TRAINEE UNDER TRAINING - BRAIN DAMAGE 💃💃 - Page 7

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Good to know that you are enjoying with family . Bela we love Ar but today we can't take her at all till afternoon we both were struck on her and unable to see Abhira moments properly. Ar gave me me severe neck pain today. Manju mata will do next no doubt. Ar is raised and another one from Birlas too next to balance the toxic content and mental conditions of families..

So next week, the ball will be on our side...Manjari raita kaand mata also known as Chidku mata 😆

Manjari and her more clones from Village will be soon joining her

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Meher -

my problem with makers is : Aarohi is doing kaands. None of the Goenkas are seeing it. They are acting as nothing happened. Like today, how blindly Kairav agreed to Aarohi that you can bring the card. He knows very well, it's not easy to move on. He needs to be careful by not giving her the chance to manipulate. He could have make sure about card and would have told her let's do it together for Akshu, our love will double.

Makers are not showing any reaction and watchfulness with care from Goenkas towards Aarohi. This is not going well as a viewer to me.

It's practically not sound.

I am not understanding why you and hari are keep telling that now is unintentional deeds from Aarohi. She already made it clear to us that she wants to separate Abhira and Now entire Birlas want to ruin themselves in the process! these were her monologues. She specifically mentioned - four people's name Kairav Aneesha Abhira..she doesn't have problem with them. Her words are opposite intentionally and acting victim.

Now after brain damage class, she will be utilizing her medical knowledge smartly. See she took drug overdose, so she is mentally unstable and whatever now she does will not count as crime I think...She is real venomous naagin!

I will say she is RAT..jo kaata hai per phunk marta hain taki pata bhi na chale

Bela it is unintentional only.

Whenever she actually wants to commit any wrong like the day she was about to break the guitar or today when she wants to throw paint it is saved.

But she didn't intend to stand near abhi room Or change the wedding card it was an unintentional moment. We can say nature is giving her back for her grey heart.

That's where she is traumatized that she can't tell anyone.

During temple fiasco when she actually committed a crime she was shouting on top even when she pushed the thali and paint moment she gave back.

These things just add up for her when she actually doesn't commit any crime.

It's like the tiger story where the kid shouts none trust and when it actually comes none believes.

Ar is getting for the deeds she didn't do and it pushes her.

And what I feel is ar wasn't ever the strong character in this story it is all shouts and snatch from her but when it comes to real missile launch she fails. She can't ever stand in front of abhi, neil Or mahima as they are the real competition for her facade.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

So next week, the ball will be on our side...Manjari raita kaand mata also known as Chidku mata 😆

Manjari and her more clones from Village will be soon joining her

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Arohi will always be in the grey field.. coming up most of the kaands unintentionally and some intentionally behind the mask and circumstances favouring her.. She will always get away easily though.. This time i guess all the goenka members will b on the side of Arohi with her victim trump card and Akshara again have to fend for herself on her own.. Lets see where does their journey takes us..

I have no problem in what you shared Deep...

But to physically hurt someone is no no for me and hurting oneself to gain sympathy is also no no for me.

She is again putting Hers and Akshara's life in danger by taking pills and driving.

We have seen Aarohi is always fighting in the house and putting her thoughts across and she dominates in that. But now suddenly she has stopped throwing her tantrums. Acting goody goody in front of goenkas.

She said she is moved on and want to focus on her career. She forgave Akshu and now since the alliance is fixed, she is backstabbing to separate Abhira.

I would have preferred previous episodes Aarohi who was very vocal and bitter and straight forward.

I know Meher mentioned Aarohi has changed her ways now...With this mind games, she is loosing my sympathy. She has not realized her mistakes are costing people's lives. First Akshu's car accident, then Manish heart attack after Valentine. The roots all goes to Aarohi.

Forget Abhira, she is not even happy for Kairav and Aneesha. What explanation do we have for that?

Once Aarohi will show her remorse towards Akshara since childhood and snatching her love, then only she will get sympathy from Abhi and Abhi too will apologize to her in a true way.

I feel it has to start from Aarohi.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

I have no problem in what you shared Deep...

But to physically hurt someone is no no for me and hurting oneself to gain sympathy is also no no for me.

She is again putting Hers and Akshara's life in danger by taking pills and driving.

We have seen Aarohi is always fighting in the house and putting her thoughts across and she dominates in that. But now suddenly she has stopped throwing her tantrums. Acting goody goody in front of goenkas.

