MyThoughts- Epi-961

Neither stupid, Nor monster, Only humans

Each character in this show is a human with a flaw. No one was monster for me and no one god, includin AbhiN. Our POV about how character should feel gets highly influenced as we see other characters intentions also, but each character does not know that. AbhiN does not know that right now, both AK and AbhiM have no bad intentions at all. Nor he knows that AK loves him. But, he is just watching their actions and trying his best to understand it. I hv two POVs for each character. If I put my foot in AK's shoe, she is doing nothing wrong, but if I see her cordial behavior with AbhiM from AbhiN and AR's POV, I see that as uncomfortable acts.

In real world, not everything can be gauged by intentions, but is read through acts. Many a times we feel two office colleagues being a couple, even if they are truly just friends and are very comfortable with each other. Someone who might be interested in one of them as a partner, may not proceed just seeing their closeness.

For both AbhiN and AR, their relationships with their respective partners is in their initial phases. It is not established yet. AK herself accepted today to AbhiN, that this is a chance to deepen their ties. After AbhiN jail release for the first time, AK had said, 'Rishta wahi hai, lekin rang gehra hua hai'. It is still in the process.

AK has stood strong on her committment since day 1. But, committment is not equal to love and happiness. Hence, AbhiN feeling being hurdle (credit: focus7) between AK and AbhiM, and AK's true happiness, from AbhiN's POV feels human to me.

Baggage

Just as AbhiM has a baggage of traumatic childhood, AbhiN has baggage of not having blood relationships. Abhir is curious of knowing his real father at this age inspite of hving a loving father. AbhiN has spent his life without knowing them. As a child at every step he may hv felt unwanted, a child who was dumped to die almost. His birth was not cause of anyone's happiness, he must hv felt. He made someone unhappy just by coming into existence. Hence, he always wishing or leaving in future if he feels he is the reason of someone's unhappiness or for Abhir getting his blood- related family has a backdrop.

AK, the Chiz

AbhiN has never ever treated AK as a ' Cheez' as of yet and has respected her words as they are unlike AbhiM's hospital statements or AbhiMMata's attitude. When AK during post AbhiM truth reveal to AbhiN said, she wants to be with AbhiN, he accepted it as it is. Even then it was just continuation of coparenting equation. AbhiN knew AK is not over AbhiM yet. I hv always said that if AbhiN leaves AK, treats her as a 'thing', he will need a strong redemption curve too, if he wants his family back. But, it remains to be seen under what circumstances AbhiN leaves AK.

AbhiN had asked AK upfront to tell him the secret of Abhir, but AK did not, for right reasons according to her. That may indicate to AbhiN that AK might not tell him the truth about what is in her heart openly if he even asks her, and hence takes a decision of leaving her, that will not come under considering her ' Chiz'. But let's cross the bridge when we come to it.

Family,Truth and Trust

MK drama was OTT. AbhiM solving each and every problem in her marriage has become cliche now.🙄.. AbhiN is just standing there from day 1, thanking him.. AK's talk about sharing/ not hiding / every problem with the family, Trusting them may form a backdrop of future. As AK herself has not shared the truth with AbhiN. Why? She does not trust him? Is he not her family? If both AK, AbhiM know it, is AbhiN an outsider? These may be thoughts AbhiN might get.

Apology

one thing about AbhiN that I loved till date is his ability to apologize when he feels he has done something wrong. Even in anger today he said, Kairav is not bad person. But MK- KV are incompatible. AbhiN has always felt that KV is not right for MK as he is ' Behadh', but KV is proving him wrong at every step. AbhiN in future might correlate it with AbhiM. AbhiM is all ' Behadh' and AK is all about with 'Hadh'. But, still just like KV- MK they can be a great couple.

Currently, AK, AbhiN, AbhiM, no one has even a grey shade.. Each is acting with all right and good intentions. You feel sad as well as upset with each of them and that is the beauty. You feel sad as AK is handling too much, but looking at teary eyed AbhiN, you feel sad for him too. Looking at the precap you feel sad for AbhiM too, a longing father.

AbhiN has wished that AbhiM should get happiness that is written in his account (church candle scene). May be the god will grant his wish! 🙂

As always, I have a slightly different perspective but agree on most points.

@Bold: I feel like the whole KV-Mus track is for this reason. I feel like Nav at least keeps comparing them to Abhira in his mind. He thinks Abhira was some teenage fantasy that broke down when reality came, and Abhi just left Ak whenever things didn't go his way - what a lot of this forum thinks as well and what Ak herself believes to some extent.

But that wasn't what happened; they both had "behaydh" love. Abhi is obviously for Ak in everything he does, and even Ak for Abhi in giving up her voice for a year, coming back to him every time, forgiving him every time, etc. The thing is, Ak knows this to some level, and she herself has stated that it was situations that were against them. With Ak's anger melting away, the only thing left is to realize that situations were bad back then, and the reaction Abhi had while wrong was something anyone can have.

Nav has no issues with Abhi as a person, just believes he did wrong with Ak because of Behaydh love. So his issues with behaydh love. But with KV proving him wrong at every turn - usually, with Abhi's help, it is becoming clear that Abhi wasn't all wrong for Ak. Nav's entire existence is based on Abhi being wrong - in his mind, not in Ak's or the audience's.

I think Abhi helping and resolving Mus's issues isn't some trope. It is to show that he understands the issues that can come up at that stage for a couple in love cause of misunderstandings. He and Ak went through a lot of issues, and he has learned from them. He knows that if Kv loves Mus, he will never leave her based on some video of her hugging a guy. Just like he himself wouldn't. In Khera's case, for example, despite Khera spouting all nonsense about Ak, Abhi didn't believe a word he said. But Nav doesn't know that because, to some extent, Nav doesn't know that kind of love at all. He is insecure based on Abhi and Ak being friends itself.