MyThoughts- Epi 1001

A beautiful set of wishes are broken, a beautiful family is broken, a mother smiling all the time for last 6 years inspite of living in a social- legal marriage is shattered, a father who cared for a son, he was not father to, from whom his son never ran away, rather ran towards even when AbhiN acted he does not want Abhir in his life, is going to die, for one person who is BAAP of a child.कोई बडी बात नही. बस थोडासा victimhood और care दिखादो..फिर तो आनेहीवाली है junior अक्षरा बिर्ला...

It is highly unlikely, but is Abhir going to find his way back to AK or wll grow apart from her? Mostly, every reference of last 7 months is going to be wiped off or become irrelevant, same as AbhiN, still, Sharma family nameplate showed three creacks, with AK, Abhir, AbhiN separated physically, yet united emotionally, indicating AK- Abhir separation too.

KV: Post- leap, I hv loved KV's attitude overall. His anger always feels justified and reflects the highly sensitive heart that he has.He was fire today.

MJ: Such a flipper. AR picked that up. She was not ready to believe that AK is sick, but then said let's not tell her about Abhir as she get more sick. The reality is she does not want AK to know that the Birla khoon has run away from BH. Ha.. Ha.. Now KV became बेटा to MJ. I am so delighted, I will be saved from this after week or two. Yayyy..!

AR, the new doormat: KV was right. AbhiM needed to be slapped, but AR saved him. I feel in her heart, he has taken place as her would be husband. Don't worry AR. You are soon going to be paid back by breaking the engagement with you. वैसे शायद makers तुम्हे भी मार दे...then AbhiM will not be blamed too. Free to unite with his eternal love. AR behaved as Birla loyalist today. If not AK, it was her duty to tell Goenkas.

AbhiM: What was the look AbhiM giving to KV? Confused? Blank? I became confused looking at his face. Is it just me? I feel in few instances I can't read AbhiM's emotions. I feel clueless. He said to KV that being Mamu, he is so worried for Abhir, imagine how much him being Abhir's 'BAAP' would be worried. So, makers are saying concern intensity is directly proportional to number of chromosomes/DNA percent you share with the kid. तब तो किसीको बच्चे adopt ही नही करने चाहिये. वो तो बिलकुल कोई chromosome share नही करते बच्चे से. तो उन्हे तो कुछ भी नही लगेगा बच्चा खो गया तो...

I am wondering where AbhiM's sixth sense went? He had found MJ using his sixth sense that he gets by holding that locket and saying, ' Mahadev'. In the court when Abhir came, only AK and AbhiM felt his presence via shared chromosome based sixth sense. AbhiN just saw him. But, then why AbhiM did not get it, when Abhir left home, was in danger? Forget about sixth sense, being a BAAP, he could not even figure out logically where Abhir would have gone? To AK- AbhiN, Abhir has said he would run away never to comeback if they send him to docman, could confuse them, but what abt AbhiM?

AK- AbhiN: Finally, not via chromosome based sixth sense, but AbhiN figured out that his nikkeji can be in danger. AK aced in her performance as a desperate mother. The way AbhiN is taking care of her, supporting her in such a difficult situation, the way she is still dependent on him, wanting him around or should say knowing that he will be by her side, made me think. Can this bond be broken even by death? Does this bond even need physical intimacy? I always felt AK- Abhir- AbhiN relation does not need a wordly relationship tag. Be it AK- AbhiN or Abhir- AbhiN, they are not just husband and wife, or son- father, they are separate, yet one, three bodies, one heart. Before dying, I want AbhiN to realize that he made a mistake, I want him (in monologue) to apologize to Abhir for what he said. I know what he said to Abhir was to make Abhir's life better in BH, as they had to follow the court verdict as court had said that not following it's direction would mean stripping of all rights of AK.

Yesterday's post:

My yesterday's post was edited as I mentioned characters of other shows and the show names which is perfectly fine. I did not know about the rule. Hence summarizing what I wanted to say under right yet wrong and wrong yet right section.

logical or illogical, audience gets emotionally attached to the pair which is served, made to believe is the lead or soul love pair. It has happened with me in context of other serial. Hence, I know what Abhira fans feel. I do not think most of the Abhira fans want reunion as it is. They want both the characters, AK- AbhiM to change, learn, redeem, apologize and reunite. As per them ABHIRA is a passionate love story of two characters with flaws. Under the surface of their fights, lies deep eternal love. ABHIRA was served as lead pair story, hence their shippers want to see them together and they are not wrong. I think makers played wrong with them. I do not think they would hv hated AbhiN, if he had played cupid, or just let AK go back to her twinflame, after few weeks of separation, redemption drama, or had remained friend of AK, her supporter. It would hv been easy for AbhiN fans too to bid him adiues. I personally would hv loved AK helping AbhiN get his lady love. That would hv been such a beautiful friendship bond. But makers made AK fall in love, confess to AbhiN, TBH already ending twinflame concept of ABHIRA. Even when AK did puja marriage with AbhiN, there was a point of return as a subtle shade was given to the scene that AK is doing it from her brain and not heart. She asked god to give her strength to fulfill this Rishta with all her heart which meant in consciousness atleast her heart was not in it ( for me AK's heart had already accepted the marriage with AbhiN long back subconsciously).

