Abhira's character basic essence she went out of his house for the first time with dignity as she can't fathom to be a burden on anyone, now entire situation is reversed in weeks, she is willing to be termed burden again. Even now when he is falling for her & is getting familiar with his feelings towards her, how can she forgive him so easily? 
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