Should Akshara be blamed (Clips Added) ... Poll conclusion Pg. 17 - Page 2

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

I will not lie but when this happened I was angry with her for being impulsive and putting hers, Neils and babys life in danger. She really acts dumb at times.

But when I saw from real perspective then I thought death is something in gods hand. We do take wrong decisions sometimes or maybe it's not really wrong but at that time we felt this is right and went for it. No one is responsible for anyone's death.

She definitely didn't deserved the punishment she got but either way I think she could have had heart to heart conversation with Manjiri, Aarohi when they were in right state of mind in Kasauli. So I Voted 3 here.

Ps: But what Manjiri is doing to AbhiNav makes me wonder if she really loved Neil. Even she did same to him when his biological truth was out by making his own father hate him.

Agreed. I too feel her decision was impulsive and impractical- considering the goons were more in number and also armed. However, it was Neil’s decision too - who was well aware of the situation and also in a better emotional state(as he wasn’t hormonal due to pregnancy or anything) to decide for himself.

And I feel the only people she may ever need to have a heartfelt conversation regarding not prioritizing her own self are BP and Abhimanyu(after he has redeemed himself for how he treated her then) - because these two are the only people I have seen from both families who have at least shown concern for Akshara’s well-being at times. And most of all with a grown up Abhir.

I do not think she needs to apologize to Manjiri or Arohi since the only reason she got out of the car and risked her own life was when she saw Neil in danger.

I do not know how makers think family behaves - but its weird that its been 6 months and more than 6 years in the show but no one has even asked Akshara her side of the story - maybe they are saving everything for the day she lawyers up to fight her own case - but I think viewers such as me may lose interest in the drama by the time they show it!

Before anyone is made to apologize - I think it makes sense to hear their side of the story and first determine if they are even guilty. Abhimanyu lost 6 years with his son because of his mistake.

The only one who may need an apology from her - whose life changed because of her decision is Abhir - because his and his twin’s lives were also risked along with her own!

Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

No, I don't believe she should apologize because she didn't intend for it to happen. She was naive but had good intentions when suggesting the girls should be saved. Neil, too, was a responsible adult who made his own choice despite knowing the risks. Akshara couldn't predict the future and did her best to seek help. Additionally, another reason not to apologize is Manjari's rude and selfish interference, where she disregarded Akshara's losses when she wanted to see Neil one last time.

Oh goshh! She seems to have gone through alot! I couldn't watch all the episodes there but that's quite funny that Dr. Birla still feel she needs to apologize and beg for her forgiveness...

Lol.. Are you telling me she started dreaming of AbhiRa + Abhir ki family without forgiving Akshu 🤪

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Oh goshh! She seems to have gone through alot! I couldn't watch all the episodes there but that's quite funny that Dr. Birla still feel she needs to apologize and beg for her forgiveness...

Lol.. Are you telling me she started dreaming of AbhiRa + Abhir ki family without forgiving Akshu 🤪

woh kyun forgive karega when akshu ne galti hi nahi ki....

he started dreaming of abhira + Abhir even without realising his blunders...😂

ab bhi bhool jaata hai ki he is aadha egi and aadha gussa...😂

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Oh goshh! She seems to have gone through alot! I couldn't watch all the episodes there but that's quite funny that Dr. Birla still feel she needs to apologize and beg for her forgiveness...

Lol.. Are you telling me she started dreaming of AbhiRa + Abhir ki family without forgiving Akshu 🤪

Today was particularly puzzling as Abhimanyu asked once again, "Have you apologized to mom?", despite Akshara is dealing with bigger problems like her separation from her son, Abhimanyu remains trapped in the same loop of his ego. Even after all these years, he continues to complain that she doesn't understand his pain or perspective though he lacks empathy.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Agreed. I too feel her decision was impulsive and impractical- considering the goons were more in number and also armed. However, it was Neil’s decision too - who was well aware of the situation and also in a better emotional state(as he wasn’t hormonal due to pregnancy or anything) to decide for himself.

And I feel the only people she may ever need to have a heartfelt conversation regarding not prioritizing her own self are BP and Abhimanyu(after he has redeemed himself for how he treated her then) - because these two are the only people I have seen from both families who have at least shown concern for Akshara’s well-being at times. And most of all with a grown up Abhir.

