Abhimanyu, my man. It's been... so many years.. When will you wake up? - Page 2

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Because it's been 84 years..

He doesn't need to speak up for Akshara,nope. But can the man speak up for himself and his son and daughter? Manjiri basically insulted his son's family, made his so called daughter's claims on him irrelevant. Made him an active part of something that involves breaking up a family.

He doesn't have to speak up for Akshara. Akshara now has the spine to do so herself. He should have spoken up for HIMSELF, HIS SON AND HIS DAUGHTER. All of which his mother bulldozed for his supposed happiness lol.

Manjari was the one who went to the extent of forgiving akshara aarohi for their hit and run, which could have killed her , why because she wanted her son's happiness .

It's only when she realized that akshara is toxic to abhimanyu and exploiting him , she openly criticized her .

She wasn't the reason abhimanyu akshara broke up , but rather it was akshara's ego and revenge from abhimanyu to keep his son away from him as she realized he won't continue doing akshu akshu jaap or give her the queen treatment . She still expected him to dance as her lover boy despite her being the reason for his brother's and babies' deaths.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

If you call such statements sexist and classist on this forum, people will accuse you harming yheir mental peace "for fictional characters"

Was she not doing makeup before the leap? Her identity wasn't reduced to makeup back then lol

That's why I didn't even bother. I mean its common sense that its extremely misogynistic and sexist to have such opinions on women. Like a woman can only stand up against herself and have 'attitude' aka a spine if she cracks major competitive exams in this country 😆and doesn't know how to do makeup 💀

None of it holds any relevance btw to the post, to women or Akshara for that matter..so why even bother 😆

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

That's why I didn't even bother. I mean its common sense that its extremely misogynistic and sexist to have such opinions on women. Like a woman can only stand up against herself and have 'attitude' aka a spine if she cracks major competitive exams in this country 😆and doesn't know how to do makeup 💀

None of it holds any relevance btw to the post, to women or Akshara for that matter..so why even bother 😆

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

I am absolutely stumped today.

Abhimanyu Birla : How do I have the lowest of expectations from you and you still fail.

He didn't utter a single word against his mother's extremely shameless diatribe.

I really thought.. This must be THE SCENE where he can redeem himself.

One of the points of redemption for him has always been speaking up against Manjiri. To finally take a stand against his manipulative shameless POS of a mother who has nothing to do in life than meddling in his personal life and messing with his head.

Manjiri is the reason Abhimanyu is where he is in life. How unhappy he is and as much as he tries to fix it himself.. With time and effort and understanding.. She undoes all his hardwork. Every. Single. Time.

It's hard to root for a ML like this who never speaks up against his mother. He's a 40 year old grown a-- man, ffs. If not now, then when? His mother is screeching her plans outloud which involve him being an active participant in breaking a marriage and a family.. And he didn't utter a word except whining for a second.

Some might say he did the same thing. He propositioned a married woman to leave her husband and son and come back to him. He even had the shamelessness of asking Abhinav to give his cheez 'Akshu' back. But haven't we come far from that version of Abhimanyu? I feel like it's been months of progress. Redemption or not, his track/arc had been going well. This was the perfect opportunity to show THAT progress. That he knew what he did was wrong and now is telling his mother so, that too publicly.

Regardless of what happens in the future, whether the Abhira reunion is on the cards or not.. Just for the character of Abhimanyu to have the integrity he lost on white day.. He must go through a redemptive period and take steps to fix his character arc.

The number one on that list should have been : Removing himself from the clutches of his vile mother.Moving away from Manjiri's shadow, one step at a time. He can never have peace and quiet in life with that woman around. That woman makes him behave like a spineless man and as long as she's around and never talked back to, never corrected... He's never gonna get his integrity back.

And it has to be done publicly. Not privately. Because this woman humiliates him publicly.. all the damn time.

Urgh. How do I have the lowest of expectations from Abhimanyu and yet.. When will you speak up? Will you ever speak up? So disappointing. I was really rooting for him to speak up. Maybe it will happen when she is against his decision of giving Abhir back to Akshnav but man, he should have said something today.

But again people still defend abhim and majiri today for tgeir actions that’s the worst part

Originally posted by: Deltablues

If you call such statements sexist and classist on this forum, people will accuse you of harming their mental peace "for fictional characters"

Was she not doing makeup before the leap? Her identity wasn't reduced to makeup back then lol

kya hi keh skte h 😐😐

That’s why I don’t even want to argue with such people,

but then sometimes can’t stop myself!!

mtlb attitude ke liye bhi ab mujhe exams clear karni padegi??

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

That's why I didn't even bother. I mean its common sense that its extremely misogynistic and sexist to have such opinions on women. Like a woman can only stand up against herself and have 'attitude' aka a spine if she cracks major competitive exams in this country 😆and doesn't know how to do makeup 💀

None of it holds any relevance btw to the post, to women or Akshara for that matter..so why even bother 😆

exams ka to chalo samjha, makeup ne kya bigada hai kisi ka??
What’s wrong with decorating yourself? That’s the best form of self care!!

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

It's only when she realized that akshara is toxic to abhimanyu and exploiting him , she openly criticized her .

What kind of rude awakening she had today (and the day she proposed abhinv the same) ke now she wants the same girl back as abhimanyus wife ? Ask abhimanyu and akshara first 😆Family is not lego game. There r marriage laws.

U know the problem is she is looking for people to make her son happy...girls are not born to make abhimanyu Birla happy... Her son needs to assure her that he's happy with his own existence and abhir.

Originally posted by: Krinya

This reminds me of pre leap time when everyone was dead sure that abhimanyu will move out of Birla house and settle with akshara , they will live indendently ..it was laughable then and it's laughable now..

Yahan tak I knew he's incapable , he won't ever leave his mother but this 😆 more than the white day, he annoys me where he just stood behind his mother nodding his head, as she spit venom on akshara for hiding abhir . White day he still had a reason , he was distressed , drained out emotionally , but what's his justification on these days ? Whenever akshara was wrong he publicly confronted her in his drawing room, in her maayka , but when it's his mom he quietly tells her in her room "ma galat kiya na aapne"😆

Mummys IQ and EQ is lower than abhirs....But what's wrong with him ? Why can't he speak up unless he agrees with what she's saying?,

Originally posted by: Krinya

What kind of rude awakening she had today (and the day she proposed abhinv the same) ke now she wants the same girl back as abhimanyus wife ? Ask abhimanyu and akshara first 😆Family is not lego game. There r marriage laws.

U know the problem is she is looking for people to make her son happy...girls are not born to make abhimanyu Birla happy... Her son needs to assure her that he's happy with his own existence and abhir.

How come Manjari is responsible for akshara abhimanyu broken relationship , when akshara consciously ignored abhimanyu's right as father and chose a brand new papa for abhir . Akshara broke up with abhimanyu after the phone call . During the call, she wanted to know whether abhimanyu loved her still to accept her solely , without the baby as the reason . She sensed that abhimanyu wouldn't love her as before and will only stay in the marriage for his son . So she chose to hide their son from abhiM , keeping her desire to be prioritized and worshipped above a father-son relationship .

It's not that after their differences, abhimanyu wouldn't have adjusted with akshara for the sake of his son . He would have stayed in the marriage for his son, and even if divorced, he would have done co parenting with akshara .

Akshara could have moved on even without snatching a son from his father .