Akshara will make abhimanyu a man from a boy

Till now, we've seen how abhimanyu is reckless. He does weird,immature things, the crazy in love guy, doesn't give a damn about family reputation. He is actually quite different from akshu even though at the core he is the same to her. As in they both are emotional and very loving towards people they care about, they are kind and want to give back to society. They are soulmates who feel for each other deeply. They are not doing their profession for money, fame, respect etc like aarohi but abhimanyu is emotional and at the same time he is selfish when it comes to his own needs. Not exactly selfish, I mean he is practical when it comes to his needs. He is not the traditional marwari guy like Naitik was but akshara has a lot of core family values driven like og akshara- parivar ka saath, pyaar, she is family oriented and gharelu till some extent. This contrast makes them a beautiful couple. One is modern, one is a little traditional. One doesn't give a damn about family and reputation ( as in he cares but he is reckless when it comes to making decisions he doesn't consider these aspects) but akshara does care. Not just about this running away thing- i am saying their overall personality. Abhimanyu is a doctor and he is so independent in his own thought process, individuality and his confidence that he is ready to leave the house knowing he can start from dadaji ka clinic but akshara needs someone to cling to.

The thing about abhimanyu is now till now he has lived all alone, he is stubborn, he does whatever he feels like and till now he hasn't anybody whom he would make his SAB KUCH. When akshara will enter, he will understand how his certain behaviours or actions upset her. In order to make her happy, he will change himself. He does respect akshara when she explains him thing. I think he will in future too.

In this post am not criticizing anyone, I'm bringing out the difference between both's personality which we will se in future tracks how they will balance each other.

Akshara will make abhimanyu a family man. After he is married to aksharaa ,do you think she will allow him to take his bike anytime- go anywhere, do tod phod, do awaragiri in streets, allow him to disrespect his father all the time. Things are different after marriage and abhimanyu will have to become responsible because his every action will impact akshara directly and to stay together, you need to behave how your better half expects you to.

Abhimanyu on the other hand will make akshara a confident person, a confident singer. He will give her all the love, care, affection, protection he needs. He is going to be soft with her. He really loves her with all his heart because akshara herself is pure at heart. He is totally committed to her despite being the most eligible bachelor in town. Akshara for him has become his 'shiddit'. Her name itself means so much to him.

They are going to have fights too because of difference in personalities but will emerge stronger.

Basically abhimanyu is a guy of today's generation, I've seen many such guys in real life too - who become crazy or TOXIC like people in the forum here said but it's realistic. Then a good girl enters their life and their personality changes. This happens a lot in Indian marriages.

At the same time, a guy entering your life and making you a confident person - isn't it a beautiful journey?

That's what the show is all about. That is why all the toxicity related to abhimanyu was shown.

Remember, akshara said mera and abhimanyu ka koi match nai hai. He is a top surgeon and am just a guitarwali but this difference is what makes them beautiful. Abhimanyu will remove all these inhibitions from her mind that in order to be together, you need to belong to the same profession or have the same name fame status. It's love that is important in a relationship.

not expected from 30+ professional nd that too prestigious doc ...which has to control his emotion everytime.

I don't think so he is 30+ . He might be around 28-29 in the show. He is a guy who lacks wordly experiences as said by HC. He has lived all on his own and nobody stopped him from doing the wrong things. The only bond he has had is with his mom. So he doesn't understand how we need to behave in certain situations. How his behaviour could impact others. That's his immaturity. It's not that he is doing anything to hurt anyone purposely. Akshara will bring out that balance because she has maturity when it comes to family relations.

The thing about ITV is we expect characters to be perfect but we need to understand that people are flawed in real life and they do a lot of flawed things.

The thing with Abhimanyu and Akshara is both of them share completely different dynamics with their respective families.

Akshu is mostly ignored by her family left with her own devices but Abhimanyu he is the center of everything in Birla household.

His family love, care and respect him, even Harsh.

He might have a twisted way of showing it but I think Abhi might be the only person he loves this much.

Abhimanyu is rash, impulsive and do whatever the hell he wants to do without a care in the world. We always say he is unpredictable, where does he get the nerve to do that without any worries?

It's because this guy never had to face any consequences of his actions ever. Harsh and Abhimanyu fight about his treatment towards manjari and Neel mostly but does harsh actually say anything when Abhimanyu does anything wrong?

No, he just let it slide because he loves his son too much and doesn't want to loose him, neither does manjari say anything to him.

