Originally posted by: sharadrocks
Marriage is not a platonic relationship ..friends can be each other’s support systems and provide strength to each other ..but a marriage has to be more than that ..or it is not a marriage ..if a man is describing how he’s seeing their future together to his wife to be as some kind of Rajshri Films scene, there is something seriously wrong .:even Rajshri has graduated to showing more than mere domestic bliss …and this was a couple that was besotted at one point in time ..Armaan did see the two of them in domestically coded situations but he was also physically attracted to her ..this continued right into their respective marriages and there was residual feelings even till Ruhaani Palace ..if this same man is now telling the same woman that their marriage is going to be a means to provide peace and joy to the family, she is surely going to have issues .:..as would any normal red blooded woman …Ruhi may still go ahead in the hope that she would be able to make him fall in love with her again ..::even after all this, she is still talking about Abhira .:and the fact is he is not able to say he doesn’t miss her ..he only addresses the conflicts that she has left in her wake ..:but hope springs eternal ..and so Ruhi will marry Armaan maybe to become Madhav-Vidya 2.0..and there may well be a Rohit ..but their existence will remain sterile with one partner drowning himself in work and the other in maintaining her image of a perfect Bahu ..now if this is what marriage is, I don’t think any sane person would want to be part of such a relationship ..everyone wants everything ::everyone wants to be loved and wanted ..nothing wrong with that ..!
If it was a complete arranged marriage (like ruhi-rohit) then Ar's reasoning would make sense but after so many things he is saying this.....
It's clear that Ar saw ruhi as step to climb infront of Dadisa's eyes but when dadisa herself chose ruhi for rohit he backed out to save his image and continue giving indirect hopes to her by following everything and now finally when their marriage is confirmed he is saying all this so that Ruhi don't expect him to maker his priority as he will always choose his goody image.
Yeh aadmi ruhi ke liye sahi nahi h aur kahan hum ise Abhira ke sath ship karne ki soch rahe the......
Though Ruhi herself is no saint either but this post is all about confusedmaan.

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