What does Akshara really want? - Page 5

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Why does the DNA matter so much .. Did you ever think of parents who are struggling to have kid from 8 or 9 years but can't because of fewer eggs or genetic issues. They decide to go with egg/sperm donor and finally have a beautiful baby.. Now ofcourse one of the parent doesn't have child DNA that means all that love, struggles are negated. I am telling you this from real life experience.

So my request is before you guys put so triggering statements on orphans, adoptions, biological stuff think this might really impact someone who read this.

Even I have seen many couple and their struggles who cannot conceive have spent their life time savings for the treatments and. on the sake of their health , finally adopted orphan kids! Those Beautiful hearts who really don’t care about the DNA and Khoon and bring the kids from orphanages to give the child a wonderful life should be appreciated! These adoptions, egg/sperm donations are great privilege for both parents who can’t conceive on their own and for the orphan kids too!

There could be many ppl here on the forum who might be facing these sort of issues and here this topic i being discussed on here in different ways on everyday basis here on this forum impacting and hurting those parents who cannot conceive or adopted or an orphan kids who have been adopted!

Abhinav was / Is and always will be Abhir’s papa ! Akshnav risked their live’s to bring Abhir into this world ! They always kept Abhir’s happiness above everything else! Even with the limited resources they have they gave him best education and life ! Which makes them best parents! At least for me Abhinav who is not KHOON related to Abhir is a wonder human being and a great parent !

Yah kya dekh liya subah subah maine , darr gayi main 😂😂

Akshara is complicated. Too complicated for her own good. I can’t relate. I can’t understand. I can only try. 😆

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Isnt Akshara's happy family jaap repetitive n worrisome?

Is Akshara's breakdown truly because Abhir will go away and she will not be able to survive without Abhir

Yes? A mother will obviously feel lost if she has to give up her child’s custody. A child whom she brought into this life inspite of so many hurdles. A child who is shown to be the most attached to her and thinks of her as his world.

or

She is upset at the destruction of her happy family of three. For when Abhir leaves, her created family thats she made n lives for last 6yrs gets disturbed.

Subconsciously, yes! She has time and again referred to Abhir’s presence making them a happy family. So yes, she is worried that if he leaves, it would definitely put a dent in her married life. Abhinav is also shown to be very attached to Abhir and how always says that he is connected to Akshara through Abhir. So I’m sure he is worried about this too.

Which means it's not just Abhir that she is thinking abt but she is concerned about nav and herself rather than focus on her n her child's bond once he leaves for BH.

Yes. They should be patient with Abhir and explain things to him in a way where he can try and understand the situation. A 6/7 year old kid shouldn’t believe that all adults do is lie. That’s a very sad outlook for a child who just needs to worry about completing his homework on time and not his parents’ financial state. 👎🏼

Also she is still not ready to accept Abhimanyu's role in Abhir's life. It shows her lack of empathy for truth of Abhir's identity, his emotions as he accepts the truth of docman being his father, and Abhir-Abhimanyu bond.

Everyone just needs someone to blame. And that person is unfortunately, Abhimanyu. No matter what he does, he is always wrong. She needs to get over her hate for the man and see what benefits her son’s state of mind. The fact that she blamed Abhimanyu for the custody verdict is enough to say that she never wanted Abhimanyu to be a part of Abhir’s life. Everything she told him outside the court room before the verdict, was she even going to comply with that if she won?

Good for Abhir that he would be mummy bakt , at the end of the day people accept it is an acquired trait .

We all are mummy bakts ...not only the someone who is called for often ...

Originally posted by: Avanti30

Good for Abhir that he would be mummy bakt , at the end of the day people accept it is an acquired trait .

We all are mummy bakts ...not only the someone who is called for often ...

Maa ka bhakt chalega papa ka bhakt chalega zabardasti ke maa papa ka narrative nahi chalega…aisa main nahi time spent on tv is telling lol

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Akshara : Abhinavji, yeh "shared custody" kya hota hai? Mujhe samjha na.

Abhinavji: Aksharaji, "shared custody" toh woh hota hai jaise hum dono roj subah breakfast mein jam ka dabba share karte hain. Ek spoon tu leti hai, phir ek spoon mein leta hun. Yani jab kisi ek cheez ka dhyaan rakhne wala sirf ek nahi, balki do ya do se zyada log hote hain, usse kehte hain 'shared custody'. Samajh gayi na?

Lets try Ak teaching Nav spoken english.