This guy ruined the reputation of two families, the relationship between those families but he get away.

I think that's what always happened since his childhood, he made mistakes and nobody corrected him, so he does what he likes.

He doesn't realise ak situation might not be the same, the girl have face consequences of Aarohi's actions all her life.

Manjari and Akshu have so much influence on him because they make him understand see things clearly. But manjari is blinded by her love for him, she mostly only corrects him when he and harsh are arguing, she lets everything else slide.

The difference between akshu and manjari is Akshu actually corrects him when he is wrong and the guy understand but anger doesn't work on him just like it doesn't work on Akshu.

Abhi would rage until the person shuts up and ak would stay quiet building a wall no one can break.

Abhimanyu Birla is such a complex character I can right pages upon pages on him and it still wouldn't be enough.

I understand we have lots of expectations from the writers bec prev 2 seasons have been written extremely well (kaira derailed after sometime but at least there was no ott drama nautanki with them ) ..I hope they continue to follow that route and not bring it to arohi doing saazish , creating misunderstandings and poor bahu akshu suffering ..then yrkkh will be no different from Sathiya or any other kachra show.

Very well described , the contrast in their nature..fls of yrkkh are always family oriented and their first task is to correct the dysfunctional families . If they follow the original yrkkh flavour, we will get exactly what you described but if they follow iccha node , god knows..

I think next will be the adoption track bec neil must be harsh birlas illegitimate son, n only when he is a Birla, arohi chipak jayegi usse chipkali ki tarah.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I don't think so he is 30+ . He might be around 28-29 in the show. He is a guy who lacks wordly experiences as said by HC. He has lived all on his own and nobody stopped him from doing the wrong things. The only bond he has had is with his mom. So he doesn't understand how we need to behave in certain situations. How her behaviour could impact others. That's his immaturity. It's not that he is doing anything to hurt anyone purposely. Akshara will bring out that balance because she has maturity when it comes to family relations.

The thing about ITV is we expect characters to be perfect but we need to understand that people are flawed in real life and they do a lot of flawed things.

they have not make his character clear...even 28+ he is behaving like majnu...anyways there r so many male leads behaving like him ...not unusual spccly in yrkkh male leads are always like that ...kartik use to behave sometime like majnu but he was not at all mumma boyz....from 23 year old kartik to 40 year old kartik his behaviour didnt change ..the only unique character i found in tv world was Naren of Piyaa albela ...nobody can match rajshri's serial character nd that character was specifically written by sooraj barjatya 😊

Yes exactly. Akshara will bridge the gap between father and son as she will understand how both love each other. She will explain to abhimanyu too, how he too loves his father a lot. Maybe initially he will be angry but slowly he will understand her point of view.

There's a lot of situations we are going to see where akshara explains abhimanyu i don't like you behaving this way. Then abhimanyu will slowly understand what's the difference between right and wrong.

We have criticized akshara and abhimanyu a lot but we need to understand if characters are perfect, then story dikhane ko kya bachega? In real life too people are flawed. Akshara is shown to be having mahaan syndrome purposely so that abhimanyu can change her.

Even I feel the story could have been a lot better. Season 1&2 were a lot better as they had a proper story and the scenes felt natural. There was a marwari vibe too. Season 1 naitik and akshara were mature and a typical arrange marriage couple but they were very interesting with all nok jhok,fights love.

Season 2 initial plot was very interesting. From Tina in rishikesh to naira, she hated her mother initially but then with Kartik's help she accepted akshara. Kartik impressed singhus living with them for a long time. He had so many scenes with naira's family members. Even their falling in love phase was beautiful. They used to tease each other like anything .

Kartik had a problem after marriage with naira becoming family oriented. Initially naira was sherni and kartik fell in love with avatar.

Here, they haven't focused much on why abhimanyu and akshara fell for each other so deeply. They couldn't even bring the contrast in personalities deeply here. Storyline is very poor in season 3.

They are just trying to fill the scenes with mythology stuff and cringy soul wala connection of both feeling each other's pain instead of showing how they both connect to each other so deeply.

The most beautiful post I read on the forum in a while!! ❤️

Pehle khud Akshara toh baby girl se mature lady bane fir Abhimanyu ko man from boy banane ka woh soch soch sakti hai !

Baby girl Akshara ka kya bharosa! Kal ko shaddi ke baad agar uski psycho sister yah uski first family par baaat ayegi toh kabhi bhi boy child husband Abhimanyu ko chod degi and reason dena bhi zaruri nahi samjegi 🤢