Where ABHIRA went wrong for me and reached a point of no return:

1. Even though I am Navir Bond fan, I had question that Abhir has. Why his Dadda left him and his mom. To find the answer, I hv seen Abhira episodes to get the context. The way AbhiM made AK confess, even though, I did not agree with it, it was logical for me as then even AK was in love with AbhiM but was being stubborn and being illogically sacrificing. They both were immature, but still seemed very much in genuine love and they had complete potential to evolve into beautiful, supporting pair as individually, both AbhiM and AK were good human beings.

2. I also understood the post-marriage hiccoughs ABHIRA went through with a large family dynamics. There were beautiful up and down in their relationship while handling the life complexities. Most loved scene for me was AK and AbhiM sleeping on the couch in the hospital when mimi fell sick.

3. However, even their premarriage I was seeing redflags, but they were too subtle, ignorable.

The first Redflag for me was when BP fell ill and AK said, her love should not hurt her family when AbhiM said why she can't prioritize his love over family just like him. Still it was minor one. Then redflag intensity went on increasing for me. In Vasant zhoola (I may get name wrong) where AK got hurt due to anger insensitivity of AbhiM, then AbhiM throwing things at AK for AK comparing him with Harsh, AbhiM divorcing AK after she left him for 1 year. Hence, slowly I started feeling that what I was seeing as intense love, is actually AbhiM's obsession. I started seeing gaslighting, manipulation in AbhiM's actions as time passed. It was not a one episode realization.

4. After first divorce, AK herself clearly verbalized her lack of trust in their relationship, her extreme hesitancy to return back to BH. But, still her love overpowered the fears and the way AbhiM heard her patiently before their gruhpravesh was ray of hope for me. After 1st divorce, AK was always on her toes, always guarded, sharing only few moments of deep love and trust. She herself had said it we fail in second chance given to marriage, then there is no returning back to it.

5. Then the next big redflag was AbhiM not caring for AK for 7 months after white day. I gave it to AbhiM even for white day as the situation was too intense for highly emotionaly fragile person that AbhiM is, but could not forget those 7 months.

6. Even during Kasauli, he was great coparent, even then I was fine with ABHIRA ship if the change had remained consistent and from deep within. But, the biggest redflag came when AbhiM decided to fight the custody battle, took away a 6 year old child from his mother, kept him with himself not caring for his happiness, was point of no return. AbhiM turned completely devil for me, even worse than biggest evil. For me it is futile to make MJ responsible for actions of a 40 year old father. Now, no amount of redemption, him caring for AK- Abhir- Muskan post AbhiN death, I would absolve him, forget ABHIRA.

7. There are movies where unintentional killers of lovers or husbands are absolved of their crime, and are chosen as life partners by the FL. For me crime is a crime (even AR's was) and hence, even when I feel bad for Neil, AR not getting happiness is her Karma payback for me.

8. On top of it, AK has already confessed her timeless, eternal love for AbhiN, both in consciousness and in drunken state. AK- AbhiM rishta will be अटूट due to stars now, not love filled hearts and feelings. She choosing AbhiM via memory loss is not twinflame love. Twinflame is when one never ever gets the same feelings for anyone else than their twinflame, which is not the case with AK now. If she goes back to AbhiM with AbhiN's memory intact, that would make her a flipper, promise breaker, and non trustworthy as a love partner.

As per me, the story is completely messed up for any shipper now.

9. Logically speaking, AK should be fighting for Abhir's custody even after AbhiN is gone. I hv asked for AbhiM's redemption same number of times, people hv asked for AbhiN's death. Finally, when we getting one, we will get whitwashing ( not redemption) too. AK as promised should be in love with AbhiN everafter and post- redemption, AbhiM can coparent Abhir with her, or even if married, it should be social-legal marriage. I know I am asking for too much, but बोलनेमे क्या जाता है...

Totally agree. AbhiM reached point of no return by separating a 6 yr old from mom and by ignoring the pain of the innocent kid.

He is so evil for me right now that the white day deeds by him seems less now.

