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Posted: 3 years ago
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Harsh said "kabhi kisi par itna vishwaas mat karna ki jab woh vishwaas toot jaye, toh tum bhi toot jao" (or something to that effect) and he's absolutely right, especially if your trust is unfounded. Yes, Akshu's cheating was such a trivial thing cause it's a game but it reminded Abhi of all the times she did overlook his feelings for her happiness (i.e., her family because Akshu's happiness = 75% Aarohi, 15% family, 10% Abhi). Abhi's immediate flashbacks,"mera meri behan ke saath kabhi na tootne wala rishta hai" "stop Abhimanyu!" and heart attack conversation, was Akshu choosing herself over Abhi. For example, she was choosing her relationship with Aarohi (which the Abrohi marriage 'miraculously' fixed) over him in the first flashback. In all three examples, they never truly discussed the root of those conflicts (ex. Akshu explaining why she said what she said after Manish's heart attack) and so Abhi's insecurities are lingering.

Abhi is going to let Aarohi get away with relatively little repercussions, again (like the Abrohi wedding kaands) cause he doesn't care about her. He only sees Akshu and that's evident by the precap where he angrily looks at Akshu dancing, not searching for Aarohi. It's Akshu's silence (well she tried to tell you Abhi) and support for her sister that will enrage him the most because it's another betrayal on top of the unaddressed pile.

If and when Abhira do separate/have a long misunderstanding/conflict, I think it'll bring Harsh and Abhi together because Abhi might recognize that his father's concerns with Akshu weren't as ill-founded as he thought.

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Is it just me or is Abhira's chemistry a thousand times better when Pranali's in those sarees. Like the chura ke dil tera look was so cute they rocked it.

"Didi ke dewar" "Bhabhi ki behan" was cute (if you see it separately from yk the accident). Neil is definitely attracted to Aarohi and he understands her far better than Akshu does. In a crowd, he always gravitates towards her and I wonder why that is. Because he knows her nature so well (liar with a lot of issues as he pointed out) so what is it that brings him back to her.

Also, I think today's the first time Aarohi called Akshu her didi (indirectly but still).

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Harsh speaking about trust and relationships is a big fat joke. He should look into his own marriage and the way he treats his wife before offering any sort of advice to his son. I have a hard time believing that his words came from any place of concern. He takes every opportunity he can to instigate Abhi against Akshu, and he found his golden moment today. Abhi was already upset, and Harsh added fuel to fire, once again triggering his insecurities.


I'm not saying that Abhi's insecurities aren't valid. In fact, I felt really bad for him today. This is what happens when your deepest fears aren't taken care of -- they arise at the most unexpected moments. Throwing the marbles to make him lose was not that deep at all. It's just a game. People cheat in these wedding rituals all the time, and that was in no way, Akshu choosing her family over him. But, he is still so hurt by the past, that he got scared once again. It wasn't the cheating that bothered him, but rather the fact that he thought she once again "chose" her family over him.


I think this might finally be the track when his insecurities are addressed. He will realize that Akshu loves him just as much as she loves her family -- just like he loves Manjari and Akshu equally. The biggest thing that bothers me is that Akshu's love is doubted because her love is spread out amongst her entire family, whereas Abhi's love for family is consolidated within Manjari. But, they have both chosen their respective families over each other in the past. They lack communication and understanding when it comes to this issues, and I am happy that it seemingly is going to be resolved before marriage... although these issues will come up again throughout their relationship too obviously.


Anyways, the entire episode and "cheater cheater" was just a set up for the accident kaand to (finally) be revealed next week.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Absolutely pb behaves like akshu has affair.

He himself hide accident truth from abhi joining hands with Arohi.

Abhi is right at place doesn't mean akshu is wrong. Even ak mother grandmother have similar trait like her. But people praises them.

When it comes to Neil majiri abhi exact behave like ak becoz it's his family two persons. Ak family is not like abhis family expect Arohi who has her own insecurity.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: In_love

Absolutely pb behaves like akshu has affair.

He himself hide accident truth from abhi joining hands with Arohi.

Abhi is right at place doesn't mean akshu is wrong. Even ak mother grandmother have similar trait like her. But people praises them.

When it comes to Neil majiri abhi exact behave like ak becoz it's his family two persons. Ak family is not like abhis family expect Arohi who has her own insecurity.

