Can they really not make any sense in this show - Page 3

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I can say the same for Abhim, lol. He is really situational and changes as per convenience, so its a matter of perspective in that case😆. Even if you think they didn’t have intentions, Abhir already got to know, and they were obliged to tell anyways, because at some point or the other Abhir would have brought up the question. She acted upon her fears which are clearly coming true, Abhir is getting affected by Birla household and the impact does not seem positive so far😆. Its also not like she never tried telling, why do we keep forgetting that😆, she did try but Abhim did not try to hear her out, we kya karti peeche peeche bhagti firti? Lol. I will agree that it was wrong of her hiding it when they met face to face 6 years later, but I can’t even blame her there. She was traumatised by her past and afraid of the future too, afraid that her child would be snatched away from her. Usko to yahi laga hoga 6 years back that Abhim nahi chahta anything to do with her or the child. Why she felt that? Because its a TV show and she heard Abhim saying that over call, and in TV shows that is enough to stir drama😆. Ab ismein uski kya galti, and 6years mein jab usne apni family bana lii hai alag se kya karegi, darr to lagega hi ki bachha chin jaega, bachha bure environment mein chala jaega, ye sab to kafi possible cases hain😆. Does it mean Abhim does not deserve to know? No, parr jaise aapko Ak pe trust nhi hai waise hi Ak ke for sure Abhim pe trust nhi raha hoga, lol

Its fair to say AK doesn't trust Abhimanyu

Why did she fear that they would snatch abhir? Abhimanyu dropped the custody case indefinitely...AK took off to Kasuali and then manipulated Abhimanyu to not tell Abhir till 'sahi waqt'

If anyone should have been afraid of being eliminated... it should have been Abhimanyu. AK was playing her game very well. But MG ruined her game

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Its fair to say AK doesn't trust Abhimanyu

Why did she fear that they would snatch abhir? Abhimanyu dropped the custody case indefinitely...AK took off to Kasuali and then manipulated Abhimanyu to not tell Abhir till 'sahi waqt'

If anyone should have been afraid of being eliminated... it should have been Abhimanyu. AK was playing her game very well. But MG ruined her game

Originally posted by: R.G.C

He did not drop, he paused it😅. And when I say she feared it was before Abhim getting to know about Abhir, she hid the truth because she was afraid Abhim would snatch Abhir from her upon knowing the truth. Also, no she did not manipulate or anything at all, Abhim ko kaise koi manipulate karega, wo itna impatient ho gaya tha ki MuKa ki shadi ke beech mein Ak ko infact pressurise karta hai to tell the truth, so Idk where that is coming from😆. Ak was completely there at least ki she did not want Abhir to know things at such a young age, agar wo itni hi buri aur manipulative hoti to wo easily Abhir ko WD ke bare mein bata ke manipulate kar sakti thi😆. She is stupid in many ways, I can agree, but manipulative to ek hi insaan hai abhi iss story mein🙈

Yes he dropped or paused it indefinitely.....which means that he had started to consider other options. It means the same thing right....that he had no intentions to "snatch"

What???? AK didn't want to tell abhir at a young age? So abhir should be of what age to know who is actual father is? So he was better off to know this at 10, 13, 16, 20, 30???

Yes Abhir would be so proud of his mom that she has kept him in dark till that age.

Abhimanyu was impatient that's why he kept falling for 'sahi waqt' for a month...yeah makes sense. Any father should wait for months and years to tell their kid the truth....as long as it suits the FL.

Yeah AK was so totally truthful to Abhimanyu about Abhir after the leap. Of course Abhimanyu would have died and would have had no knowledge about his son.

I don't know what to call people who fool lie and play with people's emotions .....other than manipulative. Since AK did all of the above, i think she manipulated a lot and is still doing it

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Yes he dropped or paused it indefinitely.....which means that he had started to consider other options. It means the same thing right....that he had no intentions to "snatch"

What???? AK didn't want to tell abhir at a young age? So abhir should be of what age to know who is actual father is? So he was better off to know this at 10, 13, 16, 20, 30???

