Why still people ship for toxicity

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Why people want reunion with dard ka rishta. What left for ship Abhira. What the hell ... People move on in life. Yes Akashra can't love abhinav equally as abhimanyu but she loves him have no realisation because she struck in past. If you want to show something show how Akshara realise his love for Abhinav. Atleast with Abhinav she will get respect. Please abhimanyu bro wife tell Akashra that what's feels like to being torchered and get abused. Akshra never got physical abuse by Abhimanyu birla but he n his family did mental abuse several times. Yes Akashra is not perfect but she doesn't deserve mental trauma. Please show people move on live their lives.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I think one of the biggest reasons she is yet to move on is because Abhinav never stepped up to move forward in the relationship. Akshara made it very clear during Abhir's birth that she won't be his wife and he will only be Abhir's father but she was hurt at that time and anyone is her place would have said the same thing. They are legally married but never consummated the marriage so technically they're still husband and wife. Abhinav has always valued relationships so out of fear he might've not pushed Akshara for anything or made any efforts throughout the years.

6 years is a very long time. Akshara has spent more time with Abhinav than Abhimanyu so falling in love would have not been difficult. People go through divorces and deaths yet find love again and in this case, Akshara even went through humiliation so how hard would it be to fall in love with a man like Abhinav?

I think cvs could have had a more realistic approach where Askshara would have moved on, then Abhinav died, and Akshara found love in Abhimnayu again. Abhimanyu working hard on gaining love and trust back would be better than the crap we are seeing right now.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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They must right ? But they won't 🤢 I'm very much disappointed in akshu..but whatever ..if she can't love abhinav at least not go bk to that mommas baby abhi again. She can raise abhir alone , tell the truth to everyone , live with her head held high.


It's fine if she doesn't love abhinav .. with a traumatic experience it's difficult to fall in love again.



Momma and bachu can find their way to each other , look for happiness elsewhere . Aroo is really a good option but I don't wish it upon aroo also..why spoil aroo's life ? Aur koi doctor dekho mahima jaisi who can put them in their place right away.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ketty84

Why people want reunion with dard ka rishta. What left for ship Abhira. What the hell ... People move on in life. Yes Akashra can't love abhinav equally as abhimanyu but she loves him have no realisation because she struck in past. If you want to show something show how Akshara realise his love for Abhinav. Atleast with Abhinav she will get respect. Please abhimanyu bro wife tell Akashra that what's feels like to being torchered and get abused. Akshra never got physical abuse by Abhimanyu birla but he n his family did mental abuse several times. Yes Akashra is not perfect but she doesn't deserve mental trauma. Please show people move on live their lives.

Imo it's bcos a lot of of Indian families expect the same of their bahus. No matter how wrong their ladla is it's always the wife who has to bear his anger, keep quiet to de-escelate husband's outbursts, follow his whims to maintain d relation, understand his unsaid underlying trauma, stay with him no matter how miserable or bad it gets, always treat the in-laws with respect even if they give taunts n abuse in return. We know how ITV is watched by entire families n ppl start connecting them to their own lives. That's where calling out a toxic relationship is an indirect taunt to so many marriages in India that themselves lack real respect n understanding for d wives. I've seen so many comments here saying Ab never abused Ak, saying so is taking it too far, Ak always held all cards in this relation, Ab is d rightful father of Abhir.... the list of problematic comments goes on It highlights how majority of viewers hold opinions that abuse is only physical, have such casual disregard of a woman choosing self respect n mental peace, are so dismissive of d rights of adoptive parents. They might do it under the pretense of shipping sachha pyaar but all I feel is them justifying their degrading thoughts they've over a woman's needs and in general marriage.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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I don't understand where is the 'love' here? Abhimanyu literally gave Akshara the divorce papers and sees her as the woman who allegedly is responsible for Neil's death. Akshara faced this humiliation and still tried to inform him about their son, but in vain, so she moved on.

I want to understand why is it so difficult for both of them to move on from each other after so much pain?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

I don't understand where is the 'love' here? Abhimanyu literally gave Akshara the divorce papers and sees her as the woman who allegedly is responsible for Neil's death. Akshara faced this humiliation and still tried to inform him about their son, but in vain, so she moved on.

I want to understand why is it so difficult for both of them to move on from each other after so much pain?

