Abuse against doctors - Page 5

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Ma'am, I respectfully disagree. It's his job to be there in the hospital during his duty hours. Especially in private hospitals.

ufff you can't even say uske baap ka hospital nhi hai 🤣

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

You mean Abhinav was snatching Abhir and running?

Ha jo pahle se uske paas hai wo usko le kar bhagega. jara si awaz unchi nahi hoti to sabhi milkar isko -ve bana dete hai. pata nahi kahan se kon kon se logic lagate hain Abhimanyu ko defend karne k liye or Anhinav ko defame karne k liye. He is emotional manipulator like shayad main hi galat dekh rahi hun jo wo kabhi mere ko manipulative nahi laga. Bechara trauma main chala gaya tha jub Abhi ne usse Akshara ko manga tha tab bhi wo easily raste se hat jane ko tayar ho gya tha but fir bhi inko ye hi manipulator lagta hai. Uska to kabhi intention bhi nahi raha ki wo Abhi se koi baat chupaye par AK k karan nahi bata raha kyunki jo bhi hai it's only AK decision because she gave birth a child in the absense of her husband or any guardian. Kabhi ye hospital k logic pakad lenge ki uska kaam nahi tha to bhai jiska kaam tha usko hi karne deta utne time main kisi doosre patient ko attend kar leta ya roohi ki help karta kabhi ye legal illegal pakad lenge that manyu should put them in jail papers main hera pheri karne k liye kon se paper agar inko nahi pata hai to India main kisi ka bhi OG birth certificate main birth date galat hi hota hai. Main kahti hoon agar itna hi logic dekhna hai to inhone 1.5 yrs dekh kiase liya bas kya sirf romance hi dekhnge wo bhi without any story. Jabardasti ek ache khaase ckt ki dhajiyaan udayi jaa rahe hain.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

it's a birla hospital and not a government hospital. I have a small clinic near my home where doctor takes leave whenever he wants he will not ask if i am sick or not. And it was a test and not a surgery. If abhi would have came later for surgery i would have raised a concern. But here it's just a mere test which doctor stays with the kid for these tests?

If he is on duty it does not mean he is just there to take care of abhir. He must have other patients to attend too. I respect doctor's profession they know how to manage their patients in case they are unable to make it. They will review their scehdules if something can be handled by others they can take off on need basis by informing others to take care of those patients. Abhir's case abhi did not had any intution that he will get scared and this should be handled by his parents to make kid ready for the tests and surgery what is the role of abhimanyu here.

Do you mean abhi as a surgeon should present in each every patients bp test and blood test sugar test. Toh bandha surgery kab karega

Just to clarify here : i did not watched abhinav scene nor i am saying whatever abhinav did is wrong. I am only talking about abhimanyu. You can not call abhimanyu as irresponsible doctor where as it was not even his duty to perform those tests.

diya in any type of hospital

the main doctor meets with the patient on the first visit and then when the report is in your hands

it's not their job to calm down the patient or do any test

2 years I went to ortho , after a check he called me the next day for tests and MRI .

he didn't call me to meet he called me for TESTS

and when reports came into my hands, I called the hospital for his appointment

that's the proper process in every hospital

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

diya in any type of hospital

the main doctor meets with the patient on the first visit and then when the report is in your hands

it's not their job to calm down the patient or do any test

2 years I went to ortho , after a check he called me the next day for tests and MRI .

he didn't call me to meet he called me for TESTS

and when reports came into my hands, I called the hospital for his appointment

that's the proper process in every hospital

yeah even in some hospitals even though they call it an appointment nurse suggests some test that is recommended by the doctor if the doctor already knows about the diagnosis and medical history and they need to get another appointment with the report if the result takes too much time.

I have been to a hospital very recently where as soon as I entered doctor asked me about my symptoms and asked me to get some tests done and they started attending to other patients. Here Abhi already knows Abhir's medical history I do not see the need for his presence to say he is irresponsible.

