Victim should pacify accused? - Page 2

Here is my persepective as i am trying to analyze from all persepctive.

1. Manjari adopted neil ideally he would have lost in crowd but she still chose to bring him home when she knows he is her husband's kid. That needs guts. As its really difficult to have that kid and also give whole love to him without expecting anything in return. What would have happend if manjari would have told harsh that neil is his son. Harsh would have kidnapped him as he cares more about reputation than his kid. That's how its been potrayed till now. Harsh wanted abhi to marry arohi for hospital. He would have made neil study mbbs and pulled him also into his mess.

Manjari is wrong but looking at harsh not completely wrong.

2. Abhi: He knows how harsh taunts her abuses her. But she still got a kid into home even listened more than usual. Tolerated everything without any complaint. Gave him a best life he could have asked for considering his life in orphanage vs birla mansion. She never tried putting neil down and if abhi would have known neil is harsh's son they would have ended up like arohi and akshu where neil would Hve competed against abhi to gain harsh's praises.

3. Neil is right too. He deserved to know about the only one blood relation he had. He sacrificed so many things considering that he should not burden his foster family. He even heard so many things from harsh which he could have answered back. But i am failed to understand why neil is over concerned about his so called father who did nothing for him and even nor have any plans as well. He even think 100 times to tell world tht neil is his son.

4. Harsh is wrong in all aspects.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Here is my persepective as i am trying to analyze from all persepctive.

1. Manjari adopted neil ideally he would have lost in crowd but she still chose to bring him home when she knows he is her husband's kid. That needs guts. As its really difficult to have that kid and also give whole love to him without expecting anything in return. What would have happend if manjari would have told harsh that neil is his son. Harsh would have kidnapped him as he cares more about reputation than his kid. That's how its been potrayed till now. Harsh wanted abhi to marry arohi for hospital. He would have made neil study mbbs and pulled him also into his mess.

Manjari is wrong but looking at harsh not completely wrong.

2. Abhi: He knows how harsh taunts her abuses her. But she still got a kid into home even listened more than usual. Tolerated everything without any complaint. Gave him a best life he could have asked for considering his life in orphanage vs birla mansion. She never tried putting neil down and if abhi would have known neil is harsh's son they would have ended up like arohi and akshu where neil would Hve competed against abhi to gain harsh's praises.

3. Neil is right too. He deserved to know about the only one blood relation he had. He sacrificed so many things considering that he should not burden his foster family. He even heard so many things from harsh which he could have answered back. But i am failed to understand why neil is over concerned about his so called father who did nothing for him and even nor have any plans as well. He even think 100 times to tell world tht neil is his son.

4. Harsh is wrong in all aspects.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Here is my persepective as i am trying to analyze from all persepctive.

1. Manjari adopted neil ideally he would have lost in crowd but she still chose to bring him home when she knows he is her husband's kid. That needs guts. As its really difficult to have that kid and also give whole love to him without expecting anything in return. What would have happend if manjari would have told harsh that neil is his son. Harsh would have kidnapped him as he cares more about reputation than his kid. That's how its been potrayed till now. Harsh wanted abhi to marry arohi for hospital. He would have made neil study mbbs and pulled him also into his mess.

Manjari is wrong but looking at harsh not completely wrong.

2. Abhi: He knows how harsh taunts her abuses her. But she still got a kid into home even listened more than usual. Tolerated everything without any complaint. Gave him a best life he could have asked for considering his life in orphanage vs birla mansion. She never tried putting neil down and if abhi would have known neil is harsh's son they would have ended up like arohi and akshu where neil would Hve competed against abhi to gain harsh's praises.

3. Neil is right too. He deserved to know about the only one blood relation he had. He sacrificed so many things considering that he should not burden his foster family. He even heard so many things from harsh which he could have answered back. But i am failed to understand why neil is over concerned about his so called father who did nothing for him and even nor have any plans as well. He even think 100 times to tell world tht neil is his son.

4. Harsh is wrong in all aspects.

Well said .

@bold , exactly my question . How on earth does Neil think his life would be better if manjari disclosed the truth earlier ? Harsh doesn't love anyone unless they are of any use to him. Expecting harsh to love Neil is so pointless , he never loved abhimanyu as a son ..I'd still like to know why manjari kept it a secret.

Imagine if arooo believed herself to be nairas daughter . Will she still hate akshu like she does ? Will she be jealous and insecure abt her position ? Real siblings sometimes blame their parents parents acting biased, here it's more complex . Neil may still think that he is being discriminated against abhimanyu , how correct will it be ?

