Poll
Whom do you support?
I support abhi for now.
Below are my reasons to support.
1. Harsh even after knowing akshu saved abhi he hates akshu which shows his selfishness.
2. Even after knowing how much abhi loves akshu he still supported arohi
And i strongly feel that harsh hates akshu not because abhi hates him and ignores him.
But harsh internally knows akshu has the potential to control abhi and manjari was his puppet but once akshu is here he can't control manjari anymore.
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My vote goes for Abhi coz as a parent Harsh knows his son loves Akshara and he didn't like Akshara from starting coz he thinks Akshara is not talented and doesn't matches his son. He is selfish.
Originally posted by: firewings_diya
I support abhi for now.
Below are my reasons to support.
1. Harsh even after knowing akshu saved abhi he hates akshu which shows his selfishness.
2. Even after knowing how much abhi loves akshu he still supported arohi
And i strongly feel that harsh hates akshu not because abhi hates him and ignores him.
But harsh internally knows akshu has the potential to control abhi and manjari was his puppet but once akshu is here he can't control manjari anymore.
I do support Abhi but somewhere Harsh is also not wrong and so I understand, if not support, where his anger is coming from.
At the end of the day just like Abhi and Arohi will tussle over Akshu now and again so will Harsh and Akshu over Abhi - most of the time it will mostly be all in Harsh's head but there you go!🤣
The thing is Harsh is not jealous of Akshu in the romantic sense, he is jealous that Akshu has more of Abhi then he, the father ever will. I suppose he thought one of these days their relationship will get sorted..then he hears about the wedding as a fait accompli (more anger!) and his anger, sadness and panic hits the roof escalating heights not seen before. We have seen he puts his feet in his mouth when he speaks and so here it is again. Sadly, Abhi is a match for his father -they are like a match light and petrol - and it's like who will have the last word...one after another and so it goes on.
All Harsh wants his son's love but it comes across so badly that he resorts to threats and horrible words. As a father he is now testing Abhi...will he dare to attend the Tilak or even his wedding without his father?
Not to worry Akshu will be on the case now.😃
Abhi.
As much as I love my parents, I am of the strong belief that if a person is toxic to your sanity, you have the right to cut them off. Psychiatrists often advise the same to their patients - just because Harsh loves Abhi, it doesn't give him the right to abuse him or Akshara. If Abhi does not want a relationship with his father, it is completely valid of him to not create worse situations in his future life.
I get the fact that you are supposed to love your family and especially your parents. But there is a point where a gangrenous limb has to be amputated no matter how much you may be used to it. Manjari has chosen to live with her husband, but both she and Akshu should understand that Abhi's relationship with Harsh should be of his own volition. And if he doesn't want to maintain a good relationship with his father, it should be his prerogative. Emotionally manipulating him - especially Manjari who knows Abhi's problems with his father, unlike Akshara - is not the way to heal any relationship.
I wish ITV would show that not all parent-child relationship is supposed to be cordial. Abusive parents - whether it be physical or emotional - do exist. One's mental health should be of prime importance and cutting off toxic people is the first step to emotional healing.
Accdng 2 me....bth r rong.....
sometimes i feel harsh might really need his love but i think abhi would have loved him back if he exposed arohi then and their but they way he helped arohi did not go well with meOriginally posted by: Dreamygal301
I do support Abhi but somewhere Harsh is also not wrong and so I understand, if not support, where his anger is coming from.
At the end of the day just like Abhi and Arohi will tussle over Akshu now and again so will Harsh and Akshu over Abhi - most of the time it will mostly be all in Harsh's head but there you go!🤣
The thing is Harsh is not jealous of Akshu in the romantic sense, he is jealous that Akshu has more of Abhi then he, the father ever will. I suppose he thought one of these days their relationship will get sorted..then he hears about the wedding as a fait accompli (more anger!) and his anger, sadness and panic hits the roof escalating heights not seen before. We have seen he puts his feet in his mouth when he speaks and so here it is again. Sadly, Abhi is a match for his father -they are like a match light and petrol - and it's like who will have the last word...one after another and so it goes on.
All Harsh wants his son's love but it comes across so badly that he resorts to threats and horrible words. As a father he is now testing Abhi...will he dare to attend the Tilak or even his wedding without his father?
Not to worry Akshu will be on the case now.😃
They are creating alot of mysteries around harsh i hope they show something sensible
it's hightime they should show abhi's back story. The viewers need to know what's the back story. Currently they are creating so much hype around this.Abhi can't be angry with some one if the reason is not major.akshara broke his heart still he forgave her. Even he is not so angry with arohi or even manish for sending him jail. Now i really want a solid back story why he hates harsh more. What made him to hate harsh else everything will go on tossOriginally posted by: natkhat_angel
Abhi.
As much as I love my parents, I am of the strong belief that if a person is toxic to your sanity, you have the right to cut them off. Psychiatrists often advise the same to their patients - just because Harsh loves Abhi, it doesn't give him the right to abuse him or Akshara. If Abhi does not want a relationship with his father, it is completely valid of him to not create worse situations in his future life.
I get the fact that you are supposed to love your family and especially your parents. But there is a point where a gangrenous limb has to be amputated no matter how much you may be used to it. Manjari has chosen to live with her husband, but both she and Akshu should understand that Abhi's relationship with Harsh should be of his own volition. And if he doesn't want to maintain a good relationship with his father, it should be his prerogative. Emotionally manipulating him - especially Manjari who knows Abhi's problems with his father, unlike Akshara - is not the way to heal any relationship.
I wish ITV would show that not all parent-child relationship is supposed to be cordial. Abusive parents - whether it be physical or emotional - do exist. One's mental health should be of prime importance and cutting off toxic people is the first step to emotional healing.
Originally posted by: firewings_diya
it's hightime they should show abhi's back story. The viewers need to know what's the back story. Currently they are creating so much hype around this.Abhi can't be angry with some one if the reason is not major.akshara broke his heart still he forgave her. Even he is not so angry with arohi or even manish for sending him jail. Now i really want a solid back story why he hates harsh more. What made him to hate harsh else everything will go on toss
If they reveal his backstory the same way Akshu's trauma was revealed (Kairav giving Abhi a short recap of Akshu's two mom's), I'll quit the show lol
Makers, take the audience feedback and execute this scene better! It can be good high-voltage drama lol
me too ithna bhav dekhe agar ye bola ki harsh had an affair then its like a predictable thing 😆i prefer harsh murdering something due his PR thing 😆 i will sit with an pop corn if that's the case 😆Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim
If they reveal his backstory the same way Akshu's trauma was revealed (Kairav giving Abhi a short recap of Akshu's two mom's), I'll quit the show lol
Makers, take the audience feedback and execute this scene better! It can be good high-voltage drama lol
Harsh.
Being a father, seeing his son sharing all the love only with his mother had already damaged his feelings for the worse. And now... When Abhi is prioritizing Akshu above everything... Harsh just can't digest it. He's feeling posessive... Jealous... N I'm damn sure... Anyone in Harsh's place would feel the same... I don't know what past these two share between them... Unless I know the reason.. I just can't blindly support Abhi who always finds a way to demean his father through his gestures of going against him. Harsh is no saint. But no child has the rights to take away the love a parent carry for them. And Abhi is exactly doing it. He doesn't acknowledge his father's love towards him even though he knows too well that his father loves him. And Abhi uninviting Harsh for his marriage was the big blow to Harsh... And for once.. I understand Harsh's depth of hurt at this... My vote goes for papa Birla❤️ And his acting was too notch during him confessing the truth to Akshu.❤️
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