Yes Abhir would be so proud of his mom that she has kept him in dark till that age.

Abhimanyu was impatient that's why he kept falling for 'sahi waqt' for a month...yeah makes sense. Any father should wait for months and years to tell their kid the truth....as long as it suits the FL.

Yeah AK was so totally truthful to Abhimanyu about Abhir after the leap. If course Abhimanyu would have died and would have had no knowledge about his son.

I don't know what to call people who fool lie and play with people's emotions others.....other than manipulative. Since AK did all of the above, i think she manipulated a lot and is still doing it

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Again he did not drop, there is a difference between dropping a case and pausing it😆. Also I never said it was his intention to snatch, all I said was that I understand Ak being afraid that he might snatch, considering their history and her lack of trust. Abhir didn’t question his mom when she told this to him directly that he is too young😆, so pride ka to I can’t tell, we can ask the writers about that, but Abhir trusted his mother at least that much I can say😆. He was intrigues to find out but that was because he wanted to ask his bio dad, why he was not with his mom, as he mentions to Ruhi in one of the epis. I also don’t know what to call people jo kisi aur ki shadi ke beech mein apni ex wife ko bole ki nhi tum abhi batao sach, other than impatient😆. I never said Ak was truthful to Abhim post 6 years leap, aapne padhe nhi mere comments sahi se maybe, I even said that she should have not hidden it when they came face to face again, but my point was that I do understand her pov that she was driven by fear, and bhale hi Abhim ka intention kuch aur kyun na ho, eventually hua to wahi, Abhir was taken away from her. And I don’t care about anybody in the show at this point, but Abhir deserves better. He clearly wants his mom by his side all the time, and is afraid to lose her thats why asks Ak to not tell anyone about them meeting. The child is suffering and nobody cares about that. Sab apni apni ego trip pe hain so iske aage main kya hi bolu😆. Taki Abhim ko pain na ho, Manjari is inflicting pain on the poor kid, mumta hai, grandmumta ki kami hai bas😆. At this moment koun khush hai iss show mein? Bachha depression mein chala gaya hai, Abhim Dada banne ke chakkar mein Docman ka darja bhi kho diya hai, Akshnav ne apna bachha kho diya hai, and Manjari mata to constant anxiety mein rehti hai ab😆. Ab itna mess sametna kafi mushkil hai writers ke liye

Sorry I can't follow lots of Hindi written in English

abhir is in depression...he is away from his mother. That is understandable...not just abhir any child would be the same. Can his mother play a role? Yes she can. Manjiri has issues with her but not Abhimanyu. She can find a way with him to help him adjust. What is she doing? "Abhinav pita hai" on repeat mode. Is it helping abhir - no? Should Abhimanyu accept AK's raag that Abhimanyu is not Abhir's father? Not at all

Who needs to change? AK

And why was AK so afraid that Abhir will be snatched? Guilty conscious pricks the mind. If AK was a reasonable person she wouldn't be afraid or have had any fear. She is where she is because of her own superiority complex

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Sorry I can't follow lots of Hindi written in English

abhir is in depression...he is away from his mother. That is understandable...not just abhir any child would be the same. Can his mother play a role? Yes she can. Manjiri has issues with her but not Abhimanyu. She can find a way with him to help him adjust. What is she doing? "Abhinav pita hai" on repeat mode. Is it helping abhir - no? Should Abhimanyu accept AK's raag that Abhimanyu is not Abhir's father? Not at all

Who needs to change? AK

And why was AK so afraid that Abhir will be snatched? Guilty conscious pricks the mind. If AK was a reasonable person she wouldn't be afraid or have had any fear. She is where she is because of her own superiority complex

