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Posted: 2 years ago
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I could not resist myself from FFing the scenes which have AbhiM's mother in it. I may have missed some nuances due to that.

Manjiri comes to know the truth and resorts to her regular accusation mode. The woman that few minutes ago pushed away Abhir in a disgusting way, said ' woh hamara apana hai'..Wow..'Girgit bhi apana rang itani jaldi nahi badalata..'

However, the interaction between Manjiri and Abhir was nice. Not pure though.. AbhiN and Abhir interaction gives pure love vibes but this did not. As this love knows apana- paraya wheras AbhiN and Abhir love is beyond apana-paraya. In future, makers may or may not keep AbhiN as part of the plot but the father-son bond has got immortalized for ever.

Manjiri reached out to Abhir, to hug him the second time, but AbhiN took him away. For the first time, I could see fear in his eyes. Why? Till date I have seen him open to ideas of coparenting. Rather, he was the one who wanted the truth to be told to AbhiM. Eventhough I could not fathom completely, his change of attitude, it could be due to that he was fine AbhiM knowing about it but not Manjiri. He has faced Manjiri and knows her unruly, toxic behavior full of hatred. AbhiN looked at AbhiM, who could not understand why AbhiN did what he did. Then AbhiN looked at AK who gave her permission. She was so relieved to have someone on her side while facing Birla's.

AbhiM and his mother are complete mirror images of each other. Echoeing the 'haq' word and resorting to accusation. They expected woman who was accused as murderer to come to them begging to hear her? I was astonished at a callousness of AbhiM. He did not clear out the air when his mother was ranting against AK, that AK had called him multiple times but he ignored her calls. Atleast clear that the fault lied with both not just AK.

I was right in picking up emotions of AK and AbhiN. They are good human beings but not strong, manipulative or cunning and that is their weakness. AK never could stand to AbhiM's anger or Manjiri's emotional outburst.Manjiri declared that she would take her Pota with her who was fighting for Shivu's mother's rights over him. The mother-son duo talk all ideal when it comes others but are mean, illogical when it comes onto them.

Episode ends.

Where there is fear, there is no love: AK loved AbhiM immensely, so much that she could not think of taking anyone as partner until recently. If she loves AbhiM why so much fear? So much that, she was studying law inspite of being from Arts background. She feared that he would take her son away from her. The two words don't fit with each other. All along she has resisted idea of moving back with him inspite of getting multiple opportunities? Why she did not choose to move back with AbhiM after Kasauli episode? There was no AR in the picture then (as post engagement) and AbhiN was wanting to let her and Abhir go back. Or as she said, 'Pyar milata hai par understanding nahi milati, sukoon nahi milata'.. Is it only for understanding and sukoon she is staying with AbhiN? If yes, is she right in giving flase hopes to AbhiN who never expected reciprocation from her as a spouse? Would love to know your thoughts.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I skipped the episode as I couldn’t watch it because if Manjari. I just can’t stand her. Did like how Nav came and took his son (yes because that’s son). When it comes to Neil, Manjari was her mother but when it comes to Nav, he’s not Abhir’s father? When it comes to Shefali and her son, she stands up for her but it’s not the same when it comes to Akshara and her son? How low will this woman go?

I’m a little disappointed over the fact that Akshara blurred out the truth of her marriage like that but I’m still having some hopes from the episode where we might see a strong woman standing up for herself.



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Posted: 2 years ago
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It's always fascinating to analyze how characters interact with each other and how their personalities and histories shape their actions. As for your question about AK's motivations, it's possible that she loves her son very much but also fears losing him, which can be a common emotion for parents. It's also possible that she has other reasons for staying with AbhiN besides just love, such as convenience or stability. Overall, it's interesting to think about the complex emotions and motivations that drive characters in a story.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Grt analysis.

I am not a regular viewer of the show. I go on and off . Started for HC but lost interest bcz the character wasnt as appealing.....at this is even before this whole miscarriage drama.


Anywys

I could never really like Manjiri....even before this. She has alwys been this person who would reach to conclusions super fast and not give the person she judges another chance up until...the proof of truth comes to her face. And she has been the smothering mother figure for Abhi which is suffocating to watch. No relationship can actually survive when the MIL is this much involved and attached to her Son. Thats what happened to Aks- AbhiM.


After this leap her character has become even more intolerable. Now she is a hypocrite too. Till yesterday all she wanted was AbhiM to move ahead in life wid Arohi but now since the truth is out thats all thrown out of the window. Mother son duo would not give one thought to Arohi or Roohi. Till last epi she was preaching abt a mother's ryt but now its abt a father's ryt.


Sometimes I feel neither AbhiM nor his mother give Akshara the respect of a human being also. Akshara is like a punching bag to them. Anything that went wrong in their life was bcz of Akshara . They threw her out twice. Now they want her son and dnt give a damn abt Ak once again. I cannot fathom why would anyone wid any self respecr would go back to such a relationship or house ( which will eventually happen ). Ak and Abhi shouldnt be a couple at all. Its a toxic relationship . Der is no understanding , no respect and no consideration of the other person's feeling.



Lastly , I have said before too. Whatever turn this story takes , it would never do ryt by Abinav. He is going to end up being heartbroken. And no its not fair of Akshara to keep giving him false hopes. A person who stands by her through everything without any expectations deserves better.


Sorry for the long post !

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Grt analysis.

I am not a regular viewer of the show. I go on and off . Started for HC but lost interest bcz the character wasnt as appealing.....at this is even before this whole miscarriage drama.


