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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidnilove

Why do Male Leads have only two modes - Angry Avatar and Simp Avatar. They are either in full gussa mode where nothing that the girl says matters or they're in full simp mode where they cannot see anything beyond the girl.

Why is there no in between? In Simp Avatar, the family goes for a toss, career goes for a toss...whatever the girl says is sar aakhon par. They blindly go with whatever their love interest says or commands. They follow the girl like love sick puppies. They fight for the girl..if someone even hints something negative about the girl, the ML will bash them up or teach them a lesson.

The other extreme is of course the Angry Avatar, the family becomes priority. They believe everything that the world says against the girl. They don't want to look at the girl, they don't want to talk, they don't want to clear anything up. They say mean things, make the girl feel jealous, humiliate her and basically do everything that they promised to never do.

Why can't they show Male Leads balancing both these avatars? Why can't they be in love but still disagree on certain issues? And why can't they be angry and still agree to discuss and sort out issues?

it’s the bad writing of these characters…the writers can’t give them a balance in their personality..and it’s also so outdated writing..heros of yesteryear Bollywood used to be written like this..in the 1960s, 70s, 80s…but now they’ve realised that human beings are complex and there’s so many traits to a person.. But yrkkh is especially bad..with abhimanyu now ..we either see him Gaga over akshara or in this angry mode.. And even Naira used to be written so badly..the writers were so obsessed with her .that they made her a know -it -all…she used to get all the dialogues and the rest of the cast used to watch her like she’s giving a sermon.. Viewers used to get tired of watching this,.because naira had become so irritating..and some used to say it’s shivangis acting,,but it’s not..Because now I’m watching shivangi in ballika vadhu 2 and I love her character Anandi..she’s strong. Confident but also gentle and sweet..her character is much quieter than naira ..with the exact amount of talking and listening 💁🏻‍♀️..and I like anandi more than I liked naira 😀

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Posted: 3 years ago
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avaam ko bhi iska jawab chahiye

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Posted: 3 years ago
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You mean before wedding and after wedding heros?😆



In real life also, nobody can be perfect at all times as everyone reacts adversely In troubled situations ....



In real life also, the most difficult part for the boy is to make a balance between his family and wife and make the balance for the wife..but not everyone is able to keep up..before Nyone tells me so and so around them is great, are they living in a joint family set up? How many people do they have to please ?



No matter how perfect they try to make the hero, there will be a few who won't be happy..naitik was overall a good hero , not toxic , no macho Image but he wS also criticized on a lot of points..so if we expect heros to be some image in our mind , we may never find one

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Posted: 3 years ago
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agreed...in the beginning hero is only trying to please his heroine...in reality too its only those two but when the wedding happens, its very hard for a man to balance between the wife and family...I have seen it happening in reality thats why I always say that from engagement to wedding time is the best time to enjoy..after the wedding everyone is trying to adjust with everyone..its always hard for a girl who leaves her own place to come to boys and its also hard (won't say equally) for man to adjust too. movies too I have seen that happening he handsome head strong hero becomes a cute lover boy...may be they just needed to pull that off to show it to the society they are okay but when they find someone special they dont necessary need to be that strong and can be themselves ..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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in movies too I have seen that happening he handsome head strong hero becomes a cute lover b...may be they just needed to pull that off to show it to the society they are okay but when they find someone special they dont necessary need to be that strong and can be themselves ..

True . When a hero is "good" , and "understanding" , they are often "dumb" , they can be fooled easily . Contrary to this, when they are "bad", they are "smart" , they cannot be taken for a ride ..so good with a little bad and bad with lots of good is the perfect hero for me 😆


I was watching kaira from the beginning..kartik understood naira really well, he helped her get.over her past ..her childhood issues..now abhimanyu overlooked a lot of things and he never showed concern for her past uptil.now...so I have zero expectations from abhimanyu

.kartik was bashed a lot , abhimanyu toh hai hi pehle se aisa..usko kya kahenge 😆 what's worse ?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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haven't watched 1sr or 2nd so cant comment on their characters, I do feel bad for abhi at times, he has been like this becuase of his past that we dont know abt. people are who have been deprived from genuine love or have some traumatic past, tend to do crazy stuff when they fall in love..he was more concerned on losing his first love , he did want to talk to ak but I guess there was never reciprocated. and their love story started very quick, they never actually had any conversations between them...how in the world this poor guy would find out anything abt Ak or her concerns or past..and jab time to talk aata hai, to koi na koi phone kar deta hai, he did show concerns for ak when she was leaving her job,,he asked her to keep professional and personal life separate, he did not give bade papa attitude because he remembered ak words, also he did say sorry to bade papa...he is trying..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: jolly_fl

haven't watched 1sr or 2nd so cant comment on their characters, I do feel bad for abhi at times, he has been like this becuase of his past that we dont know abt. people are who have been deprived from genuine love or have some traumatic past, tend to do crazy stuff when they fall in love..he was more concerned on losing his first love , he did want to talk to ak but I guess there was never reciprocated. and their love story started very quick, they never actually had any conversations between them...how in the world this poor guy would find out anything abt Ak or her concerns or past..and jab time to talk aata hai, to koi na koi phone kar deta hai, he did show concerns for ak when she was leaving her job,,he asked her to keep professional and personal life separate, he did not give bade papa attitude because he remembered ak words, also he did say sorry to bade papa...he is trying..

I don’t think Abhimanyu was deprived of anything,.he’s got a mother who worships him and a father who loves him immensely… And everyone in his family loves him..he comes from a rich background and he’s super intelligent and respected at work.. and his issue with his father ..is all about the way his father treats his mother.. now harsh was forced into marrying manjeri ..this came out in one episode and abhimanyu needs to understand the complexities of his parents relationship..just like how he didn’t want to marry Arohi..and treats her like trash..his father also didn’t want manjeri but was forced to accept her..and harsh doesn’t love manjeri but he doesn’t go around constantly abusing her ..he did lose his temper with her a few times when she messed up..but overall manjeri does lead a privileged life ..in that big mansion with loads of servants etc.. so fact is maybe harsh could never love manjeri and hence he had to stay in an unhappy marriage .. So he has had an unhappy married life…manjeri is not what he wanted and he didn’t want abhimanyu to marry a woman like manjeri.. Now that’s papa birlas choices..what can we do..? But I for one feel no sympathy for abhimany ..to me he’s a rude arrogant spoilt brat…with major anger issues, he has zero respect for his father. Gosh can you imagine anyone of us talking to our father the way abhimanyu does to his dad..it’s utterly..disrespectful. Many children come from divorced homes where their parents fought continuously and disliked each other and eventually divorced,.but that’s between the parents..it doesn’t give the children the right to be disrespectful to their parents..
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Posted: 3 years ago
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WORD!! Please make a seperate post on this. Would love to see others analysis.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: borntorule12

WORD!! Please make a seperate post on this. Would love to see others analysis.

lol…I’m too scared..too many people love Abhimanyu unconditionally here..I might get crucified 😂
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Don't be scared to put across your honest opinion...what you're saying is true. Atleast his dad doesn't go around breaking things, behaves like a jerk if rejected, leaves a girl on mandap.

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