Originally posted by: lagjagale
Yeah I more than understand the frustration, I haven't actually watched any complete episode in a while now, cause the marriage track was super depressing for me. I am sure they only did all of that to signal to this baby and stuff. I doubt she will keep talking to Nav's picture for long, like she is rarely ever shown talking to Naira's picture and that's her mother.
Abhi has no expectations for a while now, but yeah, everytime he feels like things are slowly sorting out, there is another issue waiting for him. Abhi will never stop pining after Ak, but I think in some ways he is just trying to do his duty now. He doesn't view the relationship as anything but that. He loves her and his duty is to give her love. He has given up on having any real expectations from her from a long time ago. Ak will have no realizations. At most she will become Akshu who loves Abhi and that's all he ever wanted anyways.
For him its very simple. Akshu has always been some glass doll and he has always treated her like that. But before he had expectations for himself. He felt he deserved more so fought for it. He felt his life meant more so fought for it. He felt that if she actually understands him they can have a happy life together. But he doesn't think that way anymore. In his anger he broke his glass doll. Now no matter what he does she will not come back together. Sometimes he still treats her with some expectations like during custody track where he was asking her to see his pain. But after Abhir's rejection and Ak's lecture on love, he has stopped doing that also. Now even in his own mind, he is secondary. His feelings are secondary. What matters more is taking care of Akshu. In some ways, he thinks that if he is delicate and careful, he will actually be able to put her back together again. He will still have to be careful after that, but atleast his glass doll will be whole again.
So I didn't watch those episodes as well. I went off to grieve the end of Abhira. But after I made my peace, I saw some clips on SM and in the convo, she actually said that you know I talk to you every day, it's our thing now and now our love baby is going to be here. It was a scene of disaster, and I would not recommend watching it. After that Akshara became irrelevant to me.
My issue was how she encouraged Abhi when he actually had no expectations on the marriage. She said his feelings of love are important. She started doing oye hoyee with him. She made him feel like it was going to be like before. He was very reluctant before but by the time of marriage, his eyes were sparkling with hope and then it was a drop. It all looks sick now given that she actually told Nav's photo that she will try her best to learn how to love like Abhi and that she still loves Nav. This is just wrong from her side. Why she did it, I don't know. This makes MJ right and also Muski to some extent.
Akshu would have never gone this far to destroy someone. and I am not referring to her moving on with Nav or her baby but what she is doing to Abhi. If you really moved on you would concentrate on your partner and husband. Love is supposed to make you feel whole, and she claimed Nav's love fixed her. But I couldn't find that fixed person anywhere. I was waiting for her but don't want it anymore. It is too hurtful.
But I do agree that I also feel what's driving Abhi - is this regret that his actions made Akshara what she has become today. and he is giving his best. But what about Akshara? If we are not getting realization, at least we should get her sensible judgement in not putting the person who loves you in this situation. That is why I think they are going to use Abhir as in precap to force the marriage and show that Akshara would have never taken the decision, if not for Abhir's erratic behaviour.
Edited by Emeralues - 2 years ago
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