Why is Abhir's pain not visible ??.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Everytime I see the episode....my heart breaks for Abhir...every damn day. His expressions , his confusion , his helplessness , his adjustment.......its all just too painful to watch.


The happy cheerful kid has turned silent and noone cares !!!! How can Manjiri call herself a mother or AbhiM himself a father when a child's pain doesnt seem to affect these two people ????


Manjiri's logic for everything is Abhir wont get acquainted to their house . Is it some boarding school for Abhir ? The child's face is so readbable and yet she chooses to ignore it. Why is it that her son's happiness is more important than her grandson's ? What scales are these ? Just bcz Abhir is a child....he is supposed to be forced and he is supposed to be adjusting. Adults cant be adults but they can force a child to grow up !!!


Even AbhiM as a father has failed ! Just loving yuor child is not enough to be a father. If you cant see ur son's pain.....if you cant understand what ur child is going through......you shouldnt claim to be a parent !!! AbhiM brought home a kid and gave half of the parenting to his mother ......not caring fr his child's well being. He can see his mother's insecurity but not his own child's suffering or change in his behaviour or maybe he chooses not to.


Whatever it is , its just sad that noone cares for a kid and he is left to wipe his own tears at this age !!!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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KM's laadla got the trophy called abhir to keep and showcase in their house, so she's more than happy to look the other way whilst her grandson pines for his mother so long as her son gets to keep the trophy. Abhir should learn to adjust and compromise on his feelings because of course maata manjiri's insecurities and her son's happiness is more important.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Trophies are not supposed to have feelings !

They behave as if , Akshu snatched the child from them, Abhir was in Akshu's womb not the other way around , there should be a limit for cringe felling


Manjari's precious Trophy, all the feeling are for AbhiM's Mumma

All pain belongs to them

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Posted: 2 years ago
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While on a trip to a hill station - sometime around elections I simply asked a local - which leader do they support - he said “all are same, they would care about the public only after they are done fighting amongst themselves!” His words kind of stuck with me - here too - adults will worry about kids only if they are done quarreling themselves. It’s pathetic how they are showing parents in this show.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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The effect of Abhimanyu Birla. That man turns the happiest of people into shadows of their past selves just show he could them off as lifeless trophies to his mother.


The before and after difference is not even subtly portrayed. Its so in your face. The child that Akshnav raised vs the child that Dada and Dida are raising.


Unconditional love vs conditional acceptance.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Wonder what happened to the Soul connection now? Can't Abhimanyu feel Abhir's pain anymore?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snowfally

Wonder what happened to the Soul connection now? Can't Abhimanyu feel Abhir's pain anymore?

Incidentally he could only feel the pain as long as Abhir was Abhir Sharma. Jabse Abhir Birla ban gaya.. All connections are blocked. No wonder Birlas are such a dysfunctional family. They cannot feel/have no empathy for each others' pain.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Because a 60+ old grown ass up woman pain n insecurities is what all matters to Abhimanyu.He can see his mother's insecurities but can't see his son's pain n sadness n how he has lost his smile.And then he calls himself as a father.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snowfally

Wonder what happened to the Soul connection now? Can't Abhimanyu feel Abhir's pain anymore?

He has stronger soul connection to his Mumma

🤣flow of feelings are stronger there

Insecurities of his Mom, pain of his mom & his own pain

Dard .... too much Dard,,

Shall " too much how much Dard!:🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Snowfally

Wonder what happened to the Soul connection now? Can't Abhimanyu feel Abhir's pain anymore?


Soul connection comes per convenience 😂

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