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Posted: 3 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301


Lol,🤣 my bad...maybe me choking on my pizza when I saw Akshu's dream Shiv that it affected my eyesight!🤣 ....err I was so overwhelmed....amazed....bedazzled...🤣

hahahaha!! I FF’d the second it appeared on my screen so i have no memory of it 🤣🤣
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Posted: 3 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

hahahaha!! I FF’d the second it appeared on my screen so i have no memory of it 🤣🤣

I was too slow...and choking...then just staring...wondering...🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: IAMHope

How close /similar are the two shows thus far? S3 is already 100+ episodes, how similar is it to the Bangla original?


Well the only similarity is two sisters, younger one is coy, submissive girl and singer, elder a topper, treats the younger one as doormat, they meet a doctor on a trip to icche modi, he falls in love with singer, one wrong no., elder knows the reality, creates misunderstanding, boy confesses on engagement day, singer refuses for sake of her sister. Elder gets engaged to doctor, more misunderstandings between leads.. singer falls ill...hero looks after...misunderstanding gets cleared on haldi day.. hero exposes the elder and proposes singer, she accepts.. after lil suicide drama of elder.. leads get married.. later elder gets married to hero's elder brother only to trouble the leads. Initial episodes are shot at a rural place. Ichhe nodee has no dramatics, no shouting, no family drama..narrative is very simple with stories of other characters too.. it has only a partial mother and manipulative sister.....and a very handsome hero...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: atulya1

So Abhimanyu is insecure about his future with Akshara... WHY??? This girl, oops sorry Abhimanyu... Akshara does family jaap all the time, quite annoying at times but she's always been like this. The day they met at ghat for first time, akshara showed no interest in meeting abhi again as she clearly said she would rather be with her family.

After the confession She has proved her side when she went against her family to be with him. I feel sorry for that guy when he cries but why is he so obsessed about being her main man when he already is.. just like his psycho sister *mujhe jo chahiye woh chahiye aur aaj hi chahiye* .......

An accomplished surgeon resolving to dedicated every minute of his life to get that girl is, unreasonable, incomprehensible ..I understand that akshara at times fuels his speculations, but he used to have a life beyond akshara.. his mother, patients, hospitals, music... suddenly everything has gone to back burner.. why does he do that? Falling in love is to celebrate, if he cannot trust her,why are they in relationships to begin with... yes, they'll get married soon, but will it work...?? Love remains but trust and respect...?? I personally cannot trust or respect a man who will leave his work, his family behind to just be with me...


If the track follows ichhe nodi, Abhi in future will distance himself from akshara after several MUs and lack of trust....why is he shown to be so obsessed now...


I have seen many Kabir Singhs in my professional and few in personal life too and they are scary... they claim to be madly in love but very inconsistent when comes to trusting their partners, making their family life hell. Hope this kaabil doctor doesn't get to this point... Harshad is a great actor, I don't want to see him play an obsessed mad man...


Hey babe


I have a different view here, and having gone thru this sort of obsession from someone, Also, am a tomboy, so, have had many of my men pals come and give their side and hence i know some of the other side too.


So a guy in love and insecured, does not necessarily mean that he is obsessed..

If i look at ABhi, he is insecured that she will leave him in case family issue arises.

For that matter, if BP had gotten the heart attack on VD, Akshu would not have stood up to BP,

She is only doing that, considering her family is in no danger. the moment something goes wrong, she takes it all on herself, indirectly making Abhi feel guilty


he never had issues with her loving her family,

his only desire is love me as much if not more.

when she was talking about the love, family, BP etc, she clearaly compartmentalise the two... ABhi different and her family different, two separate duniya

where Abhi always maintained, meri ek hi duniya hai, jisme dono family hai


when he says his action will be to get Akshu, he does not mean he wont operate, he wont e a doctor,

he has been that throughout his life, prioritising them, now he is prioritising his love life, himself and i don't think thats wrong.. he is not stalking her, nor forcing her for anything.

he just wants her in life, coz that is his security net, for his sanity and once she is tied to him, he knows she wont see leaving him as an escape route


I am sure many may not agree with my views, but.. Main to main hoon

Bole bina to manungi nai

🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: mtina0207


Hey babe


I have a different view here, and having gone thru this sort of obsession from someone, Also, am a tomboy, so, have had many of my men pals come and give their side and hence i know some of the other side too.


So a guy in love and insecured, does not necessarily mean that he is obsessed..

If i look at ABhi, he is insecured that she will leave him in case family issue arises.