@bolded: perfectly said! Today, I understood both of them perfectly. Just because they are different and express themselves differently does not mean that one of them always has to be wrong. They can both be right in their respective positions. There is a serious communication gap in this relationship, but I think this track has a lot of potential to get that addressed. And no relationship is perfect. It takes time to build communication and trust. That is why I see no point in bashing either one of them. They will come out of each problem stronger together anyways!

I think this track will finally be the one where Abhi's insecurities are addressed, and he realizes that Akshu loves him just as much as she loves her family. In fact, she went against the emotional abuse and manipulation of her sister and immediately went to tell him the accident truth the second she found out. That was a huge win for her love for him, and he needs to know that.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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More than akshu it's abhi's test this time. He claims infront of everyone that he trusts akshu but now real situation he has to stand by it.

When their is trusts there are no insecurity he love ak immensely no doubt but now it's matter of trust.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: In_love

Absolutely pb behaves like akshu has affair.

He himself hide accident truth from abhi joining hands with Arohi.

Abhi is right at place doesn't mean akshu is wrong. Even ak mother grandmother have similar trait like her. But people praises them.

When it comes to Neil majiri abhi exact behave like ak becoz it's his family two persons. Ak family is not like abhis family expect Arohi who has her own insecurity.

Could not have said it better myself. They’re both falling prey to a misunderstanding and insecurities and it’s only natural that it happens. People often choose one side and ignore the other when it’s often the case that both people are right in their own places. Both of their perspectives and situations are different and we don’t take that into account when we hastily compare the two
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: In_love

More than akshu it's abhi's test this time. He claims infront of everyone that he trusts akshu but now real situation he has to stand by it.

When their is trusts there are no insecurity he love ak immensely no doubt but now it's matter of trust.

yes this is actually the time when his love is at test, he has always shown immense faith in her and I know he will stand by this too♥️.


This track will make them come out stronger with better understanding provinh all those wrong tho think their relationship wont survive

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

Could not have said it better myself. They’re both falling prey to a misunderstanding and insecurities and it’s only natural that it happens. People often choose one side and ignore the other when it’s often the case that both people are right in their own places. Both of their perspectives and situations are different and we don’t take that into account when we hastily compare the two

i feel its just the communication which is missing majorly and they need to work on it .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

Harsh speaking about trust and relationships is a big fat joke. He should look into his own marriage and the way he treats his wife before offering any sort of advice to his son. I have a hard time believing that his words came from any place of concern. He takes every opportunity he can to instigate Abhi against Akshu, and he found his golden moment today. Abhi was already upset, and Harsh added fuel to fire, once again triggering his insecurities.


I'm not saying that Abhi's insecurities aren't valid. In fact, I felt really bad for him today. This is what happens when your deepest fears aren't taken care of -- they arise at the most unexpected moments. Throwing the marbles to make him lose was not that deep at all. It's just a game. People cheat in these wedding rituals all the time, and that was in no way, Akshu choosing her family over him. But, he is still so hurt by the past, that he got scared once again. It wasn't the cheating that bothered him, but rather the fact that he thought she once again "chose" her family over him.


I think this might finally be the track when his insecurities are addressed. He will realize that Akshu loves him just as much as she loves her family -- just like he loves Manjari and Akshu equally. The biggest thing that bothers me is that Akshu's love is doubted because her love is spread out amongst her entire family, whereas Abhi's love for family is consolidated within Manjari. But, they have both chosen their respective families over each other in the past. They lack communication and understanding when it comes to this issues, and I am happy that it seemingly is going to be resolved before marriage... although these issues will come up again throughout their relationship too obviously.


Anyways, the entire episode and "cheater cheater" was just a set up for the accident kaand to (finally) be revealed next week.

harsh talking about trust was like OMG and he was givinh gyaan on relationship who himself has not even one good rishta in his life. He is such a hypocrite , he was just waiting for putting poison in abhi’s mind against akshra and he got it today. He triggered abhi but he is not aware od the exten to which abhira are into each other, they will surely come out stronger with this track
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: rittika

i feel its just the communication which is missing majorly and they need to work on it .

a thousand percent! I just wish this communication will involve them working together, not against each other. I want to believe that the Abhi we know and watch this show for will give Akshu the benefit of the doubt and not rush to conclusions. That he’ll talk to her patiently and respectfully as he always does.

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