What's your opinion about "Manju Mata"?

Earlier Manju was my favorite character from YRKKH, but now I think Arohi is much better than Manju Mata.

Manju is all about what is wrong with the Mil concept in our society.. Those who are bad are bad, but those mils who are comparatively good..and they are much fewer than the bad ones..have this fault---they think their behaving decently with their bahu and treating them with basic humanity is actually a great favour that they do on the bahu.. Like dekho main tumhare saath Kitna accha behave kar rahi hoon, jo Main Saason jaise nahi chal rahi.. So we have Manju spouting I have been good to you, took you as a Beti and all that crap... So what's the big deal in that? A dil is expected to adopt her husband 's relations as her own and make his family hers but her getting a little bit of daughterly love is a great favour upon her?? In fact it's the daughters in law who are doing a great favor on their sasural by agreeing to live with them and making them their own, and allowing the stupid mothers of sons to be able to continue to live in comfort and proximity with their sons and not have to deal with any major changes in life even after their sons get married.

Can't say much about manju mata. She is better than suvarna mata , that I can say with surety 😆

Sorry but I’ve never liked Manjari she’s too irritating and over dramatic.

Akshu Manju can never beat Akshara and Gayatri they were the best Saas Bahu and they are the worst.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Manju is all about what is wrong with the Mil concept in our society.. Those who are bad are bad, but those mils who are comparatively good..and they are much fewer than the bad ones..have this fault---they think their behaving decently with their bahu and treating them with basic humanity is actually a great favour that they do on the bahu.. Like dekho main tumhare saath Kitna accha behave kar rahi hoon, jo Main Saason jaise nahi chal rahi.. So we have Manju spouting I have been good to you, took you as a Beti and all that crap... So what's the big deal in that? A dil is expected to adopt her husband 's relations as her own and make his family hers but her getting a little bit of daughterly love is a great favour upon her?? In fact it's the daughters in law who are doing a great favor on their sasural by agreeing to live with them and making them their own, and allowing the stupid mothers of sons to be able to continue to live in comfort and proximity with their sons and not have to deal with any major changes in life even after their sons get married.

She says beti maana that Maine tujhe. Which mother wouldn't forgive mistake of her daughter? That too a pure hearted daughter and that too ak came and told manju she knows about the truth. Let's say it was through akshu neil found out, whats the big deal about that? It was anyway going to come out.

The kind of death glares she gave to akshu proves she never actually thought of her as daughter and saying " bahu beti jaisi hoti hai" is never true- they just say it for the sake of it but there's always differential treatment I have seen in a lot of households.

Poor akshu, she has left all her relations and come to this new house craving for little light and acceptance. It's natural but instead of making this new place comfortable for her, all including her new husband is doing all this torture with her. They're treating her as if she doesn't exist. I want akshu to straight away tell don't dare call yourself my mother, when you cant be one. Saas ho saas ban ke raho and want her to give it to her saas how she is taking abuse from own husband but torturing bahu in return and I hope she distances herself from manju. Abhi's promises to kairav and gfam is so hollow- that ill take care of akshu and her happiness which depicts the reality of such men which is there even in love marriage. Abhi is behaving like a typical husband and I think his character arc will go down only, as if it wasn't already very low 😆 Instead of correcting whats wrong in their family, mahima manhandled akshu and nobody from goenkas intervened. That's so sad. It shows how mayke wale think of girl as parayi after shaadi and don't interfere in her matters and think that in laws can treat the DIL whichever they want.

