Please help me understand Abhimanyu! - Page 2

Originally posted by: borntorule12

He wants Akshara to make him his #1.. or even at the same level of family ... But doesn't understand that it will happen but it does take time and patience to love someone you know 1 month ago at the same level at which you love your family since childhood... His love is not unconditional but it is conditional with a lot of expectations.

This. Exactly. All relationships take time and effort to become strong, and love also needs time and acceptance to grow and bloom.

All he is asking is for Akshu to prioritise him and their love and give it equal footing as her family.

Not a strange request for someone in love.

Families you are born into, not of your own choosing, but love is of your own choosing. It is up to you how much you give and take in love and how you prioritise it. No wrong or right, each relationship is unique.

The whole day has been emotional, their own emotions are running high. Both are right from their own POV. But are they doing right for their love and relationship? no, especially Akshu and Abhi was feeling that in that moment and hence voicing his need and the lack he was feeling.

This is a very true life moment. They need to talk more, get to understand one another and find out each others emotional flaws and begin the true healing.

Since this is a tv show, the silence/misunderstanding will go on for few more days then we will have a public declaration...😆

Originally posted by: borntorule12

He wants Akshara to make him his #1.. or even at the same level of family ... But doesn't understand that it will happen but it does take time and patience to love someone you know 1 month ago at the same level at which you love your family since childhood... His love is not unconditional but it is conditional with a lot of expectations.

Same logic applies to akshu also. It takes time and patience to correct everything that has gone wrong , "majorly" bec of her changing stances. It's not ok to give up on him from time to time and that too bec her family is against or aaru is unhappy . She shouldn't have confessed bec at that also she knew their families won't agree .

Not just him, THEY are not good for each other . I dunno what akshu expects from him but his expectations will also be unfulfilled , always . Yes he will put manjari above her, why isn't this justified bec we r trying to justify the same for akshu? The girl can do it but not the boy?

First of all he always wanted to leave the house he just stayed there for manjari. Now he got Akshara he is ready to start a life.

Now coming to Abhi's POV he is not asking to prioritise him over her family he just asking for equality and not to insult their love. They way she said all that is like she is regretting to be with Abhi to love him. And whatever he asked was tight. All the pblm were not made by him or his love. He declared his love infront of every one. That time also she kept quiet if she loved him then she should have said openly and there won't be any pblm. All the time she was like yes / no kheltha raha. He know she loves her family that's why he accepted them like her.

I feel like in Abhira relationship abhi has put 90%effort and Akshara only 10%. He always understand her acted according to her wish he is just asking her to act the same.