Ak and her memories

Is Akshara's opinion on Abhinmanyu. just for the white day(By the by .. why can't we call it Neil's death day?.. maybe it feels morbid to type it every time I guess.❓)

Why are they not showing her remembering her happy memories of her past much?

The only time I remember her even thinking of happy times is of the confession day anniversary type(?) day. I think...

The first time she sees Abhi's name on the doctor's list she is shocked and disturbed.

Then, she did not want Abhir and Abhi to meet on the Udaipur trip. She treated Abhi as a dangerous villain from the beginning of the leap.

Well, they both did not have any soul connection at that time.

Then, after meeting She had a rush of memories(first meet to the wedding), one particular about suit-wearing Abhi...

She had no other memories.. sweet or bitter until the confession anniversary. Then back to normal. Even at Mimi's party, she did not exactly think about their past. She was affected but again nothing. On the Kalash day, she remembered the white day and her happy Kasauli life.

And after returning from Udaipur, she genuinely looks happy during the mangal sutra and sindoor thing.. she only remembered the bad things of her past relationship and prayed to god to not have them in her new relationship. Nav and Her had some nice normal type romantic moments.. but she did not remember Abhi and her romantic moments. Even now, They got stuck in the rain, And this I know happened before as I saw that on TV one day. She was going to the temple for something and Conveniently he had a plastic cover (Clean and transparent) to protect her from rain. So there might have been many moments like that in the past too. Why is not Akshara remembering them much?

Please do not say we are not getting her POV.. even I thought that for a long.. but we are getting her POV. She is talking about it many times. Her fears, her happiness.

Let me list down POVs:

Abhir: Her life(simple)

Nav: A nice friend, partner, and Abhir's father

Abhi-Arohi marriage: Let them do what they want... This decision is for Ruhi.

Abhi: A disturbance in force(sorry for all SW fans🤡)... I mean a disturbance in her peaceful happy life... A villain from the past whom she used to love deeply. A person with whom she could never have a nice relationship like sand and snow.

Her relationship with Nav: A new start... Nav loved her but was considerate of her feelings and never revealed them. He gave her the freedom to not love him and never feel burdened by the truth. (Personally, I loved this, much more than whatever I saw in Abhira as I felt Abhi forced her to confess.. but I do not want to do AbhiM and AbhiN debate in this post) And the funny thing is. Everyone expected Nav to initiate things. but here many times, she initiated something always.. recently she fed him laddoo when there was no need. He was not even thinking about their relationship nor was she.. they both were concerned about Abhir and Abhi. then she just randomly but naturally did that. It felt so normal. yes, feeding something is not romantic.. but it was also not 'nothing'. She wants to move on.. regardless of Abhi-Aru relationship. This is clear. Whether she will be able to do that ..that is for the future. presently... She wants to move on

Even now, she wanted to celebrate Abhir's birthday in Kasauli. And she looked homesick talking about Kasauli. Why would they do that if they did not want to show her POV? She sees herself as a guest in UD and her actual home is in Kasauli. Hence, her ex-sasural people and her maika people are also not that important... She will not stay with them for long.. she will return to her home...

Yeah, she might not love Abinav, but if she was this happy in Kasauli that she forgot all the happy moments from her past relationship, does that mean the happy moments were fewer or they were all less impactful now?

Did she call the past relationship 'umar qaid' only based on a white day? Or did these 6 years give her a new perspective on her old relationship? whether that POV is correct or not is not the question here. The question here is if she remembers her relationship only from the white day.

What do you guys think?

It was not just the white day. Abhimanyu was about to divorce her previously for khera kaand . Plus they had a tumultuous relationship during their married time, twice I guess akshu left him ..manjari divorce and Neil revelation.. ..1 yr they were separated so how long were they living together ? Hardly for a few months. How can it overshadow 6 yrs of her life ?

Its upto her what she wants to remember ..the good memories were tainted with the painful ones...

the situations change in a minute but emotions ko change Hone mei bahut time lagta hai..from love to hate and hate to love but once its done it's almost permanent ..

I'm always of the opinion that one bad event doesn't define a person but abhinanyu has been exactly what akshu has been telling us , in past and present ..abhimanyu needs to grow really , for akshus opinion to change..everyone just assumes that she is still in love with him..frm where I see she has moved on and it will take a lot to find that old akshu in her...

