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Posted: 2 years ago
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The blatant disregard for the rights and emotions of non biological parents and the classism and body shaming under the garb of "humor " is nauseating. Do people also feel that adopted children are not an actual part of the family? That they are just substitutes until the "real" khoon ke bacche come along?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Nothing yaa..wahi roz ka rona dhona.. "Why is that gareeb chomu behaving as if he's the kid's real father? Apni aukaat bhul gaya shayad" 😱😱😱

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Nothing yaa..wahi roz ka rona dhona.. "Why is that gareeb chomu behaving as if he's the kid's real father? Apni aukaat bhul gaya shayad" 😱😱😱


Abhimanyu sab yaad dilayega usse !! Once Abhimanyu & Birlas come to know the truth Nav will be bypassed completely and he wouldn't be able to do anything.


And even Akshara will.not do anything since her priority would be her son. Nav will be sidelined completely than the biological parents of Abheer will come.on front

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Abhimanyu sab yaad dilayega usse !! Once Abhimanyu & Birlas come to know the truth Nav will be bypassed completely and he wouldn't be able to do anything.


And even Akshara will.not do anything since her priority would be her son. Nav will be sidelined completely than the biological parents of Abheer will come.on front

It won't happen so soon.

The creatives have no story unless they want to find up after IPL.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Ok sorry for sounding like a broken record.. but...

Abhimanyu is the main lead. Presumably, If Abhimanyu had adopted a child to remove his loneliness after... let's assume Akshara's death.. and the real parents wanted the kid back...Then all the fans would be like:

"He was the one who raised the kid.."

"The kid was the one who removed loneliness and made him whole again"

"How dare they do such a thing..."

"Some relations are much stronger than blood relations" etc.. etc...

But here, Abhinav is just a cameo.. so the narrative from the lead will be...

"Khoon khoon hota hai.. paani nahi.."

Things got complicated that, Abhimanyu is still considered redeemable by many and He is unaware of the kid. So, in a way. A good guy does not know the existence of his kid.. feels bad..

Toxic Abhira fans can only see the unfairness of the situation of Abhimanyu. Added to the fact many of them just hate Abhinav to come in between AK and Abhi... Hence the comments...

I take these hurtful and toxic comments with a grain of salt.. because just like their Abhira.. Abhira Fans are also maha flippers...

Tomorrow, after Abhi leaves Arohi for Akshu and Aru try to take away Ruhi.. and see Abhi crying and suffering for his roo..

I bet you everyone will go nuts... they'll suddenly be dil se dil ka connection more important than khoon.. and alll that

Truthfully.. on ITV .. Main leads are the people who control the narrative.. there is no fixed stereotype in ITV.. ITV series believe in any kind of love as long as it brings TRP.

Sidey or Cameos' feelings are not that important..

Honestly, I LOVE the relationship between Abhinav and Abhir... I even like the parenting dynamics of the Sharma family. Nav plays with Abhir.. but when it comes to teaching him manners takes equal responsibility with Ak.. Whenever Abhir was taught anything.. both Ak and Abhinav were like a joint team.

Be it asking Abhir to apologize to Docman... or not giving into his demands for a separate room... or cheering him for his match... or making him promise to not hide anything from his parents..

For me, Abhir's father is both Abhimanyu and Abhinav.. but would love to see the kid happy in Kasauli with Nav and Ak. Because Nav and ak are great parents.. and they work as a great team.. both are balanced.

I never felt Abhi and Aru have a balanced partnership with roohi.. Maybe because they are in a (toxic) joint family... it doesn't feel they are equal in parenting relations.

And I so feel that Ak and Abhi would not have been great partners when parenting. Their relationship cannot be as balanced as they show in Kasauli...I also feel that Abhi with his volatile personality doesn't feel like he can provide that healthy environment for Abhir with or without the Birla family(totally personal opinion). Akshu was his stress relief ball.. and I don't want the kid to see the extreme love and extreme anger directed toward his mother and consider it normal.

But Ak being a stupid FL.. will go back to her soul love.

I am just enjoying it while it lasts...


Only seeing for Abhir And his kasauli family time

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Adoption is the most purest thing in the world!

But adoption on the basis of hiding truth is a lie.


Don't you think the biological parent should be aware of the existence of their kid? Abhi has done blunders and mistakes which are irreversible.


But he still has right to know about the existence of his kid. Even if after that Akshara fights back saying he has no right on Abhir because of what he has done with her.


Also, imagine what will happen to Abhir once he knows the truth. In no way it is going to be easy for him. And he will feel betrayed that his parents lied to him his whole life and did everything to keep him away from his family and other relationships.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: umawanderer

Ok sorry for sounding like a broken record.. but...

Abhimanyu is the main lead. Presumably, If Abhimanyu had adopted a child to remove his loneliness after... let's assume Akshara's death.. and the real parents wanted the kid back...Then all the fans would be like:

"He was the one who raised the kid.."

"The kid was the one who removed loneliness and made him whole again"

"How dare they do such a thing..."

"Some relations are much stronger than blood relations" etc.. etc...

But here, Abhinav is just a cameo.. so the narrative from the lead will be...

"Khoon khoon hota hai.. paani nahi.."

Things got complicated that, Abhimanyu is still considered redeemable by many and He is unaware of the kid. So, in a way. A good guy does not know the existence of his kid.. feels bad..

Toxic Abhira fans can only see the unfairness of the situation of Abhimanyu. Added to the fact many of them just hate Abhinav to come in between AK and Abhi... Hence the comments...

