The child that abhir is!!!! ❤️❤️

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I frankly wanted to stop watching the show when I saw the precap where Abhinav gives the idea that they’d need to break the child’s heart so that he can go to BH. But by habit couldn’t stop myself from watching, and I am just amazed at how well behaved abhir is❤️❤️

How intuitive and nice he is, never would I have thought that I’ll get to see a child so well behaved on itv. He handled the move so maturely, and is trying to adjust at the BH. Trying to make space for Abhimanyu in his life while still honouring the place he has for akshnav!!!

Though I also hate how he had to grow up so suddenly, I remember the abhir who said that he won’t eat baingan but only pizza and now we see the child who can’t even ask for his bread to be toasted!!!

I don’t know wether to appreciate his upbringing or feel sad for him losing his innocence. 🥺

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And I love what the makers are doing with aarohi and Ruhi. I loved that they are very vocal supporters of abhir in BH right now. I loved what aarohi did with Manjhu aunty today, very clear and very firm!!!

And Ruhi, another bacha that I feel sad for while simultaneously being proud. her accepting abhir whole heartedly, trying to be there for her brother. ❤️❤️

One last thing, though I still don’t support the way akshnav chose to send abhir to BH, but I was surprised to see that abhir asked no questions and just packed his bags and internalised his feelings and sadness!!! somewhere like his papa, “theek hai aap dono mere bina khush rahoge, to mei hi chala jata” no questions asked! No blames or tantrums!! In dono ko haq jatana pata nhi kab aayega!! Abhinav I still understand in a way, I’m just surprised why abhir didn’t push back!!!


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Posted: 2 years ago
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I feel more than being mature , its about feeling out of place for Abhir. Previously when he used to visit his Docman's house .....it ws fr fun and for sometime.....like u go to a friend's place.


Now its different for him. He has been thrown into a new relationship. Suddenly everyone in that house is related to him and he has been forced to accept dt house as his. He cant run back to his parents when he wishes to . He feels like he has no place to fall back.

I dnt knw if anyone will get what I say.....but for Abhir its like getting adopted at this age. He has to adjust into a new household wid a new family. And when that happens kids tend to behave this way only. They dont knw what is ryt to ask and what isnt . Even if they dnt like something.....they still try to adjust to it.


Honestly I find this extremely sad. Noone is thinking abt the kid anymore. Its adults fyting and the kid getting dragged in between.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Akshara was mocked endlessly for living a fake life with abhinav , correction..loveless life...now when abhir is in the same situation its fine bec dr is happy to get his haq 😊 who cares what abhir wants ? His dida knows best 😆



Anyways..abhir being so well behaved , the credit totally goes to abhinav and akshara . Her fears are valid , that abhir might turn out to be like abhim..so the day he starts shouting , throwing tantrums , throw things around , start getting angry and frustrated over little things , I'll say he has become a true "birla" . Sad , this is an eventuality . But then I learnt that this kinda behavior is like "make mistakes and apologize" 😏

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Isolophiliac00

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One last thing, though I still don’t support the way akshnav chose to send abhir to BH, but I was surprised to see that abhir asked no questions and just packed his bags and internalised his feelings and sadness!!! somewhere like his papa, “theek hai aap dono mere bina khush rahoge, to mei hi chala jata” no questions asked! No blames or tantrums!! In dono ko haq jatana pata nhi kab aayega!! Abhinav I still understand in a way, I’m just surprised why abhir didn’t push back!!!


My heart already aches for peaceful Kasauli scenes 😒

Ever since Abhir's illness there has been no break from Gorilas nonsense


@bold Agree the way Abhir's transition from his parents to BH was shown was v.hurtful. I've said it somewhere before too - that in all this mess the kids, despite no faults of theirs, will suffer the most.. and sadly that's what's shown.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Have to appreciate his upbringing but again feeling bad when he is hiding everything to himself at a tender age...

Posted: 2 years ago
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Lovely post! Feeling very bad for the little kid who is suffering alone , even I didn’t like how Akshnav chosen to break his heart by talking about finances, but again if anything else he would hate his bio dad and would never want to go to that BH !

Have to appreciate his upbringing and the credit goes to Akshnav! I hope they won’t turn him into another abusive Birla boy but let him be the cute,understanding and onideint boy he is!
You r so right ! He is a true copy of his papa, who understands everything and everyone and adjust accordingly! But looking at him hiding his pain from everyone at the tender age is painful! I hope he goes back to his mapa soon!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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He definitely seems to be suffocated and out of place there, but I guess grown ups ka ego satisfaction is much more important than a child’s tender emotions 😆 Good going Birlas😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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He is behaving like a prisoner who has accepted the verdict of life sentence in BH with heavy heart and putting up no resistance to the directions of guard present there.

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