Why still people ship for toxicity - Page 2

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Sorry to butt in.

B- I disagree. Being a blind follower of his mother doesn't make him a great son. Whole equation is maha toxic. He is always bending to his mother's all wishes without using his own brain isn't cute or sweet. It shows him as an emotionally handicapped human being who can't see any wrong in his loved one's.

Abhi is even failure as a parent. In the name of pyaar & all, he is making her a brat.

And popping anti anxiety pills from time to time doesn't make him a great doctor either . He is responsible to his patients , with anger issues and panic attacks , he should be the one getting treatment.

Originally posted by: Krinya

And popping anti anxiety pills from time to time doesn't make him a great doctor either . He is responsible to his patients , with anger issues and panic attacks , he should be the one getting treatment.

I was about to reply the same. One's not being a good child if one aids their parent on their road to Jahannam (hell). Abhimanyu and many others around them including Goenkas enable Manjari. The same people of course enable Abhimanyu too. Kairav had always somewhat called him out on his arrogance and vanity, but he never truly stood up for Akshara like a brother should. And now it's so bad that he doesn't even care that Abhir is just a 6 year old kid before mistreating him just cuz his fragile ego couldn't take that Akshara didn't go to him when she was shattered by her supposed shield. It's only Abhinav who has ever truly given her the love, support, respect, and care that any girl deserves. Akshara does reciprocate it to some extent, but she still has her walls up and thus sometimes end up mistreating Abhinav (at least a little). I just hope she can fully accept him and be a little more considerate towards him.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Sorry to butt in.

B- I disagree. Being a blind follower of his mother doesn't make him a great son. Whole equation is maha toxic. He is always bending to his mother's all wishes without using his own brain isn't cute or sweet. It shows him as an emotionally handicapped human being who can't see any wrong in his loved one's.

Abhi is even failure as a parent. In the name of pyaar & all, he is making her a brat.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I think one of the biggest reasons she is yet to move on is because Abhinav never stepped up to move forward in the relationship. Akshara made it very clear during Abhir's birth that she won't be his wife and he will only be Abhir's father but she was hurt at that time and anyone is her place would have said the same thing. They are legally married but never consummated the marriage so technically they're still husband and wife. Abhinav has always valued relationships so out of fear he might've not pushed Akshara for anything or made any efforts throughout the years.

6 years is a very long time. Akshara has spent more time with Abhinav than Abhimanyu so falling in love would have not been difficult. People go through divorces and deaths yet find love again and in this case, Akshara even went through humiliation so how hard would it be to fall in love with a man like Abhinav?

I think cvs could have had a more realistic approach where Askshara would have moved on, then Abhinav died, and Akshara found love in Abhimnayu again. Abhimanyu working hard on gaining love and trust back would be better than the crap we are seeing right now.

Well said

Originally posted by: ketty84

Why people want reunion with dard ka rishta. What left for ship Abhira. What the hell ... People move on in life. Yes Akashra can't love abhinav equally as abhimanyu but she loves him have no realisation because she struck in past. If you want to show something show how Akshara realise his love for Abhinav. Atleast with Abhinav she will get respect. Please abhimanyu bro wife tell Akashra that what's feels like to being torchered and get abused. Akshra never got physical abuse by Abhimanyu birla but he n his family did mental abuse several times. Yes Akashra is not perfect but she doesn't deserve mental trauma. Please show people move on live their lives.

even though i have lost hopes on abhira as a couple. I also know harshali may not do any other show together. I have signed up for abhira/harshali and i knew that show will have these kind of character butchering its very rare to find in indian dramas where ml is not butchered. As they like to glorify fl by butchering ml even the top 1 show butchered ml today to glorify maa. Since i know the fact i just ignore and still ship abhira as I want to see harshali on screen and can not compromise on side characters taking more screenspace.

I do not want to punish harshali who are leads just because writers were greedy for trp and butchered their character. I take show as a show. Do not relate it with normal life as itv has not reached to that level where we can expect shows a bit more realistic.

If they make akshu marry abhinav(i am assuming akshu faking it) and abhi marrying arohi that would be my last day on the show as i will loose harshali along with abhira on that day.

My basic rule of watching itv is forget and forgive and move on after every track as that will make the story as fresh story. Watch what you like and leave what you don't like. Comparing with real life will make it more complicated for me so i won't waste my time in that 😁

PS: I am not supporting abhimanyu but i can not compromise on hc's screenspace for writers mistake. He has potential to pull up complicates acts as well. If hc decides to leave the show i am happy for him too. Post which they can do whatever they want. And i will happily stop watching this drag fest 😀 but i will feel bad for pranali but can't handle this drag fest and that too nav and arohi will kill me with their acchapan and toxicity.

Correction: he's not a responsible doctor. If he was, he wouldn't have treated an abortion patient the way he did.

I really dont understand how people are rooting for abhira...

Yeah i know its fictional show and people/youngsters look for chemistry and abhira chemistry is fire

Bt for me its triggering.. im diehard fan of Hc i decided to watch season 3 only becz of Hc and then started liking pranali too loved their chemistry...

Bt doesn't mean i will root for them after watching how abhi treated akshu after neils death

I watched this show on n off so i may missed some parts and i read only updates most of the time..

Bt what i got to know from this forum is akshu too has her share of mistakes

But the way abhi treated akshu is very wrong

Yeah he didnt raise his hand on her bt he abused her..he left her when she need him most.