No one in the audience understands. Trust me
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

I don't understand where is the 'love' here? Abhimanyu literally gave Akshara the divorce papers and sees her as the woman who allegedly is responsible for Neil's death. Akshara faced this humiliation and still tried to inform him about their son, but in vain, so she moved on.

I want to understand why is it so difficult for both of them to move on from each other after so much pain?

Cos apparently they're each-other's "Sachha Pyaar". 😂 If it was a foreign series this inability to move on would b shown as a problem arising due to one's mental n emotional blockages n leads would take therapy for it. But alas in ITV all this crap is depicted as a nishani of sachha pyaar. In today's episode they showed Ab reminiscing Ak n then focused their camera on Shiv-Parvati picture. Really like REALLY!? This mockery of relations is what ITV serves as bhartiya sanskriti 👏 this nonsense is what they think a true love story should be. In Hollywood twilight series was criticized for being unhealthy. Man that was 1000x better than this shitshow n fl had 100000x more say n respect in her relation. Unfortunately nothing positive can be expected from these daily soaps cos majority of their viewers enjoy n support such toxicity immensely! 😒
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanju_9

Cos apparently they're each-other's "Sachha Pyaar". 😂If it was a foreign series this inability to move on would b shown as a problem arising due to one's mental n emotional blockages n leads would take therapy for it. But alas in ITV all this crap is depicted as a nishani of sachha pyaar. In today's episode they showed Ab reminiscing Ak n then focused their camera on Shiv-Parvati picture. Really like REALLY!? This mockery of relations is what ITV serves as bhartiya sanskriti 👏 this nonsense is what they think a true love story should be. In Hollywood twilight series was criticized for being unhealthy. Man that was 1000x better than this shitshow n fl had 100000x more say n respect in her relation. Unfortunately nothing positive can be expected from these daily soaps cos majority of their viewers enjoy n support such toxicity immensely! 😒

They really want to sell emotional abuse and toxic relationships in the name of true love. Such a horrible way to use the humongous platform you have. They have a great opportunity to show how people can move on from such relationships and there's literally nothing wrong in moving on. People have bad relationships and experiences but they learn from them and move on. They don't go back in the quicksand in the name of true love.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

They really want to sell emotional abuse and toxic relationships in the name of true love. Such a horrible way to use the humongous platform you have. They have a great opportunity to show how people can move on from such relationships and there's literally nothing wrong in moving on. People have bad relationships and experiences but they learn from them and move on. They don't go back in the quicksand in the name of true love.

This comment 👌🏽💯🙌🏽📍 Thank god atleast some ppl on this forum r in their senses 👍🏽 What's worse is even women r shipping this mockery. How many brain cells r required to see who's a better partner for Ak. Just cos someone is d ml so d fl needs to compulsorily end up with him 🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm a fan of HC, especially after I saw his performance in Bepanaah. He was simply phenomenal in that series. But that doesn't imply I've to support every character played by him. Dr. Abhimanyu Birla is an excellent son to Manju, great brother to Neel, okayish popsie to Ruhi (mind he never teaches her right from wrong n bows to all her whims in name of givin laad pyaar), brilliant n responsible doctor to his patients, but a bad husband to Ak.
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Originally posted by: Sanju_9

This comment 👌🏽💯🙌🏽📍Thank god atleast some ppl on this forum r in their senses 👍🏽What's worse is even women r shipping this mockery. How many brain cells r required to see who's a better partner for Ak. Just cos someone is d ml so d fl needs to compulsorily end up with him 🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm a fan of HC, especially after I saw his performance in Bepanaah. He was simply phenomenal in that series. But that doesn't imply I've to support every character played by him. Dr. Abhimanyu Birla is an excellent son to Manju, great brother to Neel, okayish popsie to Ruhi (mind he never teaches her right from wrong n bows to all her whims in name of givin laad pyaar), brilliant n responsible doctor to his patients, but a bad husband to Ak.

Sorry to butt in.

B- I disagree. Being a blind follower of his mother doesn't make him a great son. Whole equation is maha toxic. He is always bending to his mother's all wishes without using his own brain isn't cute or sweet. It shows him as an emotionally handicapped human being who can't see any wrong in his loved one's.

Abhi is even failure as a parent. In the name of pyaar & all, he is making her a brat.

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