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I’ll try to write more in English, sorry about that😆. Easy said than done, even if Ak and Abhim try to work out things, Manju’s constant interference would continuously bring distrust. So first and foremost something should be done about her, and that only Abhim can do. About Ak reiterating Abhinav as Abhir’s father, that is Abhir’s reality, same as nobody can deny that Abhim is Abhir’s bio dad; no one can even deny Abhinav’s role in Abhir’s life, but still Manju keeps doing that😆. All the problem at this moment is Manju who is too interfering, all three parents were peacefully co-parenting in Kasauli, all 3 had started accepting each other’s importance in Abhir’s life, then a storm came called Manju, she unnecessarily tried manipulating Abhinav to leave his family because madam assumed something and made up a story in her head😆. No matter how much anybody tries its impossible for the three parents to co parent as long as Manju is there in their lives. Its not unreasonable from what I see😆, Ak’s fears developed based on how she was treated in the past. Between any separated couple, custody is always a fear, that kind of fear is natural not unreasonable, lol.

Well Manjiri is well within her right to ignore Abhinav's role in Abhir’s life. She cannot be forced to acknowledge it. And AK needs to accept it. Why is it so important for them that Manjiri must accept Abhinav in Abhir’s life? Let her be....each to their own. Manjiri doesnt like Abhinav AK and will never bother too. AK should not bother what Manjiri thinks. Why should Manjiri go according to AK? And vice-a-versa. But AK has this obsessive need to make every one agree with her. Again this is superiority complex.

Yeah she got some silly ideas and got told off too. No one agreed to what she said....but the culprit that day was not Manjiri. It was MG. So we cannot hold Manjiri responsible for custody since MG's condition was ridiculous to the core. Abhimanyu and Manjri were right to let the court decide since AK agreed with MG.

In Kasauli the three were not coparenting...sorry but it was more like AK telling Abhimanyu what to do and not do in abhir's life. He was not in a father's capacity because AK was making sure she has the control in her hand. Co parenting means both parents decide for the kid...here AK was not even acknowledging that Abhimanyu has equal right in abhir's life. She took the shot and told Abhimanyu to go along. So no that is not coparenting.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Well Manjiri is well within her right to ignore Abhinav's role in Abhir’s life. She cannot be forced to acknowledge it. And AK needs to accept it. Why is it so important for them that Manjiri must accept Abhinav in Abhir’s life? Let her be....each to their own. Manjiri doesnt like Abhinav AK and will never bother too. AK should not bother what Manjiri thinks. Why should Manjiri go according to AK? And vice-a-versa. But AK has this obsessive need to make every one agree with her. Again this is superiority complex.

Yeah she got some silly ideas and got told off too. No one agreed to what she said....but the culprit that day was not Manjiri. It was MG. So we cannot hold Manjiri responsible for custody since MG's condition was ridiculous to the core. Abhimanyu and Manjri were right to let the court decide since AK agreed with MG.

In Kasauli the three were not coparenting...sorry but it was more like AK telling Abhimanyu what to do and not do in abhir's life. He was not in a father's capacity because AK was making sure she has the control in her hand. Co parenting means both parents decide for the kid...here AK was not even acknowledging that Abhimanyu has equal right in abhir's life. She took the shot and told Abhimanyu to go along. So no that is not coparenting.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Now you lost me🤣, take care

Why? Why is it so important for everyone to have Manjiri acknowledge abhinav? If someone does not like you and wants to ignore you..you let them be.

What is this obsession of Manjiri acknowledging abhinav?

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Why? Why is it so important for everyone to have Manjiri acknowledge abhinav? If someone does not like you and wants to ignore you..you let them be.

What is this obsession of Manjiri acknowledging abhinav?

Manjari and Akshara both are hell bent on giving all rights to the one whom they love on front face of each other by fighting and shouting like crazy. Neither Akshara wants to acknowledge Abhimanyu as abhir’s pita nor manjari wants to acknowledge abhinav as abhir’s pita. Both are exactly same so doesn’t want to acknowledge both of them as “pita”. Abhimanyu ko abhir ka “pita” Manne mai Akshara ki ego mari ja rahi hai and abhinav ko abhir ka “pita” Manne mai manjari ki ego mari ja rahi hai. Both are full on egoistic still calls themselves “Maa” . Shame on these 2 disgusting ladies🤮🤮🤮