Thats why akshu's mahanta looked stupid. She should have been shown as a modern, independent women. Currently, I can only sympathize with her.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Manju is all about what is wrong with the Mil concept in our society.. Those who are bad are bad, but those mils who are comparatively good..and they are much fewer than the bad ones..have this fault---they think their behaving decently with their bahu and treating them with basic humanity is actually a great favour that they do on the bahu.. Like dekho main tumhare saath Kitna accha behave kar rahi hoon, jo Main Saason jaise nahi chal rahi.. So we have Manju spouting I have been good to you, took you as a Beti and all that crap... So what's the big deal in that? A dil is expected to adopt her husband 's relations as her own and make his family hers but her getting a little bit of daughterly love is a great favour upon her?? In fact it's the daughters in law who are doing a great favor on their sasural by agreeing to live with them and making them their own, and allowing the stupid mothers of sons to be able to continue to live in comfort and proximity with their sons and not have to deal with any major changes in life even after their sons get married.

and I've seen Abhimanyu birla fans type, how is he toxic? Did he hit her? He's only giving her silent treatment. Marriages mai toh problem hote hee hai.

Yes even I don't understand what's the big deal about this fact coming out.. It's only going to cause some temporary disturbance to the Birlas, but it's actually Neil who has had his whole world turned upside down..Udaipur isn't really going to bother that a member of the Birla family has an illegitimate son, it'll only make slight waves on the third page then nobody will bother.

I don't like Manju's soch..she wants to keep " her parivaar" together at the cost of Neil's birthright.. How is she not selfish? How is her just caring for Neil in return for his unconditional services to the entire family not an unfair bargain for Neil? Now some are saying that Neil's attitude is not right, he is being ungrateful to Manjari and Abhi! Like, what?! Although Neil being the sweetheart he is said it first that I'll always be grateful to you for your love and care.. But she didn't do right by him, no question of that. And Abhi is very stupid to tell Neil not to question his mother..his dialogues like what are you doing? How can you question Maa like this who gave you so much was totally wrong.. He was still trying to hold the 'ehsaan' thing over Neil's head.

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Yes even I don't understand what's the big deal about this fact coming out.. It's only going to cause some temporary disturbance to the Birlas, but it's actually Neil who has had his whole world turned upside down..Udaipur isn't really going to bother that a member of the Birla family has an illegitimate son, it'll only make slight waves on the third page then nobody will bother.

I don't like Manju's soch..she wants to keep " her parivaar" together at the cost of Neil's birthright.. How is she not selfish? How is her just caring for Neil in return for his unconditional services to the entire family not an unfair bargain for Neil? Now some are saying that Neil's attitude is not right, he is being ungrateful to Manjari and Abhi! Like, what?! Although Neil being the sweetheart he is said it first that I'll always be grateful to you for your love and care.. But she didn't do right by him, no question of that. And Abhi is very stupid to tell Neil not to question his mother..his dialogues like what are you doing? How can you question Maa like this who gave you so much was totally wrong.. He was still trying to hold the 'ehsaan' thing over Neil's head.

True- by that logic Neil can also blame manjari for coming in between harsh and his mom. He deserves to know his real mom is as she for sure wanted to raise him that's why didn't abort. It's said in the story that she was not well and dieing, that's why had to leave him in orphanage...and any kid who is adopted is given so much love just like real son. I have in family a couple who adopted because they couldn't conceive and he is so pampered. It hardly makes any difference after you've adopted someone but to constantly be reminded of that I've adopted you is making the adopted kid's life more hell as akshara rightly pointed out, adopt toh kiya par apnaya nai and manjari's concern for Neil always looked fake to me since beginning .. isse accha toh mat hee adopt Karo na. The very fact that she has adopted him makes her responsibile for his proper well being...that's why orphanages verify before sending kids to home.. she literally allowed Neil to be abused ...even if he is an orphan it's wrong. But heree the truth is completely else, he indeed is birla's son and rightful son of the household and once you've adopted someone, your care and love should be unconditional but what she did to him is completely inhumane..it's like taking someone's existence away from them ..i have seen even real brothers fight for father's property but here it's a case of a mother hiding half brother's truth...obviously Neil will have his insecurities.

If harsh knew about Neil, he would have surely planned for his education and Neil would be more secure of his position in the house.

And yes for abhi also it's been ehsaan and now Neil would be rightly angry that what ehsaan youre talking about? I deserve as much as you do but still abhi is continuing in his tone of ehsaan and backing with his mother. Both mom son think they've done such a noble deed.

I am tired of Manjari and her absurdly long ponytail