I do not think she needs to apologize to Manjiri or Arohi since the only reason she got out of the car and risked her own life was when she saw Neil in danger.

I do not know how makers think family behaves - but its weird that its been 6 months and more than 6 years in the show but no one has even asked Akshara her side of the story - maybe they are saving everything for the day she lawyers up to fight her own case - but I think viewers such as me may lose interest in the drama by the time they show it!

Before anyone is made to apologize - I think it makes sense to hear their side of the story and first determine if they are even guilty. Abhimanyu lost 6 years with his son because of his mistake.

The only one who may need an apology from her - whose life changed because of her decision is Abhir - because his and his twin’s lives were also risked along with her own!

I totally agree with your post but I feel when ever she tries having the conversation with Abhimanyu he doesn't listen to her. She did try on white day when he went upstairs but he was angry. Later also was same problem. Communication has been biggest issue for this couple.

She did I feel with bade papa in one of the episodes or maybe not but I am happy how he supports her now. The reason I gave Aarohi and Manjiris name was because they both blamed her more and one lost husband and another son. But now I feel Manjiri doesn't deserve that.

I feel she need to apologize first to Abhir for breaking his heart and pushing him to Birlas house by giving stupid reasons. No matter how much I support Akshnav I still can't come in terms with horrible reasoning they gave to kid for pushing him to his legal father's house. No kid deserves that.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

I will not lie but when this happened I was angry with her for being impulsive and putting hers, Neils and babys life in danger. She really acts dumb at times.

But when I saw from real perspective then I thought death is something in gods hand. We do take wrong decisions sometimes or maybe it's not really wrong but at that time we felt this is right and went for it. No one is responsible for anyone's death.

She definitely didn't deserved the punishment she got but either way I think she could have had heart to heart conversation with Manjiri, Aarohi when they were in right state of mind in Kasauli. So I Voted 3 here.

Ps: But what Manjiri is doing to AbhiNav makes me wonder if she really loved Neil. Even she did same to him when his biological truth was out by making his own father hate him.

💯 yes. I also voted for option #3.

She didn't kill anyone but she became the cause so whenever this thing comes up, she can put forward her perspective so that everyone gets a closure .

More than this , dr birlas apology and realisation is much needed . If that day he showed some restraint and sent akshara to goenka house instead of throwing divorce papers on her face , he wouldn't lose 6 yrs with abhir , akshara would still be his wife and everyone would try their best to neutralize the situation..mummy the flipping queen would have flipped again and forgotten Neil within days if she heard of aksharas pregnancy

And yeah well researched yaar👏 I've seen the epi but I totally forgot abt this scene. I remember akshara being pushed by manjari when she heard of miscarriage.

They treated her so inhumanely, yet she begged for forgiveness from anyone who would listen to her until The Great Abhimanyu Birla accused her of murdering nine pp and of causing the death of her mother, Sirat.

After that, none of the Birlas has any right to seek apology. Instead, they should fall on her feet and beg for forgiveness for maltreating her.

Originally posted by: Sherlockian

They treated her so inhumanly, yet she begged for forgiveness from anyone who would listen to her until The Great Abhimanyu Birla accused her of murdering nine pp and accused her of causing the death of her mother, Sirat.

After that, none of the Birlas has any right to seek apology. Instead, they should fall on her feet and beg for forgiveness for maltreating her.

Yes. It changed the course of the story...

It's hard to fathom how Inhumanly she was treated that day by the person who claimed to love her to the moon and back..suddenly she became a murderer , a threat to his family, galti ki tumhe pehle divorce na deke , what shit he said that day and he said one sorry for sirat ma dialogue and that was enuf ? 🤢

Day and night also take 12 hrs but ma beta ke stance can change any minute bec their love is conditional and theyre self centered. Did they ever acknowledged aksharas pain that day?

Any again people r blind to see that she apologized actually on WD and want her to do it again now which is ridiculous…..

They forget birlas never properly apologize to her, or felt guilty for what they did to her but people defend them, and say they had enough of redemption because they are in pain nonsense