Armaan Condition

It feels like i have a messy head cause even though i am disappointed with Armaan i still can somewhere understand his condition.

See Armaan in the start used to say it to Ruhi that we can't be one as Rohit is there but when he(Rohit) is gone and Ruhi tried to approach Armaan he still used to maintain distance but Ruhi constant nagging that You asked me to marry Rohit i did just cause you said it now i am a widow and nobody is there to love or take care of me has created a guilty mindset in Armaan mind that he is responsible for every bad thing happening in Ruhi life Ruhi being the constant highlight of the point that Abhira will leave in about 3 months and you will be single and me being widow because of you lets reconcile has actually seems good to him cause for the obvious reasons.

He is just opting for the easy way which was presented infront of him and making him not to ponder on things going deep inside his heart or head cause that means he will not be able to take easy way out and his messy life instead of sorting out will became all the more messy.

But I am disappointed because ek lawyer kaise hota hain uski expectations K.D Pathak ne badha di hain and Armaan being so dumb about how manipulative Ruhi is not able to figure out want me smack him so bad.

P.S i don't think if some how Ruhi get to know about Abhira feelings she will tell Armaan about it cause usse pata hain ki agar Armaan ko pata chala iss baare main toh Armaan will go for Abhira not for her.

What I feel is Armaan needs therapy..he has low self worth.. from childhood he is made to feel like a burden, mistake and he wants to be loved, accepted and cherished.. he feels like an outsider in his own family.. when someone says this mistake happened because of you, he doesn’t even think logically.. just accepts it.. if he was normal .. he would have held ruhi accountable for her actions… but because of his nature he feels guilty for her state…he now thinks Abhira will leave him after 3 months so he can marry Ruhi after that for her happiness.. he will break Abhira’s heart knowingly or unknowingly because of this .. but the guilt of breaking Abhira’s heart will break him completely… he is in a confused state, wants to do what is right for everyone and doesn’t know Abhira loves him as of when he made the promise to talk to his dadi about him & Ruhi.. he doesn’t know to set boundaries or say no.. he has to learn that.. we will see what happens..

I don’t know there is something else, what we are seeing is not true, the person who was sure not to peruse with Ruhi has told that repeatedly, somehow I feel if he is consenting to everything what Ruhi is saying it’s coz of some reason. It’s not love, it is something else.

Originally posted by: Why_though

What I feel is Armaan needs therapy..he has low self worth.. from childhood he is made to feel like a burden, mistake and he wants to be loved, accepted and cherished.. he feels like an outsider in his own family.. when someone says this mistake happened because of you, he doesn’t even think logically.. just accepts it.. if he was normal .. he would have held ruhi accountable for her actions… but because of his nature he feels guilty for her state…he now thinks Abhira will leave him after 3 months so he can marry Ruhi after that for her happiness.. he will break Abhira’s heart knowingly or unknowingly because of this .. but the guilt of breaking Abhira’s heart will break him completely… he is in a confused state, wants to do what is right for everyone and doesn’t know Abhira loves him as of when he made the promise to talk to his dadi about him & Ruhi.. he doesn’t know to set boundaries or say no.. he has to learn that.. we will see what happens..

I think that's why he is not even trying something to save himself or take a step towards Abhira. He is like my life is messy I don't want to make it all the way more complex. If Ruhi is happy getting married with me fine by me. Atleast she will stop her nagging and let me live at peace and If Abhira will leave Dadisa will be happy ultimately cause unki kattar dushman gayi and i will get my position and ofcourse true lobe of his toffee back.

Originally posted by: maahi11

I don’t know there is something else, what we are seeing is not true, the person who was sure not to peruse with Ruhi has told that repeatedly, somehow I feel if he is consenting to everything what Ruhi is saying it’s coz of some reason. It’s not love, it is something else.

Ofcourse it's not live its something else but i don't think he is planning something cause planning plotting iske bus ki baat nahi hain.

Wish makers will provide us with something concrete related to Armaan feeling it's hard to know what running in his head when his behaviour and our expectations doesn't match.

Originally posted by: KajalRai21

It feels like i have a messy head cause even though i am disappointed with Armaan i still can somewhere understand his condition.

See Armaan in the start used to say it to Ruhi that we can't be one as Rohit is there but when he(Rohit) is gone and Ruhi tried to approach Armaan he still used to maintain distance but Ruhi constant nagging that You asked me to marry Rohit i did just cause you said it now i am a widow and nobody is there to love or take care of me has created a guilty mindset in Armaan mind that he is responsible for every bad thing happening in Ruhi life Ruhi being the constant highlight of the point that Abhira will leave in about 3 months and you will be single and me being widow because of you lets reconcile has actually seems good to him cause for the obvious reasons.

He is just opting for the easy way which was presented infront of him and making him not to ponder on things going deep inside his heart or head cause that means he will not be able to take easy way out and his messy life instead of sorting out will became all the more messy.

But I am disappointed because ek lawyer kaise hota hain uski expectations K.D Pathak ne badha di hain and Armaan being so dumb about how manipulative Ruhi is not able to figure out want me smack him so bad.

P.S i don't think if some how Ruhi get to know about Abhira feelings she will tell Armaan about it cause usse pata hain ki agar Armaan ko pata chala iss baare main toh Armaan will go for Abhira not for her.

There is no value for lawyers,professor, ips officer, business man..At the end of the day sabko dumb and pendulam hi banna hai

Originally posted by: KajalRai21

Ofcourse it's not live its something else but i don't think he is planning something cause planning plotting iske bus ki baat nahi hain.

Wish makers will provide us with something concrete related to Armaan feeling it's hard to know what running in his head when his behaviour and our expectations doesn't match.

even in ghum Ishaan has cleared that riva is his friend and she can’t become the dil of the home. Yeh bhi bahut Jald palti marega

Originally posted by: maahi11

even in ghum Ishaan has cleared that riva is his friend and she can’t become the dil of the home. Yeh bhi bahut Jald palti marega

Palti mare but atleast clear toh kare chahta kya hain so that hum bhi flip naa ho ek din isko gali dete hain dusre din ispar daya aati hain.

Originally posted by: Vismaya03

There is no value for lawyers,professor, ips officer, business man..At the end of the day sabko dumb and pendulam hi banna hai

I wonder they like pendulum so much ki har ek show main inka male lead pendulum hain

Either he is unable to differentiate between right and wrong or he is waiting for a green signal from Abhira.

He is an adult and he is responsible for his each and every action.