Anywys

I could never really like Manjiri....even before this. She has alwys been this person who would reach to conclusions super fast and not give the person she judges another chance up until...the proof of truth comes to her face. And she has been the smothering mother figure for Abhi which is suffocating to watch. No relationship can actually survive when the MIL is this much involved and attached to her Son. Thats what happened to Aks- AbhiM.


After this leap her character has become even more intolerable. Now she is a hypocrite too. Till yesterday all she wanted was AbhiM to move ahead in life wid Arohi but now since the truth is out thats all thrown out of the window. Mother son duo would not give one thought to Arohi or Roohi. Till last epi she was preaching abt a mother's ryt but now its abt a father's ryt.


Sometimes I feel neither AbhiM nor his mother give Akshara the respect of a human being also. Akshara is like a punching bag to them. Anything that went wrong in their life was bcz of Akshara . They threw her out twice. Now they want her son and dnt give a damn abt Ak once again. I cannot fathom why would anyone wid any self respecr would go back to such a relationship or house ( which will eventually happen ). Ak and Abhi shouldnt be a couple at all. Its a toxic relationship . Der is no understanding , no respect and no consideration of the other person's feeling.



Lastly , I have said before too. Whatever turn this story takes , it would never do ryt by Abinav. He is going to end up being heartbroken. And no its not fair of Akshara to keep giving him false hopes. A person who stands by her through everything without any expectations deserves better.


Sorry for the long post !

In ITV world there's no such thing as toxic relationship, it's all TURU LOB. Fl's single purpose of doormat existence is to REUUNITEE with ml. Regarding Abhinav I'm not going to comment.. It's my fault liking the ckt. for goodness never gets rewarded amongst the ITV's toxicity craving audience.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Grt analysis.

I am not a regular viewer of the show. I go on and off . Started for HC but lost interest bcz the character wasnt as appealing.....at this is even before this whole miscarriage drama.


Anywys

I could never really like Manjiri....even before this. She has alwys been this person who would reach to conclusions super fast and not give the person she judges another chance up until...the proof of truth comes to her face. And she has been the smothering mother figure for Abhi which is suffocating to watch. No relationship can actually survive when the MIL is this much involved and attached to her Son. Thats what happened to Aks- AbhiM.


After this leap her character has become even more intolerable. Now she is a hypocrite too. Till yesterday all she wanted was AbhiM to move ahead in life wid Arohi but now since the truth is out thats all thrown out of the window. Mother son duo would not give one thought to Arohi or Roohi. Till last epi she was preaching abt a mother's ryt but now its abt a father's ryt.


Sometimes I feel neither AbhiM nor his mother give Akshara the respect of a human being also. Akshara is like a punching bag to them. Anything that went wrong in their life was bcz of Akshara . They threw her out twice. Now they want her son and dnt give a damn abt Ak once again. I cannot fathom why would anyone wid any self respecr would go back to such a relationship or house ( which will eventually happen ). Ak and Abhi shouldnt be a couple at all. Its a toxic relationship . Der is no understanding , no respect and no consideration of the other person's feeling.



Lastly , I have said before too. Whatever turn this story takes , it would never do ryt by Abinav. He is going to end up being heartbroken. And no its not fair of Akshara to keep giving him false hopes. A person who stands by her through everything without any expectations deserves better.


Sorry for the long post !

Agree. AK is the person who always has taken initiatives in their relationship moving forward as hubby-wife. He was fine without it too. What AbhiN expects is committment for whatever being said. May that be non- spousal relationship or spousal. If she does too much of flip- flop, he might outgrow her, even while supporting her which is last thing AK wants.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Nicely summed up as always 👍🏼👏


Hhhm in the precap , is there ANY logic to manjari blaming abhin for stealing abhir from abhim? Paglait aurat🐷 Why wud she bring abhin in the conversation ?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I may sound really stupid.. but I did not understand the scene where Abhinav takes Abhir from Manjiri..


Manjiri was not exactly hurting or scaring the kid


Abhir also looked OK with the hug..


Ak... yeah looked so distressed


At that time Manjiri was not even shouting at Ak So why? I was so confused

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Originally posted by: umawanderer

I may sound really stupid.. but I did not understand the scene where Abhinav takes Abhir from Manjiri..


Manjiri was not exactly hurting or scaring the kid


Abhir also looked OK with the hug..


Ak... yeah looked so distressed


At that time Manjiri was not even shouting at Ak So why? I was so confused

Idk if it's just me but I think I saw in Abhinav's eyes as he picked Abhir away from mata 'like stay away creepy aurat"

... umm wait...

considering how much AkshNav are into giving respect to elders so maybe more like "door hatiye creepy bua ji" 🤣 ...

whatever it is "creepy" is there 😝 So yeah that's my understanding of his inner monologue 😅 (PS on a side note how awwdorable Abhir looked clinging to Nav💓)

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Agree. AK is the person who always has taken initiatives in their relationship moving forward as hubby-wife. He was fine without it too. What AbhiN expects is committment for whatever being said. May that be non- spousal relationship or spousal. If she does too much of flip- flop, he might outgrow her, even while supporting her which is last thing AK wants.


True

I ws shocked d way Ak said they werent husband and wife ......when she herself just months back tried to convince Abhinav to give this relationship a new chance !!

This girl is super confused !

Evn in today's promo she ws like I should hv chosen the good man. Should hv ??? Didnt you already say you are starting this relationship a new way ryt after AbhiM proposed her in dt mandir


Who am I kidding ?? This girl is gonna end up wid AbhiM only and leave AbhiN like everyone else in his life .

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