For that matter, if BP had gotten the heart attack on VD, Akshu would not have stood up to BP,

She is only doing that, considering her family is in no danger. the moment something goes wrong, she takes it all on herself, indirectly making Abhi feel guilty


he never had issues with her loving her family,

his only desire is love me as much if not more.

when she was talking about the love, family, BP etc, she clearaly compartmentalise the two... ABhi different and her family different, two separate duniya

where Abhi always maintained, meri ek hi duniya hai, jisme dono family hai


when he says his action will be to get Akshu, he does not mean he wont operate, he wont e a doctor,

he has been that throughout his life, prioritising them, now he is prioritising his love life, himself and i don't think thats wrong.. he is not stalking her, nor forcing her for anything.

he just wants her in life, coz that is his security net, for his sanity and once she is tied to him, he knows she wont see leaving him as an escape route


I am sure many may not agree with my views, but.. Main to main hoon

Bole bina to manungi nai

🤣


Aapka view is always welcome..🤗

See, I understand abhimanyu is different.. a traditionalist, believes in stability, can love only once, had felt alone all of his life and then found his kinda girl, parchhayi of his mother. He got her to confess as he always felt that akshu loves him too, but won't own it. He felt blessed to have her and now like every lover is insecure... my point is why can't he trust her as she has always stood up to her family for the sake of their love... that very line shook me to core when he said I'll spend every moment of my life to make sure akshu doesn't leave... if he's so insecure now, he'll always be even after marriage... he loves her so much, though not rare but it is exceptional.. he can make sure by loving and caring for her more so she doesn't feels obligated to be with him, but has the same affection and more for life... after all their love was never one-sided and she suffered more as she hid her feeling for Abhi and almost lost the affection of her dear sister.. Entire Goenaka family was against her decision but she stood her ground, putting her relations at stake.. that vulnerable girl had many reasons to back out but she never did. They have found each other after near impossible situations. Now she is so sure that Abhi will never leave him, why is he not sure about his akshu... insecurities make the very base of relationships weak.. I am tired to see our hero cry and I want that strong confident Abhimanyu back, who got his akshu on his side, eventually..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: atulya1


Aapka view is always welcome..🤗

See, I understand abhimanyu is different.. a traditionalist, believes in stability, can love only once, had felt alone all of his life and then found his kinda girl, parchhayi of his mother. He got her to confess as he always felt that akshu loves him too, but won't own it. He felt blessed to have her and now like every lover is insecure... my point is why can't he trust her as she has always stood up to her family for the sake of their love... that very line shook me to core when he said I'll spend every moment of my life to make sure akshu doesn't leave... if he's so insecure now, he'll always be even after marriage... he loves her so much, though not rare but it is exceptional.. he can make sure by loving and caring for her more so she doesn't feels obligated to be with him, but has the same affection and more for life... after all their love was never one-sided and she suffered more as she hid her feeling for Abhi and almost lost the affection of her dear sister.. Entire Goenaka family was against her decision but she stood her ground, putting her relations at stake.. that vulnerable girl had many reasons to back out but she never did. They have found each other after near impossible situations. Now she is so sure that Abhi will never leave him, why is he not sure about his akshu... insecurities make the very base of relationships weak.. I am tired to see our hero cry and I want that strong confident Abhimanyu back, who got his akshu on his side, eventually..


Again, we are just looking at that one statement. we are all taking it literally; if that was the case, he would have called Akshu multiple times, met her, called her home etc etc.

what i interpret is that he will encash every opportunity, create opportunities and not let anyone ever be able to raise a finger against him as being unsuitable


no harm right

Despite what the man says, he has a head on his shoulder and that understands his set of responsibility

Had he been the one saying am obsessed and want her at all cost, he wouldnt have thought of his mother, he would have said Yes, and then baad ka baad mein dekhenge

ek baar shaadi ho jayegi to BP kya hi kar lenge, he can always get Akshu tp BH

But he didnt, again, essence is he does not lie, nor he shies away from responsibility


On point of Akshu Standing up for him... he is aware that she loves him, he is insecured of the love she has for her family, she has done that in the past and he knows if required, she will do that again..she herself said in so many words, i would rather not have the love.

for her family is topmost, not love, and Abhi is the love here....

Although u gave me the biggest happiness, BUT.. i have another family... Yaar, just hear the sound of the word.... its depressing and its scary. even in the BTS she says, nai chahiye aisa pyaar jo parivaar alag kar de... she will give up.. as for her its her pain... and she will live

Abhi knows he will be scattered. As she is the one that makes his life worth living and not just existing

So i am very fine with him taking stand for his life 🤗

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