MyThoughts- Epi-958 - Page 2

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Yes. I was talking about death of AbhiN. If makers are planning AbhiN's death, atleast I am relieved that his was not unrequited love.

Who would not like AbhiN knowing that AK has fallen for him in and out.

The problem with Ak- AbhiN is they hv never directly have expressed their feelings to each other. Each is just guessing other only through actions keeping room for MUs. Most of recent actions of AK go against what is in her heart, that may lead to MU.

I think it is supposed to create misunderstandings. It's very hard to write angst in a couple where one doesn't have any expectations, and the other knows that they wouldn't leave.

Now we have a chance for Akshnav angst and Abhimanyu is how he acts when Abhin thinks of himself as kabab mein haddi enough to move away and his vile mother pushes for Abhira milan

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I just hope Ak gives her a reality check in public and all her machinations and manipulations fail due to the immense trust and respect AbN and Ak have for each other. Now we can say they also have love in between which was always there but remained unvoiced.

But love work in mysterious ways for different persons. It makes some over possessive while others self-sacrificing. I hope Ak and AbN tide over the coming storm together.

Obssession in love is about happiness of the self ( hence it is not love in true sense) whereas sacrifice in love is for the happiness of the person you love. AbhiN has said in the past that AK and Abhir's happiness wll always be above his happiness. If he keeps on getting subtle indications that AK- Abhir would be happy with AbhiM, he would leave. He is already getting them at least for AK due to AK's friendly behavior with AbhiM and secret sharing.

AK today said, they can fight it out if they are together but with AbhiN leaving her side, it will be interesring to see how they fight it out. Somehow, I feel they should fight it out separately to be together. Each sharma should come to a conclusion that they want to be with each other through individual arc and feeling they are worthy of it.

On side note: The hospital- temple track was strong enough to justify AbhiN's withdrawal. With mixed up scenes (today we had AbhiN- AK scene), I hope AbhiN leaving can be justified. Else, AbhiN at least partially would enter AbhiM category.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Again a very nice episode..Inspite of AK's love confession, the way writers still kept the hopes alive for Abhira reunion is amazing.

TBH, I was and am still ok if Abhira reunion happens as I am a story shipper. Only thing is the story should be convincing and coherent. For me, it was enough that the selfless love of AbhiN was reciprocated by AK. He may never ever know it, but I am fine with that too.

AbhiM: For the first time, I felt proud of AbhiM. The way he responded to AK's ILU to AbhiN was only partially expected by me. But, take a bow AbhiM. The hand- shake was a beginning of new relationship if each remains true to it. Rather, going forward this can become a beautiful relationship. AbhiM, during his stay in Kasauli may be realized what he lost and why. In the past, even during temple confession, he had accepted AK's rejection how much ever painful that was and went ahead and got engaged to AR. I am so impressed by him today that I don't feel like saying anything negative about him.

But, still have to. I hv said previously no change in him ( good or bad) stays. He has not remained committed to any relationships including with AK. Even after temple confession, he wanted to rise in AK's eyes and hence decided that he will learn to respect. He supported Shefali bhabhi, but he was back to square one when he pulled AR by hand, decided for her that she is not leaving the house, yelling at her after Abhir coming back to Kasauli saying she defending her sister AK. Even in Kasauli, whatever he is doing is to somehow rise in AK's eyes. He is not doing it intentionally. He has almost become AbhiN. But, even so much change in him could not change anything for AK. Yes, now she is thankful to him. If AbhiM has truly changed and redeemed, I expect him to go ahead with his committment with AR and Ruhi and fulfill it with best of his heart (I knw part of his heart may always lie with AK). If he flips, thinks again of abandoning them under the influence of AbhiMMata, for me he had never changed in a true sense. Love is not always about you having something, but giving something to others.

AbhiM knows Abhir can't live without his papa, now he knows that AK loves AbhiN. Will he still fight for Abhir's custody? Or custody track is not happenning? Will he want AK still to be with him after AbhiN leaves? I wish he does not. That will be like having two 'cheez' with him whose hearts lie with someone else. He can always support AK as her good friend in AbhiN's absence.

AbhiMMata: This woman is pure vile. The wise woman that AK has become is making of AbhiN. The wise little man is a making of AbhiN. He loved them both immensely, gave them space so they became happy, confident human beings they are now. He met them when AbhiMMata, and AbhiM left them to die. Now, she wants two readymade happy human beings to make her son happy.

Abhi: We have already talked about this, and you know my opinions. Abhi is not changed, but this is just who he is normally when he doesn't have anger or expectations. If you see his behavior with the rest of his close relationships, Manjari and Neil - this is how he behaves with them. When he is angry, his anger overshadows the other parts of his personality. But him helping Ak with the KV issue or respecting her choice with Abhir isn't about becoming like Nav, in my opinion. He is just trying to keep his anger and judgment under check and become a better person. I think anyone in his situation would behave the same way. He lost six years of his life because of his one angry decision. If he is doing stuff to reverse that, then it isn't about obsession or anything like that but about personal growth.

The second topic, Commitment, is not that simple. In everyday life, lots of people divorce due to trauma; it's normal and expected. A lot of relationships fall apart due to miscarriages and just as many due to deaths in the family. Does that mean these people weren't committed?? A lot of family relationships fall apart too. In Ak Naitik's time, they separated from their family. Does that mean that Naitik wasn't committed to his relationships with his family? In his case, the difference was he support OG Akshara, and here Abhi blamed Ak. But the situations themselves are wildly different. Abhi is committed to a lot of his relationships, most importantly to his mother and Neil. He never left them, even if he disagreed with them. With Ak, he did leave her, and I agree he hasn't been as committed as he should have been, and he himself accepts that. And Arohi, honestly, I have no clue what he is doing. I think back then, he really wanted to move on with her and have the family with Ruhi, but with Abhir's truth out, all of that is out of his mind now. It's just not important. He is choosing to keep Abhir above all of that, and I don't see that as being wrong. I don't think he has backed out of the marriage with Arohi, but how can he think about that when he is still struggling to get a place in his son's life?

As to the final questions, it depends on what track unfolds. I don't think you understand Abhi's love. He will NEVER want Ak or Abhir to be with him if they themselves don't want that. He will also never want to be a second choice for Ak. He may support them if they need support, and he will accept whatever role he can get in Abhir's life and be the best dad he can be.

Nice episode and your review is just apt. I always wait for your post. I am not bothered about the end game but happy to know Akshara has moved on.
Ahim knows that good he accepted it

Overall the wedding is enjoyable living the costumes

Manjari selfishness has certain limits she needs one reality check from all.

But feeling a bit sad for Abhimanyu his love his son no one is his now better she finds his happiness with Ruhi and matasree

What i feel is the confession was only for AbhiM to hear and know that not only he has lost the relationship but that place and love too from within.

Coz next morning Akshara seems to forget about it. Also, as i said before this is something that is a promo worthy not aaya gya types

So moving forward if Abhira happened this is also a challenge for him to not only work on getting her trust back but that love too.

Edit: The episodes are working more coz of Surekha Chachi 😂

Also, bechari ab fan k aage bhi na bathe sablog itna kya har baat ka load lete rehte hain