If it was on the day of surgery he does something I will throw chappal at him. but today epi I don't see his fault to say he was irresponsible where as it's our responsibility to motivate kid's before the tests so that they are ready for these tests and they don't get scared in between.

In schools if a kid is scared of exams. it's not the teacher's responsibility to make him attend exams it's the parent's responsibility to make the kid realize how much exams are important.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Ha jo pahle se uske paas hai wo usko le kar bhagega. jara si awaz unchi nahi hoti to sabhi milkar isko -ve bana dete hai. pata nahi kahan se kon kon se logic lagate hain Abhimanyu ko defend karne k liye or Anhinav ko defame karne k liye. He is emotional manipulator like shayad main hi galat dekh rahi hun jo wo kabhi mere ko manipulative nahi laga. Bechara trauma main chala gaya tha jub Abhi ne usse Akshara ko manga tha tab bhi wo easily raste se hat jane ko tayar ho gya tha but fir bhi inko ye hi manipulator lagta hai. Uska to kabhi intention bhi nahi raha ki wo Abhi se koi baat chupaye par AK k karan nahi bata raha kyunki jo bhi hai it's only AK decision because she gave birth a child in the absense of her husband or any guardian. Kabhi ye hospital k logic pakad lenge ki uska kaam nahi tha to bhai jiska kaam tha usko hi karne deta utne time main kisi doosre patient ko attend kar leta ya roohi ki help karta kabhi ye legal illegal pakad lenge that manyu should put them in jail papers main hera pheri karne k liye kon se paper agar inko nahi pata hai to India main kisi ka bhi OG birth certificate main birth date galat hi hota hai. Main kahti hoon agar itna hi logic dekhna hai to inhone 1.5 yrs dekh kiase liya bas kya sirf romance hi dekhnge wo bhi without any story. Jabardasti ek ache khaase ckt ki dhajiyaan udayi jaa rahe hain.

Woh Apne hi bete ko kyun leke bhagega. Matlab Kuch bhi logic. Ya Maine 1-2 posts pe comment Kiya tha ki woh negative nahi hai tho bhi he is blamed everytime. Tho they started telling me are you watching the show from beginning. We are legacy fans. Bhai I am watching from middle of season 2 but I don't want watch only for leads. Season 3 start hua I didn't even knew who was Harshad, Pranali ya even Jay. Harshad bahut Pasand aaya tho pre confession episodes tho 200 times bhi dekha but koi aur bhi leads hote tho I would have watched season 3. But ya story chahiye na. And I liked how they showed progression from toxic to good marriage. ITV mein kum dekhne milta yeh. But yeh log ko lagte hai story sirf leads pe focused honi chahiye and if their characters are not growing Abhinav ko blame karenge we didn't sign up for him. But humhare chahne se Kya hota, producers ko trp chahiye and they will go accordingly. Tab tak Jo dikhare enjoy karo. Ya nahi samajh aara tho skip karo. Lekin Apna frustration ache positive character pe nikalkar apna Mann bhi disturb karte aur doosro ka bhi.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Correct.Surgeons don't get involved in tests as tests are handled by nurses and other junior doctors they only review reports. Here abhi has a bonding so he is getting involved but i personally felt choosing abhir over roohi when abhir is still stable and tests can run without him looks cringe. It's like a doctor dying to treat his ex's child ignoring the child who calls him poppy.

If abhi knew there will be an emergency he would have ran to hospital ignoring everything. But here it was just some tests and how will he answer manjari and arohi for ignoring roohi and priorotizing abhir. As he currently don't have any solid reason to do that. Neither abhir was critical nor abhimanyu knows he is his son.

