you can love someone and still not want them part of your life

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Posted: 2 years ago
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As of now, I don't see any reason for Akshu to want Abhi back in her life and she herself says she wants to stay far away. There is no interest for her, her life is happy and peaceful even if they are poor. She would be smart to stop taking advantage of Abhinav and just seriously move on with him. I'm a little surprised at her for asking him to be in a fake relationship, it just seem so selfish as he is supposed to stay his WHOLE life fake married to her risk Abhinav losing his father? Logic seems to poor here, in the interest of furthering the story.


For Abhi, I think it's correct he stay single or marry Aru if he wants. He has such a volatile personality, that it would be hard for any woman to be in a relationship with him. I would like to see him be remorseful for the way he treated Akshu whether she was in the right or wrong. It just doesn't seem like him to leave a broken, helpless woman alone in her darkest hour even if he hated her at that moment. He is a doctor, he has taken an oath to keep everyone safe, regardless of personal bias so this was a major break of character for him. He honestly doesn't deserve a relationship unless show makers show some growth of character, like they did for Aru.


I think the only cliff hangers as of now are that the whole birla family should apologize to Akshu for their behavior and they should come to know that Abhir is Abhi's biological son and then figure out a way to move the story forward without the leads coming back together. It was such a beautiful love story before and makers have damaged it so callously that them coming back together would be an insult to the characters and the audience.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I think if you put actors chemistry and personal bias aside look at them just characters, akshara and abhimayu think they love each other but their core values don’t match, and abhinav and Akshara are not in love but their values match. You can’t spend your life with just someone singing duet, riding motorbikes and making love that is all akshara and abhimanyu relation was reduced to, if there was any more depth I don’t think I saw it. This is where yrkhh failed in season 3 there were very few moments where this couple are on the same page, let alone reading the same book.


abhimanyu attraction to akshara is she reminds him of his mother, connection to music, being a pushover, self sacrificing good regardless of the personal cost. If I was a psychologist I would say he wanted to reform akshara in a way he couldn’t change his mother, help her live the life he wanted his mother to Iive. His increased frustration, temper, impatience at the end with her is his horrible realization that you cant change someone core nature and he cannot rewrite his mother tragedy by fixing akshara. In his vain attempt to do so he became like his father.


I think we can all universally agree akshara trapping abhinav in this fake marriage setup is the singular worst thing anyone has done on this show, it is up there with manjiri mata hiding Neal adoption papers. Both saw their own peace of mind their own convenience regardless of the negative impact on others. So in many ways these characters are similar, it is ironic they can be so selfish yet act so kind. I think manjiri character has also changed she is now what akshra would become if she stayed married to abhimanyu under his dominant personality.



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Posted: 2 years ago
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Well I don't find it that disturbing.. akshara into this fake marriage (or a marriage without consummation demands ) , may be she wanted to shut up the world and put and end to all the questions that come her way like why is she living with abhinav etc ..its better for abhinavs respect also in the society . She can't be in live in with him, she isn't his "friend" or relative..friends Co habiting is again frowned upon ..plus it will raise a lot of questions on abir too . His upbringing won't be normal if he is not made to believe that he has a happy family . The thing is , abhinavs family/ closed ones knows the truth so there is no deceit there..


I want this to be a proper marriage , not a fake one though . Specially bec akshu must be shown to move on from abhimanyu . Whether she accepts abhinav or not is Secondary. For the sake of story abhinav will def die and akshu will def go bk to birlas🤢 At least make abir and akshu strong enuf to make them realize their mistakes n not have it easy

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Yep! Me too..,,loved the title

Agree with almost everything else you wrote in your post

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I think if you put actors chemistry and personal bias aside look at them just characters, akshara and abhimayu think they love each other but their core values don’t match, and abhinav and Akshara are not in love but their values match. You can’t spend your life with just someone singing duet, riding motorbikes and making love that is all akshara and abhimanyu relation was reduced to, if there was any more depth I don’t think I saw it. This is where yrkhh failed in season 3 there were very few moments where this couple are on the same page, let alone reading the same book.


abhimanyu attraction to akshara is she reminds him of his mother, connection to music, being a pushover, self sacrificing good regardless of the personal cost. If I was a psychologist I would say he wanted to reform akshara in a way he couldn’t change his mother, help her live the life he wanted his mother to Iive. His increased frustration, temper, impatience at the end with her is his horrible realization that you cant change someone core nature and he cannot rewrite his mother tragedy by fixing akshara. In his vain attempt to do so he became like his father.


I think we can all universally agree akshara trapping abhinav in this fake marriage setup is the singular worst thing anyone has done on this show, it is up there with manjiri mata hiding Neal adoption papers. Both saw their own peace of mind their own convenience regardless of the negative impact on others. So in many ways these characters are similar, it is ironic they can be so selfish yet act so kind. I think manjiri character has also changed she is now what akshra would become if she stayed married to abhimanyu under his dominant personality.



This is just such an exact analysis of the story. 👏

Amazing! Especially the likeness between Manju and Akshu.. Ideally, it must be Akshu really moving on with Abhinav after due realization of her mistakes in her marriage with Abhi and Abhimanyu should probably remain single.. He is at his best as a human being when he doesn't have a love interest, I feel. He's too warped to maintain a proper relationship like that one..thanks to Manjari. Terrible woman that one. And you're so right..if Akshu goes back to Abhi, she'll also end up a twisted, crazy woman.

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Originally posted by: Starship1


Yep! Me too..,,loved the title

Agree with almost everything else you wrote in your post

I can't comment on the post content because I haven't watched the show in a long time

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