Originally posted by: Deep_deep
Hello Guys.. Episode was awesome na..
. It went above our head for most of us..
.. We need to understand the characters well to understand the emotions displayed by each one of them.. One thing we can mark now onwards is thandav is always for Ak..
See we feel its almost Psychotic traits,, but wen do we call it as being psycho,, when something goes beyond the normal stage and Abhi has been extreme with his regard to his love and passion for Ak.. His whole being and existence is Ak.. Its beyond our normal thinking and our societal norms, so we feel its extreme.. For us or for ak who is a normal candidate have hell lot of people around us and in our world like family, friends, colleagues..so our actions and love is shared among all of these people. In other words Ak world is congested with lot of people in her heart and around her and her love and emotions too are shared.. whereas Abhi his whole world, his whole mind, his whole space inside his body and outside consists of only one person and that is Ak and so there is no sharing.. All his emotions are only for one person so its more and deeper.. we cant even measure its depth nor its intensity.. its like all the oceans in the world collected together sums up his depth and intensity whereas ak is just a river now.. She can never match his depth or intensity atleast right now, maybe after marriage she will slowly change..And Abhi will be the one who will always love her more.. And deeper and more intense the love is,, it brings out all your insecurities and possessiveness and jealousy within you along with it.. He was fixed with Arohi but still he couldnt tolerate Jr doc around Akshara even for a sec and chased him away.. So its always like that for Abhi.. He just cant share her or is unable to share her with others.. On top Akshara triggered this insecurity with family jap and so he is scared to shit of losing her again which he cant afford to..
Thandav was superb which picturised his helplessness, his desperations, his anxiety, his fear, his frustration, his anger and finally his determination.. He pledged to get back and achieve his parvati by hook or crook.. and each moment, each second now onwards will only for attaining that goal and destination that is his akshara.. He is burning for her, for her love.. and he can burn himself to ashes to achieve her..and he will go to any extent to reach there. He doesnt have any ego or selfrespect regarding Akshara..Thats the beauty of it..
If you observe his wish in the ichha khund, its quite complicated.. mein kisise tootke pyar karun aur koi mujse tootkar pyar kare..Here he doesnt want a normal love.. he wants and wishes for that extreme love from his side as well the other person too should love him the same manner.. Abhis love is selfless as he can go any extent to attain akshara without concerned about his ego or self respect but simultaneously its selfish as he wants that love only for himself.. He wants to be her first priority.. Actually abhi and arohi both are rice from the same pot but the only difference is arohi wants to no1 in her career and fame and abhi wants to be no 1 in aksharas life and in her love.. and hence in understanding the emotions and mood swings of Abhi, Arohi is the better person than Akshara.. If you observe Akshara is too naive and clueless when it comes to Abhi and his extreme emotions.. She is just a new born baby learning her baby steps and abhi will teach her to walk and finally run towards him.. Akshara is just in crawling stage right now and reach abhi, it takes hell lot of time and also Abhi has to reduce his pace like in the anna collection race to reach akshara..
kya akshara kabhi mujse behen jaisa, family jaise pyar kar payengi..here he wants and his wishing akshara to love him more than her beloved sister and her family.. He already brought that comparison here..
Next and the last.. he had wished in the iccha khud that akshara is the solution to all his problems in his life and so he wants akshara in his life.. here by default he is asking for problems along with akshara and akshara to find solutions for him.. so he will get Akshara in his life but along with her all set of problems and poor akshara has to keep on finding solutions for him.. and what did akshara wish.. let fate decide for me whatever is right.. and so circumstances in her life each time will make her to choose and decide what is right.. she could have easily wished for Abhi and got him but asked fate to choose.. so now circumstances will have to make her do that.. So this whole show got complicated due to their respective complicated wishes..
Abhis first wish got fulfilled after 100 epi that is Akshara chose him over her beloved sister Arohi.. So now her love for him is more than for arohi..Round 1 over and now abhis second wish Round 2 starts that is Akshara chosing abhi against her family.. mayb another 50 or more episodes..
And actually if you see, akshara was the one who triggered his insecurity by keeping abhi and her family in two different plates or two different worlds.. So abhi is pulling akshara to his world where he is the sole person and everything is akshara versus akshara being pulled by her family which is filled with lot of people and her love is shared with all the members there.. so its a war between one man army against the whole world..
Manish... his pride, his ego, his honour everything is akshara.. and he is not ready to let her go for various valid reasons.. First of all his protective fatherly love for his naive akshara.. secondly abhi is very impulsive in actions and his short temper too,, and he had fluctuated between the two sisters in pressure.. No father can accept that.. So he needs to test his genuineness and mainly birla family who doesnt respect akshara especially harsh..and hence akshara will suffer in that family which he doesnt want to.. He had easily agreed though hesitant to arohis alliance since he knew arohi is somebody who can express her feelings and issues loud and clear and get her needs fulfilled whereas ak is somebody who will bottle up her emotions and suffer in silence.. and bade papa cant protect his child there.. so he is drawing the line and trying to bring abhi into his territory so that he can keep an eye on abhi as well as protect his akshara from all the sufferings.. This is also to test abhis love for his family..and birlas love for abhi...Thats his[ manish] most possessive and selfish love for akshara.. lets see whose possessiveness and love wins.. we are in for a roller coaster ride guys
Coming to the dream,, though it was Aksharas dream.. it was Abhis reality.. he or Shiv will be the most happiest person in his kailash with only his parvati and nobody there to share her..in his space and world.. Thats Abhis world that we just saw and Akshara being akshara will never be happy long term without her family.. Abhi had left his hospital for aksharas respect, he will leave birla home now for akshara,, he is ultra smart here.. so next time when a situation arises, akshara can never go back and choose her family over abhi and that situation will be for sure created by Arohi who has become all of a sudden alert and soo ready for the next kaand..
Actually Shivji was ready to leave his kailash and go and stay with his parvati at himavants palace for aksharas comforts and love..He didnt have any ego as a matter of fact for being a ghar jamai..due to his love for parvathi But in the palace parvatis siblings will mess up the palace and create situations where elders like her naani will be pissed off ask the couple to move out.. So lets wait for the ghar jamai to be in the goenka home, arohi messing up the situations and mimi or some elder instigating the abhira couple to move out..
Akshara can only chose abhi when her own family taints his self respect and see him suffer in their hands.. Akshara cant see all this now but Abhi or our shivji is more matured than her and can foresee all this.. and for sure he will make his parvati chose him over her family,, come out of her himavants palace and walk along with him on the road...
guys sorry for being a bit too long...
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