I take these hurtful and toxic comments with a grain of salt.. because just like their Abhira.. Abhira Fans are also maha flippers...

Tomorrow, after Abhi leaves Arohi for Akshu and Aru try to take away Ruhi.. and see Abhi crying and suffering for his roo..

I bet you everyone will go nuts... they'll suddenly be dil se dil ka connection more important than khoon.. and alll that

Truthfully.. on ITV .. Main leads are the people who control the narrative.. there is no fixed stereotype in ITV.. ITV series believe in any kind of love as long as it brings TRP.

Sidey or Cameos' feelings are not that important..

Honestly, I LOVE the relationship between Abhinav and Abhir... I even like the parenting dynamics of the Sharma family. Nav plays with Abhir.. but when it comes to teaching him manners takes equal responsibility with Ak.. Whenever Abhir was taught anything.. both Ak and Abhinav were like a joint team.

Be it asking Abhir to apologize to Docman... or not giving into his demands for a separate room... or cheering him for his match... or making him promise to not hide anything from his parents..

For me, Abhir's father is both Abhimanyu and Abhinav.. but would love to see the kid happy in Kasauli with Nav and Ak. Because Nav and ak are great parents.. and they work as a great team.. both are balanced.

I never felt Abhi and Aru have a balanced partnership with roohi.. Maybe because they are in a (toxic) joint family... it doesn't feel they are equal in parenting relations.

And I so feel that Ak and Abhi would not have been great partners when parenting. Their relationship cannot be as balanced as they show in Kasauli...I also feel that Abhi with his volatile personality doesn't feel like he can provide that healthy environment for Abhir with or without the Birla family(totally personal opinion). Akshu was his stress relief ball.. and I don't want the kid to see the extreme love and extreme anger directed toward his mother and consider it normal.

But Ak being a stupid FL.. will go back to her soul love.

I am just enjoying it while it lasts...


Only seeing for Abhir And his kasauli family time

I am thinking if a person like Abhinav was not there she would have landed with a person with malice intention She would have been in a Kothai doing Moojra and abhir would have what kind of life I cannot imagine Akshara would have stayed with her family Goenka but as usual she is dumb and not practical
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Nothing yaa..wahi roz ka rona dhona.. "Why is that gareeb chomu behaving as if he's the kid's real father? Apni aukaat bhul gaya shayad" 😱😱😱

What else can you expect from a bunch immature people who can't even differentiate reel and real. I would be surprised the day these people will actually so some sensibility.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrutiraina007

Adoption is the most purest thing in the world!

But adoption on the basis of hiding truth is a lie.


Don't you think the biological parent should be aware of the existence of their kid? Abhi has done blunders and mistakes which are irreversible.


But he still has right to know about the existence of his kid. Even if after that Akshara fights back saying he has no right on Abhir because of what he has done with her.


Also, imagine what will happen to Abhir once he knows the truth. In no way it is going to be easy for him. And he will feel betrayed that his parents lied to him his whole life and did everything to keep him away from his family and other relationships.

Abhir is not adopted by abhinav. He is abhirs legal guardian and his step father bec akshu is married to him. Abhimanyu as a biological father can only claim his rights if incase he didn't divorce akshu ..currently, he can only approach the court for abhirs custody , the basis of which must be that his mother is incapable of giving him a good upbringing ...


What might happen to abhir is well known..he will be the tool to unite the soul lovers ..just as nobody else can operate on abhir , abhir will fall sick for his real father , run away frm the house and doc will say "in his condition don't give him any shock, keep him happy " ..idc abt all that..arooobhi ki shadi hogi ya nahi golden question ye hai😆


The perfect moment to tell him was when akshu discovered one of the babies is Alive....ab after 6 yrs why would akshu upset her peaceful world over a nasty truth from the past ? Remember in krpkab sonakshi tried to tell abt her pregnancy but mummy didn't allow sona to see her son..their loss isn't it ? Whether or not she married in those years where they separated , whether or not the child knew , the father lost the precious years right ? Apne Karam hai jo destiny banke saamne aate hai

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

Abhir is not adopted by abhinav. He is abhirs legal guardian and his step father bec akshu is married to him. Abhimanyu as a biological father can only claim his rights if incase he didn't divorce akshu ..currently, he can only approach the court for abhirs custody , the basis of which must be that his mother is incapable of giving him a good upbringing ...


What might happen to abhir is well known..he will be the tool to unite the soul lovers ..just as nobody else can operate on abhir , abhir will fall sick for his real father , run away frm the house and doc will say "in his condition don't give him any shock, keep him happy " ..idc abt all that..arooobhi ki shadi hogi ya nahi golden question ye hai😆


The perfect moment to tell him was when akshu discovered one of the babies is Alive....ab after 6 yrs why would akshu upset her peaceful world over a nasty truth from the past ? Remember in krpkab sonakshi tried to tell abt her pregnancy but mummy didn't allow sona to see her son..their loss isn't it ? Whether or not she married in those years where they separated , whether or not the child knew , the father lost the precious years right ? Apne Karam hai jo destiny banke saamne aate hai


Agree, the biological father loses the precious years due to all this misfortune. That's why he has a right to know the truth.


I also don't think he has any claim on Abhir, tell Akshara says so. But he the truth he should now. It shouldn't be like the biological father doesn't know the existence itself.


In Krpkab also, Dev loses 9 years of his kid's upbringing, just because his mother sent her away. Here, Abhi himself closed all windows for her because he was dealing with the grief of Neil's death and had completely lost it.


And I don't think Abhi-Aarohi will get married. But lets see, from here it is anyone's track.

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