This sums it up pretty well. It looks like they went there for an appointment with Dr. Abhimnayu and that's why it was mentioned that they came for an appt because Dr. Abhimanyu asked them to come for some tests. This was not merely just a checkup or an emergency where they rushed him to the hospital and the doctor was off or away. If they had gone there without him knowing, expecting him to be there and he wasn't, and then bashed him, it would be completely wrong. However, if a doctor asks to come in and is not there, phir gussa hona to banta hai.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

I will not argue that who is right or wrong, logic or illogic or whatever. But I have to say that Abhimanyu must be set his priority. Kab kisko kitni attention chahiye ye kisi ko bhi pata hona chahiye. He chose Ruhi test not even exam over Abhir health. And Nav said exactly right "that u r a Dr u should be punctual".

Looks like Abhi will struggle between the two kids in the future. He can handle one, but wont be able to handle both.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Abhimanyu is Abhir's surgeon, it wasn't a surgery Abhir was in the hospital for some tests which are performed by a team of pathologists, don't even need to be supervised by any doctor or especially not a surgeon

Abhimanyu left doing all arrangements for test procedure and a doctor + staff was attending Abhir

There was no negligence on anyone's part

Abhir started panicking and all Abhimanyu did after coming back was ask him to take deep breaths and calm down. He didn't need a surgeon or medical assistant, just Abhimanyu's presence

In the scene, Doctor Abhimanyu did his job and father Abhimanyu was there for Roohi and Abhir and seeing how his absence affected Abhir, he decided to prioritise Abhir, this was Abhimanyu as a father scene not Abhimanyu as a surgeon scene

About Abhinav and Akshara If they think Abhir is not good enough or there was a negligence on his part then Abhinav would have filed complaint instead of saying that he trusts Abhimanyu. You don't abuse people to vent out your frustration

They had an appt with Dr. Abhimanyu, period.

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

Ab pathologist ka job bhi surgeon karega 🤣 waah and I really wonder koi aur hota toh kya karta?

If the entire country only has one surgeon capable of handling such a case then anything is possible.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Woh Apne hi bete ko kyun leke bhagega. Matlab Kuch bhi logic. Ya Maine 1-2 posts pe comment Kiya tha ki woh negative nahi hai tho bhi he is blamed everytime. Tho they started telling me are you watching the show from beginning. We are legacy fans. Bhai I am watching from middle of season 2 but I don't want watch only for leads. Season 3 start hua I didn't even knew who was Harshad, Pranali ya even Jay. Harshad bahut Pasand aaya tho pre confession episodes tho 200 times bhi dekha but koi aur bhi leads hote tho I would have watched season 3. But ya story chahiye na. And I liked how they showed progression from toxic to good marriage. ITV mein kum dekhne milta yeh. But yeh log ko lagte hai story sirf leads pe focused honi chahiye and if their characters are not growing Abhinav ko blame karenge we didn't sign up for him. But humhare chahne se Kya hota, producers ko trp chahiye and they will go accordingly. Tab tak Jo dikhare enjoy karo. Ya nahi samajh aara tho skip karo. Lekin Apna frustration ache positive character pe nikalkar apna Mann bhi disturb karte aur doosro ka bhi.

wahi to mujhe to yahi nahi samjh aata ki itne ache ckt ki dhajiyan udayi ja rahi hai shipping k chakkar main. abhi kisi or ki wife ko purpose karta hai to it's love but AK apne hi husband se close hoti hai to she is characterless. Abhimanyu kisi husband se uski biwi mangta hai to it's love but wo husband jub apne hi biwi ko pyar se dekhta hai to it's cringe. Abhimanyu gusse main apni miscarriage wife to instant divorce deta hai just because he was sad, have trauma but AK or Abhinav sirf thoda sa chilla bhi de to inki himmat kaise hui. Ak accepted a strange person for fathering her child to wo kaise ek ajnabee ko pita ka hak de sakti hai but Abhi ko kuch nahi kahenge ki wo kyu nahi ruhi k arohi se shaadi kar sakta hai. many more like this which is never ending rant🥱