I faced same in my real life, i had an arranged marriage few years back..he is so love in with me before marriage..i felt im lucky to have him bt after marriage he took me as granted....he abused me he used cuss words when he gets angry..he disrespected me infront of his family and my relatives...yeah he didnt raised his hand but he abused me in all the ways he want..every time when i decide its not gonna work he used to come to me and say i cant live without u..i melted and gave chance again n again n he is mummas boy i never disrespected his parents bt he and his parents disrespected my family many ways. I fed up with everything i cant leave him becz i loved him so much at same time im.unable to bare all these abuses i used to feel im walking on egg shells..and one day it crossed limit he used words which degraded my charcter and in anger be thrown items he found near him..I was done with him..i left his house and im blessed my parents understood my situation they supported me. Still people say he didnt raised hands on u ushould have adjusted but only i know what i went through.. I cried for many days as i really love him bt i know in a relation only love is not important..mutual respect, trust, communication is important, these three are not there in our relation..yeah these three are there but only from one side..from 3 years we are not together i still miss him i still love him but i cant stay with him im happy im my life i no longer needed to walk on egg shells im living my life in my own terms..and after this incident i decided to stay single i dont want any relationships. Cant women stay single..she need a man to complete her life? No i dont think so..

And if a women really want to give second chance in life that is also good..who said love happen only once?

Im happy when sai from ghum lead her life without any man..but its itv so they will make sairat happen bt still i root for single mother sai any day Over sairat

In same way akshu gave chance to abhinav..thats good when no one is there for her he was there.still i feel akshu should have gone to goenkas but she felt even she was wronged by her own family so she left for her own sanity..i know abhira is end game and they will turn abhinav negative r dead but in reality i want akshu move on with abhinav. Abhi with any new girl instead with his saali and they both co parent abhir.

For me mutual respect, trust, transperency, communication is over love any day

And my feeling is if he really loves u then u no need to beg for above..

As a person who was in toxic relation and who is watching itv for some reality finding difficult when seeing itv glorifying toxic relationships and refering them as shiv parvathi...its really triggering😡

I am really sorry what you have gone through and really appreciate your decision of moving out of your marriage and decided to stay single 🤗 more power to you 🤗

From my perspective i will only accept abhira if they show abhi's redemption track. But i have already lost hopes on abhira and will only watch for harshali. As harshali may not do any other show post this show. That's the only reason why i will still ship abhira as that's the only way i can see harshali on screen.

But i know they ruined abhimanyu completely if hc leaves the show i will be happiest as hc deserves something better than yrkkh. But since i usually dont watch many shows i am sticking to this crap by skipping parts which i dont like and want harshali to have more screen space anyways i know story is gone into drain long time back.

Bur in real life if i get men like abhimanyu i will think 100 times and only decide to get back to him if i really feel that they are repenting over their mistakes.

@#minicupcake more power to you and I applaud your courage to move on with such a relationship. I agree, parents also play a huge part , their support means a lot .

It's quite sad that over the years itv has normalized the problematic behavior ..whether it's the MLs or women wasting wasting time in plotting and planning ..the point Is not how much of it is real ..or whether they must show realistic stories or give moral lessons ...

Itv just like social media and bollywood is a massive medium which reaches out to a wide range of people ...the point here Is "responsible story telling " . There r a lot of impressionable minds who have seen life only through this medium and the little that they see while growing up ..that is school colleges and neighborhood. ...it's undeniable that they get wrong ideas of love and marriage through such stories ..itv also has the power to show progressive content but they hardly do, in the name of entertainment ....tell me for a 6 or 7 yr old what does he / she know of rape ? Only what he's seen on TV and films right ? Similarly what they do know of domestic violence and abuse ?

For eg in katha ankahee on Sony, the ml does something despicable out of his past trauma (which is a ridiculous excuse) ....later when the fl confronts him, she tells him that he is so entitled and egoistic that he can see only his guilt and pain ...I also thot this man can never be redeemed after falling so low but the story is abt that ...he is trying to mend his mistakes , not with thr expectation that he will be forgiven.

Now can't akshu confront the birlas and abhimanyu the same way ? Why can't she see what all of us see and expect her to do? Why can't they redeem their ml in a proper way ? Why can't they show normal scenes between couples ? The precap mandir scene could also be a normal conversation between an ex and a lady who went through immense trauma ...akshu can also reveal the truth abt abhir and still live the way she wants to ...

A mil constant barking on her dil is the only way to get trps? A dil quietly taking all insults is the only way to show a mahaan and respectful bharatiya nari? A man turning into obsessive stalker in love is the only way to unite the couple ? All the people around the leads have to be villains for them to come together ? Koi acha admi hona hi nai chahiye otherwise fl would fall in love with him?

Sorry for the rant but it had to come out

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I am really sorry what you have gone through and really appreciate your decision of moving out of your marriage and decided to stay single 🤗 more power to you 🤗

From my perspective i will only accept abhira if they show abhi's redemption track. But i have already lost hopes on abhira and will only watch for harshali. As harshali may not do any other show post this show. That's the only reason why i will still ship abhira as that's the only way i can see harshali on screen.

But i know they ruined abhimanyu completely if hc leaves the show i will be happiest as hc deserves something better than yrkkh. But since i usually dont watch many shows i am sticking to this crap by skipping parts which i dont like and want harshali to have more screen space anyways i know story is gone into drain long time back.

Butin real life if i get men like abhimanyu i will think 100 times and only decide to get back to him if i really feel that they are repenting over their mistakes.

Tqq..and i became strong only because of my parents i dont know what would have happened to me if they r not there..

And yeah i love harshali infact i used to ship pairs like anything ..i want them to end anyways as i cant see them with any other i used to indulge petty fights with frnds 🤣but after wat i went through my perspective changed..i want see reality but in itv it wont happen so atleast i expect genuine redeption of abhi instead of instant maggie noodles abhira reunion but i know it will also wont happen.

In real life i really wish u get good n understanding partner 🥰