She said she is moved on and want to focus on her career. She forgave Akshu and now since the alliance is fixed, she is backstabbing to separate Abhira.

I would have preferred previous episodes Aarohi who was very vocal and bitter and straight forward.

I know Meher mentioned Aarohi has changed her ways now...With this mind games, she is loosing my sympathy. She has not realized her mistakes are costing people's lives. First Akshu's car accident, then Manish heart attack after Valentine. The roots all goes to Aarohi.

Forget Abhira, she is not even happy for Kairav and Aneesha. What explanation do we have for that?

Once Aarohi will show her remorse towards Akshara since childhood and snatching her love, then only she will get sympathy from Abhi and Abhi too will apologize to her in a true way.

I feel it has to start from Aarohi.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

As much as we want we can blame Arohi but somewhere im unable to fully accuse her.. Arohi was made this way cause of all the circumstances around her.. She lost her dearest mother right in front of her who was trying to save Akshara,, obviously at that age in that trauma she would want put the blame of her loss on the nearest available option and the best one she found was Akshara since ders a competition spirit as well inferiority mingled superiority complex too..Her grandmother injected her will all the poison against the members of Goenkas.. so she feels unsure with them as well.. and have always had just policy to overcome all these to be no1. which again went for a toss due to her sister who ditched and betrayed her at the last moment

Akshu called her first when Abhi threatened her to commit suicide if she doesn't show up. Aarohi didn't pick up the call. I am fully not ready to accept that Akshu ditched her. It was raita maata who kept mum and took barat to Goenkas and temple fiasco happened. Even Akshu wouldn't have claimed her love, Abhi would have run away from marriage we all know that. Abhi apologized to her and was polite to her until tilak 3.0, where Aarohi intentionally wanted to spoil the tilak of Abhira. Thats where Abhi got triggered and started again. This time he wanted to be straight forward knowing her personality.

.in addition to all the humiliation she had to face in society and still facing due to the cancellation of her marriage.. Agree it was her greed and self centered motives at the end of the day, but no girl deserves what she had to go through. When she herself doesn't have self respect then what to say. I didn't like her rejoining the Birla Hospital. If it's not her fault she shouldn't be affected by society people talks and shut those nurses.

Any normal person in her shows would have really felt traumatic but still she tried to come in terms with it and decided let bygones be bygones and tried to move on life and even patched up with her sister.. But none of the Goenka member tried to talk to her.. not even the siblings had a long heart to heart talk over how she is feeling with everything around and all of a sudden she finds the same groom happily fixed with her sister and she needs to face him on daily basis..at home and in work place and also become an object of ridicule.. More than asking ourselves or regretting over our own mistakes,, we will again be triggered off to all the past trauma that we passed through.. Here the girl really needs medical help.. But none of the family members are realizing it..

Ab family ke samne goody goody behave karenge to kaise pata chalega.

MAnish should have talked properly to Aarohi before saying yes to Abhi, not during tilak 3.0. Goenkas are so blind. The bitter words Aarohi spoke in the temple, after that no sane person will accept she has moved on.

Jealousy ka ilaj itna asan nahi hain.

If she is in this condition,, all the members around her is equally responsible for it.. How can v let go Abhi who came with the proposal and abandoned her at the last moment??? How can v let go Akshara who was the root cause of all this from day1.??

Aarohi asked her to keep mum and emotionally blackmailed her to not show her emotions, love for Abhi. Poor Akshu is horrified of Aarohi's reaction and blames since childhood that she couldn't accept Abhi's love.

Agree she had decided to sacrifice her love to arohi.. If she had decided that then she should have kept her end of the bargain... its not fair to gift a present to sombdy and after sometime go back and snatch the same gift back saying its mine in the first place.. its not done.. Akshara never considered Abhis feelings and tormented him day and night with all the rejections that too without any valid reason and gift wrapped him and presented it to Arohi.. fine if u had decided to gift the person to somebdy then later u cant change ur decision according to ur own whims..

When person gives suicidal threats ...extreme condition she had to acknowledged her feelings. Also, Akshu realized for Aarohi that she doesn't love Abhi. her MD exam is more important. If aarohi hadn't gone for MD exam, I would have sympathized with her but not now.

How about Akshu's pain since childhood? who will address that? Aarohi's verbal torture gave her panic attacks too. Akshu is also traumatized.