As for neil turning into errand boy..not everyone aspires to be a doctor unlike what this doctor family thinks. Parth inspite of being a certified doctor is not interested in practicing . If neil wanted to be one , he would be ..he can still be. It's the problem of Birla family that they judge everyone by their qualifications . Anisha parth neil , everyone is burdened with their expectations which is wrong . Neil not getting proper education coz he was am orphan is so far fetched . As far as I know he studied in the same college as vansh .

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Here is my persepective as i am trying to analyze from all persepctive.

1. Manjari adopted neil ideally he would have lost in crowd but she still chose to bring him home when she knows he is her husband's kid. That needs guts. As its really difficult to have that kid and also give whole love to him without expecting anything in return. What would have happend if manjari would have told harsh that neil is his son. Harsh would have kidnapped him as he cares more about reputation than his kid. That's how its been potrayed till now. Harsh wanted abhi to marry arohi for hospital. He would have made neil study mbbs and pulled him also into his mess.

Manjari is wrong but looking at harsh not completely wrong.

2. Abhi: He knows how harsh taunts her abuses her. But she still got a kid into home even listened more than usual. Tolerated everything without any complaint. Gave him a best life he could have asked for considering his life in orphanage vs birla mansion. She never tried putting neil down and if abhi would have known neil is harsh's son they would have ended up like arohi and akshu where neil would Hve competed against abhi to gain harsh's praises.

3. Neil is right too. He deserved to know about the only one blood relation he had. He sacrificed so many things considering that he should not burden his foster family. He even heard so many things from harsh which he could have answered back. But i am failed to understand why neil is over concerned about his so called father who did nothing for him and even nor have any plans as well. He even think 100 times to tell world tht neil is his son.

4. Harsh is wrong in all aspects.

Baki I agree. Except moron harsh & harsh k favourite doctor, everyone is victim here. They're behaving like normal human being only.

I never trusted Manjiri and I am not going to do now. She has her motive to bring Neil in the house and let his father treat him so badly, I agree harsh wouldn’t have done anything special for neil but atleast he would have been treated as human not slave of that house. Even if abhi buy him things he always feel obliged to him.

Abhi the day he started flirting with akshara and marrying arohi I know they will spoil the character to no end which they are continuously doing after marriage getting angry on akshara for small things which she is not even responsible for. Now everyone is wrong without Manjiri.

Harsh is worst character in this show till now.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well said .

@bold , exactly my question . How on earth does Neil think his life would be better if manjari disclosed the truth earlier ? Harsh doesn't love anyone unless they are of any use to him. Expecting harsh to love Neil is so pointless , he never loved abhimanyu as a son ..I'd still like to know why manjari kept it a secret.

Imagine if arooo believed herself to be nairas daughter . Will she still hate akshu like she does ? Will she be jealous and insecure abt her position ? Real siblings sometimes blame their parents parents acting biased, here it's more complex . Neil may still think that he is being discriminated against abhimanyu , how correct will it be ?

As for neil turning into errand boy..not everyone aspires to be a doctor unlike what this doctor family thinks. Parth inspite of being a certified doctor is not interested in practicing . If neil wanted to be one , he would be ..he can still be. It's the problem of Birla family that they judge everyone by their qualifications . Anisha parth neil , everyone is burdened with their expectations which is wrong . Neil not getting proper education coz he was am orphan is so far fetched . As far as I know he studied in the same college as vansh .

May be neil always wanted to be doctor and he dropped the plan thinking about taunts he would recieve from harsh as he is orphan. He always used to get taunts like muft khor etc. Which might be there during his childhood too. So he opted for those courses which are less expensive like commerce or arts.

Neil might be correct in few aspects considering if he knew he is harsh's son and if harsh would have not taunted those things then he would be some thing else. But the only thing that bugging me is neil knows how harsh is more than abhi. He has been slapped by him for helping abhira. He even was about to get thrown out. He is expecting too much out of harsh and soon he wil realize the truth. Harsh might do something which will make him realize that he is not worth of anything.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

I think at this point for neil it's normal to be over concerned about his father/mother (though that father is A grade moron). He isn't in right frame of mind. & the whole truth was disclosed to him in a very ugly way. So bechara k dimag mein sau chess a chal rah hai.

Baki I agree. Except moron harsh & harsh k favourite doctor, everyone is victim here. They're behaving like normal human being only.

If not for DNA Reports,Harsh would not believe that Neil is his son !

He would have made Manjaris life more hell