In itv it's simple ..they kill the 3rd lead , heroine is bk to the same house for the kids sake..the ml does something heroic and bam they're together again..I hope yrkkh takes a diff route

they will just make her remember that day ,till the time nav exit doesnt come ,they made the white day so their fav character can be introduced and to make him stay just giving akshara his glorification

Both Abhimanyu and Akshara are over their relationship, is what I am getting from current track. After Abhir's paternity truth, Abhimanyu recalled planning for his children's future and the FB scene was between Abhi and his mom.

The screenplay is very clear that these two are not involved in a romantic relationship

Originally posted by: sweta2005

they will just make her remember that day ,till the time nav exit doesnt come ,they made the white day so their fav character can be introduced and to make him stay just giving akshara his glorification

Lol the favourite character argument again....

If he was the favourite character... They would show ak slowly falling in love with him... The davdas paro scene would have been for Nav .. and he had an accident..

The creatives do not have any favourite character...yes. Zama Habib may have brought him for the leap... And Zama Habib likes to write sunshine characters... But that doesn't mean they would totally sabotage their show. Money 🤑🤑 is dangerous drug...

And besides... Do memories come and go with respect to a person's presence?

I have a simple anawer, not sure how many will like it.. Akshara is over Abhimanyu, don't want anything to do with him. She has started to see how problematic her relationship with him was and don't want to remember it in any happy way (may be because it was not very happy in the first place). Only people who still hold onto the couple are some AbhiRa fans, rest everyone has moved on, including AbhiRa themselves.

Akshara ko toh white day bhi kaha pura pura yaad hai😆Usme bhi sirf SELECTIVE PART he yaad hai 😆

Akshara and Neil ka line by line conversation muje yaad hai lekin Akshara ko uss din ka sirf interval ke baad ka time he yaad hai jab Abhimanyu ne usko confront kiya tha , Seerat ke death ka reason woh ho sakti hai you never know bola tha and divorce diya tha.

Akshara ne toh conveniently Neil death kand ka interval pehle ka part -1 format kar diya kyunki part-1 was about “Neil chalo hum 15-20 minutes tak gundo ko rok kar rakhte hai , ladkiya bula rahi hai, muje jaana hoga goons ke paas apne twin babies ko le kar , police ka wait nahi kar sakte “ “ Babies ap dono chalo mumma ke sath, goons are waiting for you both” “Mumma ne duniya ka theka liya hai babies so ab tum dono ki jaan kismat ke hawale hai” 😆

Akshu only remembers those things which Abhir imitates... I know Akshara hasn't had bandwidth to deal with past or remember those days... But when she is quite moved on why should she reminisce such time of her life and get sad... 😆

She has to study, she has to make Abhir study, she has to make Jams, she has to motivate Abhinav to work, she has to arrange money... Time kahan hai?

Everytime she remembered past was out of fear and never out of love or happy memory... Whiteday has washed away all the happy times...

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Akshara ko toh white day bhi kaha pura pura yaad hai😆Usme bhi sirf SELECTIVE PART he yaad hai 😆

Akshara and Neil ka line by line conversation muje yaad hai lekin Akshara ko uss din ka sirf interval ke baad ka time he yaad hai jab Abhimanyu ne usko confront kiya tha , Seerat ke death ka reason woh ho sakti hai you never know bola tha and divorce diya tha.

Akshara ne toh conveniently Neil death kand ka interval pehle ka part -1 format kar diya kyunki part-1 was about “Neil chalo hum 15-20 minutes tak gundo ko rok kar rakhte hai , ladkiya bula rahi hai, muje jaana hoga goons ke paas apne twin babies ko le kar , police ka wait nahi kar sakte “ “ Babies ap dono chalo mumma ke sath, goons are waiting for you both” “Mumma ne duniya ka theka liya hai babies so ab tum dono ki jaan kismat ke hawale hai” 😆

Neil toh sab ke memory se format ho gaya hai aisa lagta hai😆

I think reason that incident has been formatted is Because Akshu has be given the punishment... Ab usse jyada kya kar sakte the? But I don't like the fact that they don't even have flashbacks of Neil or how happy they used to be.. Including Arohi...