For Abhimaniyu, don't know what else which way he can apologized and what kind of apology will be accepted or enough for Aarohi

Verbal polite words regret will not satisfy her. Aarohi just wants to bring Abhi down to #2..that only will satisfy her.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

How about Akshu's pain since childhood? who will address that? Aarohi's verbal torture gave her panic attacks too. Akshu is also traumatized.

For Abhimaniyu, don't know what else which way he can apologized and what kind of apology will be accepted or enough for Aarohi

Verbal polite words regret will not satisfy her. Aarohi just wants to bring Abhi down to #2..that only will satisfy her.

i fear this suicide attempt will make akshu step back again although I wish that doesnt happen

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

I have no problem in what you shared Deep...

But to physically hurt someone is no no for me and hurting oneself to gain sympathy is also no no for me.

She is again putting Hers and Akshara's life in danger by taking pills and driving.

We have seen Aarohi is always fighting in the house and putting her thoughts across and she dominates in that. But now suddenly she has stopped throwing her tantrums. Acting goody goody in front of goenkas.

She said she is moved on and want to focus on her career. She forgave Akshu and now since the alliance is fixed, she is backstabbing to separate Abhira.

I would have preferred previous episodes Aarohi who was very vocal and bitter and straight forward.

I know Meher mentioned Aarohi has changed her ways now...With this mind games, she is loosing my sympathy. She has not realized her mistakes are costing people's lives. First Akshu's car accident, then Manish heart attack after Valentine. The roots all goes to Aarohi.

Forget Abhira, she is not even happy for Kairav and Aneesha. What explanation do we have for that?

Once Aarohi will show her remorse towards Akshara since childhood and snatching her love, then only she will get sympathy from Abhi and Abhi too will apologize to her in a true way.

I feel it has to start from Aarohi.

Bela I understand Arohi is wrong.. She is in PTSD mode now.. She actually needs treatment..which should have been provided to her long time back.. If she was counselled this whole situation wouldnt have raised. but nobody among the family is realizing that.. Not even Abhi who is actually a doctor and can see the symptoms.. She is playing the victim game and wont easily understand where she is going wrong.. As per her concept she was wronged due Abhi and also Akshara but she preferred to move on forgiving akshara since she is her sister.. But she could never forgive Abhi and the guy keeps on challenging her and needs to face him on daily basis..

We are talking about suicide attempt.. Even Abhi threatened Akshara with that though he didnt practically do it and has his own valid reasons... but it has the same effect of Akshara too right.. How is that fair???

I feel that all were wrong and and Arohi ended up in the this condition due to all the external factors as well as involvement of abhi akshara and the goenkas.. I agree that Arohi is wrong and her actions too.. No justifications for it.. But equally others too.. Its just that others are not trying to harm anybdy doesnt make their past actions right.

And I dont think Arohi is going to redeem herself anywhere soon.. unless she is counselled and taken away from that place.. she really needs care and affection and understanding from others.. which she is not getting.. And she is not a person who could simply swallow the humiliations and hurt and cry silently like akshara who has been doing that since childhood.. it has its own psychiatric effects by which others too will suffer..

Apologizing from Arohi side can only come when she realizes her own mistakes.. Here she never feels that.. the only thing she can see here is the flashbacks of how life was unfair to her and she ended by getting hurt.. So its always victim.. Until and unless she is made to talk it out by a third party, she can never see her mistakes.. and unless she sees them.. she never gona apologize and hence no hope of redemption of Arohi anytime soon. She has to lose her most priced and loved tag of being the best in her career and No1 permanently through some drastic measures,, .only then she would want to think y it happened and the reasons behind and and her involvement in it.. and eventually she would regret her actions and would want to try to rectify her mistakes and sincerely apologize.. and when this happens bela season3 will end and by then all of us need to book a room in asylum to treat ourselves for the trauma and psychiatric issues that we would b dealing with with the future toxic plots..

Even I am feeling same after marriage trouble makers are mahima+majiri+Arohi. Arohi and mahima knows majiri is weak point of abhi. I am not gonna watch show after marriage. Story has lot of scope with less drama only in progression in every character.

Even for mahima in the race of being no 1 n power driven she lost precious time of life with her children. She also have redemption track. But it's itv what we can expect.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Waise an unrelated observation

Akshara’s “Ullu banaya tumhe” and Abhi’s “gunde( or munne) pade hai peechey” sounded SO SIMILAR.

When they are happy and so in love, both have a tendency to use babyish voice and use teasing words.