But I know I will surely be disappointed by the jhol writers who will reunite victim and abuser in the name of jholmate. In the first place how come a creator of soulmates can make the soulmates such villains to each other and ruin them. Unbelievable!!

Are they back to Udaipur ? What is the point of going to Kasauli

Writers have lost it and still I saw shooting going on at Kasauli set

Illogical writing spoiled the show I am not at all bothered what AK does whom does she marry serials are all regressive because the trp audience wants it to be like that women s freedom is an illusion to majority of the people still when women gets abused people says it is the woman’s fault

first and foremost whether its memory lost or whatever ak and abhm are not united so all the thoughts

also if ak ever go back to abhi after promising abn or confessing his love for him .that doesnt just mean ak changed. it also means even after living with abn her love for him was just shallow and it surfaced only after abhi came back. much of her love confession was related to hate she is carrying for abhi and when that hate dissolves , love for abhinav will also dissolve .and its just one dimensions of ak action if she goes back

It’s sad to think about her going back to Abhimanyu. Self respect of a woman has been reduced to nothing in this show and makes it seem like everything the guy did is everyday normal business. As per the writers, its okay for a husband to treat his wife so poorly, and after everything make her return back to him? It’s regressive at the most. It’s also sad to see alpha male type of characters being unnecessarily hyped, over softer sweeter guys like Abhinav, who have to unnecessarily die just so others can get the sympathy. I wonder when would be the next time Ak gets another divorce from Abhim? Next month or next six months? And again get humiliated because the guy has anger issues and can do just anything when angry, and his behavior just getting normalised as the most ordinary behavior ever. Will they get another Abhinav to save the day then? Even in today’s episode he had no regrets and was shown getting angry on Kairav instead of accepting the negligence they showed towards the child? Dude, are you even in that position? His character does not seem to change, he seems to only show anger and not accept his faults. Grow up and take some responsibilities, own up to your mistakes, accept that your mother is wrong (although she is much more than just wrong, vile at this point). I loved the line Ak says in precap, bas responsibility leni hai nibjani nahi, that literal sums up his situation. But alas, he will be forgiven easily in few weeks without even trying much.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

Are they back to Udaipur ? What is the point of going to Kasauli

Writers have lost it and still I saw shooting going on at Kasauli set

Illogical writing spoiled the show I am not at all bothered what AK does whom does she marry serials are all regressive because the trp audience wants it to be like that women s freedom is an illusion to majority of the people still when women gets abused people says it is the woman’s fault

Don’t tell me they’ll go back to Kasauli after Ruhi tells them Abhir went to Kasauli 😂

Originally posted by: R.G.C

It’s sad to think about her going back to Abhimanyu. Self respect of a woman has been reduced to nothing in this show and makes it seem like everything the guy did is everyday normal business. As per the writers, its okay for a husband to treat his wife so poorly, and after everything make her return back to him? It’s regressive at the most. It’s also sad to see alpha male type of characters being unnecessarily hyped, over softer sweeter guys like Abhinav, who have to unnecessarily die just so others can get the sympathy. I wonder when would be the next time Ak gets another divorce from Abhim? Next month or next six months? And again get humiliated because the guy has anger issues and can do just anything when angry, and his behavior just getting normalised as the most ordinary behavior ever. Will they get another Abhinav to save the day then? Even in today’s episode he had no regrets and was shown getting angry on Kairav instead of accepting the negligence they showed towards the child? Dude, are you even in that position? His character does not seem to change, he seems to only show anger and not accept his faults. Grow up and take some responsibilities, own up to your mistakes, accept that your mother is wrong (although she is much more than just wrong, vile at this point). I loved the line Ak says in precap, bas responsibility leni hai nibjani nahi, that literal sums up his situation. But alas, he will be forgiven easily in few weeks without even trying much.

@bold - So true. Abhimanyu keeps accusing Akshara of running away from her problems. Not owning up one's mistakes is worse than running from ones problems. Atleast when running away from everyone, Akshara's intent was not to run away from her mistakes. She went away because he in-laws, husband and her sister accused her and threw her away. Before marriage, she stayed away from Goenkas because Aarohi didn't like her. She went away to Mauritius for Abhimanyu's surgery. The real running away is being done by Abhimanyu. He doesn't face his faults. Nor does he understand the enormity of his stupid actions. He is an expert at running away from his faults by not facing them, by blaming others for his mistakes and perpetually playing the victim card. I liked what Kairav told him today. A kid is not a property that can be divided saying this is my haq. Relationships are not based on haq or khoon. They are built on the foundation of mutual respect and trust. Unless there a 180 degree change in his character, I don't want Abhira to happen. Else it will be a great insult to Akshara and all those women who choose to move out from toxic relationships.