Abhimanyu needs to stop treating akshara like a baby - Page 3

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Is it only me or others too who find it weird when abhimanyu talks to akshara in that super cringy time as if she is his baby and not to be wife...

They looked so good in the Christmas episode and drunken episodes as in like couples behave with each other - nok jhok, fight, love but now it's looking as if abhimanyu is obsessed with akshara and how is he treating her as if she is a 5 yr old .

Also, the age gap point also is quite visible on screen sometimes. Why they don't pranali outfits like the white kurti she wore in abhi's dream sequence, or good sarees. Pranali is a pretty girl. Why they are giving her such odd outfits?Give her outfits that make her look like the wife of a mature surgeon and at the same time keeping her innocence and bubbliness intact.

Actually...My cousin sister is younger than my jeeja by 12 years.... Its a love marraige .... They are such a cute couple.... They have two kids.... But even now my jeeju treats her like a kid along with their two kids..... She fights for chocolates and cakes 🤣 And he manaofies by getting her more next time....

So i did not find Abhis treatment of Akshu odd.... Infact felt it very cute....

And totally agree ..... Akshus dress is indeed a disaster .... That too for such a lovely cute confession scene they gave her such a lousy dress.... 🤢 one of the pathetic dress..... For Her lovely character her dresses are so bad.... Only few nice dresses till now since the beginning.....

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Are we still discussing the age thing?

It's obviously a creative decision, HC's look in the show suppose to make him look older. He looks younger in real life.

When, he is consoling manjari he use that tone too.

I haven't loved a pair this much in a long time, Abhira or harshali.

These two look so good together, I just can't.....

Seriously, yaar.

HC he's so good that Aditya Hooda and Abhimanyu Birla are two completely different people for me.

When he acts you don't see Harshad but the character he is playing. And the amazing human being he is in real life, make me love him more.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Age difference

I know that Harshad is born on 17th May 1983, that makes him 6 months short of 39 yrs.

Let us talk about Karishma, there are some 6 yr old screen test video clips. Assuming that these days, actors do complete their graduation around 21 yrs,, she should be around 26 or 27. K worked for a airline too.

Pranali's age as per wiki is 22 and 26. I will only believe when she informs her fans about her birthday.

The problem is not age difference but when one looks older or younger than your actual age. Here it is visible and i have given my reasons and got a detailed love letter from mods that I am body shaming Mr. Harshad Chopda. A 12 or 16 yr difference does not amount to genocide. immj3 is going to be launched on 31st Jan, the Fl lead is 18 and ML 34. There is no issue at all because Zain is extremely handsome.

Harshad's Voice Modulations and tone

As Dr Abhimanyu Birla

He does not talk or treat Akshara as a baby through the show. During the Sangeet, Mehndi and Haldi , Abhi became down right right rude. Post rejection, he spoke to Akshara in an extremely stern voice.While she rejected Abhi, his voice was filled with pain. During the molestation track, he spoke to her with concern and anger.

The drunk scene brought the best out of both, Abhimanyu poured his heart out and his voice had compassion.

The Christmas party where Jiju fell in a box is one of my all time favs. He cribbed like crazy

He is very soft towards his mother and vents on his dad.

Yes the babyish tone that got highlighted is when he was given those outlandish dialogues during the operation scene and during confession when he did not want to face the elders.

Harshad has the ability to modulate his voice. Pls consider Humsafars and Bepannaah as references.

. More or less most of the actors in S3 have one monotonous voice. They prefer to be clear.

If the audience wants clarity in voice quality then Harshad should maintain the same tone throughout the show.

For me HC cannot talk in a very soft or babyish tone, it dents his performance and the impact is visible.

I was told once by a KRPKAB fan, now that Shaheer has become Abhir Rajvansh, please off load Dev Dixit.

Similarly stop comparing Aditya Hooda with Abhimanyu Birla.

That is exactly what I am trying to do. Considering Abhi as a standalone character.

I also don't want to put the entire onus on Harshad. The director, screen play (Bhavna Madam's dept ) and dialogue writer have to improvise. If they think they are best then unfortunately it is a mistake on their part.

Karishma is younger than pranali, she herself said it on the earlier interviews.. as for age difference I don't see it they look good together, I'm glad they took harshad on he looks good, mature more believable as successful surgeon. She's an adult and not a minor I don't see a problem. Also the baby talk is normal amongst couples.

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Seriously, yaar.

HC he's so good that Aditya Hooda and Abhimanyu Birla are two completely different people for me.

When he acts you don't see Harshad but the character he is playing. And the amazing human being he is in real life, make me love him more.

Ya, he's such a sweetheart in real life yaar.

Even, on Bepannah sets everyone loved him, he is just so lovable for the lack of better word 😍😍😍😍😍

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Thank You. 🤗

For appreciating my reasonings.

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To anyone who reads this,

I think it is about acceptance. Of Love, fiction or real. Acceptance Of other people's choices.

Why will I ignore something when I myself want to watch it everyday. I will think and find a reason to appreciate it.