AK- Boatjee, let us start our English speaking sessions. kal humne share ka matlab yaad kiya tha aaj aap "Shared custody" ka matlab bataiye?

Nav- Aksharaji, madamji, Shared custody ka matlab- jab driving ke baad sharir mein kasht hota hai aur mein aapse chup ke taadi(alcoholic date juice) peeta hun aur dard bhul ke sher jaisa feel karta hun, usse kehte hai shared custody!!

😆

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Akshara : Abhinavji, yeh "shared custody" kya hota hai? Mujhe samjha na.

Abhinavji: Aksharaji, "shared custody" toh woh hota hai jaise hum dono roj subah breakfast mein jam ka dabba share karte hain. Ek spoon tu leti hai, phir ek spoon mein leta hun. Yani jab kisi ek cheez ka dhyaan rakhne wala sirf ek nahi, balki do ya do se zyada log hote hain, usse kehte hain 'shared custody'. Samajh gayi na?

On topic - I have no idea

Every argument and debate must stay in context. I am not sure to what under quotes comment you have made this response but with due respect to your thoughts it doesn't apply to Abhimanyu and Akshara's situation.

Abhimanyu Birla loves his son and due to extreme vengeance both father n son lost 6 formative years of their lives.

Abhimanyu Birla did wrong that he didnt wait to listen to a nonsense blabbering stranger ask him hypothetical questions about his dead children. Nav should have told him immediately that Akshara was in hospital instead of saying she was in bathroom. He should have said she is in poor health when Abhi asked how is she doing?. We have been given Abhi's short temper nature n Nav constantly blabbering nonsensical nature. You take a pick what you prefer.

Akshara should have sent a message to Abhi if she could send her contact to MG whom she refused to meet in PK.

In disappointment and anger, she gave away Abhir's identity, forged official forms n certificates. Dont you see that for no fault of Abhir he becomes a collateral damage to his parents dual fight?

If Abhimanyu or Ak are dead we can discuss adoption but that doesnt hold ground here.

According to the law, even if someone refuses to acknowledge their parenthood still the birth certificate will hold the biological parents name because its is a question of blood tracing, DNA, medical history. Blood relations should not be hidden as much as possible for any genetic complications until there is no other option.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Originally posted by PeacefulLove

Why does the DNA matter so much .. Did you ever think of parents who are struggling to have kid from 8 or 9 years but can't because of fewer eggs or genetic issues. They decide to go with egg/sperm donor and finally have a beautiful baby.. Now ofcourse one of the parent doesn't have child DNA that means all that love, struggles are negated. I am telling you this from real life experience.

So my request is before you guys put so triggering statements on orphans, adoptions, biological stuff think this might really impact someone who read this.

+1

Even I have seen many couple and their struggles who cannot conceive have spent their life time savings for the treatments and. on the sake of their health , finally adopted orphan kids! Those Beautiful hearts who really don’t care about the DNA and Khoon and bring the kids from orphanages to give the child a wonderful life should be appreciated! These adoptions, egg/sperm donations are great privilege for both parents who can’t conceive on their own and for the orphan kids too!

There could be many ppl here on the forum who might be facing these sort of issues and here this topic i being discussed on here in different ways on everyday basis here on this forum impacting and hurting those parents who cannot conceive or adopted or an orphan kids who have been adopted!

Abhinav was / Is and always will be Abhir’s papa ! Akshnav risked their live’s to bring Abhir into this world ! They always kept Abhir’s happiness above everything else! Even with the limited resources they have they gave him best education and life ! Which makes them best parents! At least for me Abhinav who is not KHOON related to Abhir is a wonder human being and a great parent !

Nav had no right to answer AK call. He was at that point a stranger.Like AK a lot of viewers just remember the last conversation of that call where AB says he does not want to know about AK or his babies. What lead to him telling those words the circumstances has been conveniently forgotten. And we keep hearing he didn’t want to even listen. If Nav had not picked up the call AK would have seen AB called back. Or maybe AB would have tried again. We never know but whatever there would have been this misunderstanding that he is not interested in AK or her kids.

Honestly speaking, the only good thing Akshara did in this whole show, is choosing to stick with abhinav and rejecting the birla’s.

beyond that, Akshara has always handled situations so terribly, that she ends up suffering and sadly the narrative on the show portray her, as this bechari and other characters as villains and none of her actions that contributed to her suffering gets acknowledged. Akshara never tries to introspect on her actions that led to the mess up, which makes it tiresome to follow her journey sometimes!