And if I cant digest or appreciate--

Best ignorance is not to watch. But to watch and crib about it is the saddest thing in life. Its fiction why do this to oneself then waste time talking about it.

If actually #Harshali start dating, people will have so much to say, when they have no place to judge consenting, independent, earning adults.

Here they have agreed to act, its their job.

If an older man falls in love with a young woman even if they have compatibly he will treat her more soft than he usually is with others.His voice will be different. Many people use a completely different tone with their loved ones and quite different with their friends.

Let's discuss the script, direction, tracks, fashion, music used, the timeline haphazardness.

The main lead pairing cant get better than this ever. 😊

Well said Mini.

Its us who want to watch and we ourselves want to do this why should we find fault in it. It's also not about taking sides and see abhi, akshu separately for me it's abhira as whole. Until we see them like that we can never enjoy it. If they are at fault then they are in it together, if happy then it's together.

Finding fault is easy accepting going with the flow and enjoying the moment is what makes us to be hooked or this show itself will become a stress for us instead of being a stress buster.

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Are we still discussing the age thing?

It's obviously a creative decision, HC's look in the show suppose to make him look older. He looks younger in real life.

When, he is consoling manjari he use that tone too.

I haven't loved a pair this much in a long time, Abhira or harshali.

These two look so good together, I just can't.....

Some people have problem and crib with everything in their life. Never content with anything as such. Coming to the show they have issues with age gap, the way they smile, tone of his voice, hospital procedures, whether they moved left or right every single thing is an issue.. i really cant understand.. then y to watch the show?? Better not. Its a fictional show, characters are fictional, so enjoy for what it is.. dont expect logic in it. It doesnt work there. Age factor, dont the people undetstand that this show is not a balika vadhu to bring young fresh teenagers!! Like the guy is an experienced senior cardiac surgeon, do you expect him to be in 20s??? Ofcos he will be near 35, which HC is.. probably 37. Pranali and karishma they are just out of their college, so they will be in 20s and hence the age gap.. dont in real life people marry or fall in love with huge gap??? Now of tone of abhi speaking with Ak, people do talk with different tones with different people. Ak is quite younger to him and moreover fragile, so he may want to talk bit softer to her. A couple all the time dont use the same tone with each other and every couple is different. Thats their wish to use whatever tone they want to. This is the height man. Hairstyle and costumes agree aks some of the attire used are really thrash. Can improve on that but its for the designer and makers to take the call. Some people na can never be happy in life, have to criticise each and everything. They probably get happiness with that!

Some people have problem and crib with everything in their life. Never content with anything as such. Coming to the show they have issues with age gap, the way they smile, tone of his voice, hospital procedures, whether they moved left or right every single thing is an issue.. i really cant understand.. then y to watch the show?? Better not. Its a fictional show, characters are fictional, so enjoy for what it is.. dont expect logic in it. It doesnt work there. Age factor, dont the people undetstand that this show is not a balika vadhu to bring young fresh teenagers!! Like the guy is an experienced senior cardiac surgeon, do you expect him to be in 20s??? Ofcos he will be near 35, which HC is.. probably 37. Pranali and karishma they are just out of their college, so they will be in 20s and hence the age gap.. dont in real life people marry or fall in love with huge gap??? Now of tone of abhi speaking with Ak, people do talk with different tones with different people. Ak is quite younger to him and moreover fragile, so he may want to talk bit softer to her. A couple all the time dont use the same tone with each other and every couple is different. Thats their wish to use whatever tone they want to. This is the height man. Hairstyle and costumes agree aks some of the attire used are really thrash. Can improve on that but its for the designer and makers to take the call. Some people na can never be happy in life, have to criticise each and everything. They probably get happiness with that!

[Exactly u spoke my mind dear ....This is too much now...If they don't like better don't watch .

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Some people have problem and crib with everything in their life. Never content with anything as such. Coming to the show they have issues with age gap, the way they smile, tone of his voice, hospital procedures, whether they moved left or right every single thing is an issue.. i really cant understand.. then y to watch the show?? Better not. Its a fictional show, characters are fictional, so enjoy for what it is.. dont expect logic in it. It doesnt work there. Age factor, dont the people undetstand that this show is not a balika vadhu to bring young fresh teenagers!! Like the guy is an experienced senior cardiac surgeon, do you expect him to be in 20s??? Ofcos he will be near 35, which HC is.. probably 37. Pranali and karishma they are just out of their college, so they will be in 20s and hence the age gap.. dont in real life people marry or fall in love with huge gap??? Now of tone of abhi speaking with Ak, people do talk with different tones with different people. Ak is quite younger to him and moreover fragile, so he may want to talk bit softer to her. A couple all the time dont use the same tone with each other and every couple is different. Thats their wish to use whatever tone they want to. This is the height man. Hairstyle and costumes agree aks some of the attire used are really thrash. Can improve on that but its for the designer and makers to take the call. Some people na can never be happy in life, have to criticise each and everything. They probably get happiness with that!