Who is more wrong ?? - Page 3

True Abhi is hot headed. But did Akshara even give him the opportunity to know and understand?

Akshara does not have fully disclose her childhoos trauma. She could have explained to him that she kept quiet on the day of the tilak for her sister's sake. Her rishta just got broken.

She could have said I am not sure about my feelings for you Abhi. Thank you for loving me this much. But I cannot except your feelings. I love my sister too and she seems to like you. I don't want things to get complicated. Please forget about me and move on.

The CVs could have taken another way to have these characters paths cross again and again to build that tension of love that is there but circumstances as such that keep them apart. But anyways they decided to take this another direction and here we are 🤔

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Acc to me abhimanyu and Aarohi are same...

Abhimanyu treating aarohi as an object to satisfy mom's wish

Aarohi treating him as trophy husband for status

Only difference is abhimanyu says it openly that I don't love you ... Am marrying you for my mom but aarohi doesn't say it that am marrying you for status

There's not much differencr between both of them( when comes to marriage decision) but I don't know why cvs are keen on showing aarohi as the vamp when abhimanyu himself is being selfish to use a person in a serious decision like marriage... Aarohi's only mistake was that she hid the fire incident truth

Also, abhimanyu is keen to ditch aarohi till the last moment as he says to akshu today everything is fair in love .. same dialogue is used by Aarohi too that everything is fair in love, war and my dreams.

Acc to me both of them will do anything to get what they want...even if he didn't come to know of fire incident truth today ...if akshu came suddenly and tells him I love you abhi he will ditch aarohi ..but akshara madam is giving gyaan to aarohi that you've hiden this md thing abhi will be so upset as if that is more wrong than abhi ditching aarohi at the last moment....and Aarohi will also ditch abhimanyu if it was not for his money, status but atleast aarohi is not continuously thinking of another man

Now comes akshara...she is more dumb than both Abhimanyu and Aarohi...atleast both Abhi and Aarohi have their own agenda or a reason to take decision of this marriage ... Akshara is like a pendulum ..she wants abhi to move on whereas herself craving for his attention

Perfectly put👏👏

Another thought regarding aarohi.. According to the kind of personality she has, not very deep, a single track mind, more focused on material and tangible things than on spiritual.. For a girl like that what she feels for abhimanyu is her definition of love. I think she honestly feels that she loves him bcz she sees that he is a man who is successful and powerful and intelligent along with being good looking and whatever love she is capable of she feels for him and she thinks she is more deserving of abhimanyu and more suited to him than akshara. You remember when she first saw dr abhi after knowing he was the overall topper she is also physically attracted to him. Bandi kafi clear sighted hai. I've been saying from the first that if Akshara would show more backbone and stand up to Aarohi and call her out for her lies and put her foot down for things that she wants instead of lying down and allowing aarohi to walk all over her, she will gain aarohi's respect and aarohi will finally understand to back off and give akshu the space she deserves. Pehle se hi this akshu is the one who kept clinging to aaru and intruding in her life when she clearly wanted her to stay away. I don't like that they have written naira's daughter to be such a dumbo.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

True Abhi is hot headed. But did Akshara even give him the opportunity to know and understand?

Akshara does not have fully disclose her childhoos trauma. She could have explained to him that she kept quiet on the day of the tilak for her sister's sake. Her rishta just got broken.

She could have said I am not sure about my feelings for you Abhi. Thank you for loving me this much. But I cannot except your feelings. I love my sister too and she seems to like you. I don't want things to get complicated. Please forget about me and move on.

The CVs could have taken another way to have these characters paths cross again and again to build that tension of love that is there but circumstances as such that keep them apart. But anyways they decided to take this another direction and here we are 🤔

True. They could have taken another path to create the tension and the crossed wires. Making tbe ML look like a cheater and FL a dumbass pendulum isn't the thing.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

True Abhi is hot headed. But did Akshara even give him the opportunity to know and understand?

Akshara does not have fully disclose her childhoos trauma. She could have explained to him that she kept quiet on the day of the tilak for her sister's sake. Her rishta just got broken.

She could have said I am not sure about my feelings for you Abhi. Thank you for loving me this much. But I cannot except your feelings. I love my sister too and she seems to like you. I don't want things to get complicated. Please forget about me and move on.

The CVs could have taken another way to have these characters paths cross again and again to build that tension of love that is there but circumstances as such that keep them apart. But anyways they decided to take this another direction and here we are 🤔

This is the problem even I have with Akshara. In this forum Abhimanyu, Aarohi, Manjiri, Kairav all are blamed but Akshara always gets clean chit only because most here have sympathy towards her as she's an orphan and has unfortunately got a family who doesn't understand her feelings. But then she too has made lot of mistakes due to which all these mess have happened. I am not saying she should accept Abhimanyu's love even though she loves him too. It's her choice if she doesn't want to accept his love because that would hurt her selfish step sister but that gives her no right to lie to a man and hurt his feelings again and again. She could have simply told him she doesn't want to marry him for some reasons and asked him to move on. Today, people don't like the aggressive Abhimanyu but Abhimanyu has become aggressive only because of Akshara. Abhimanyu has no idea about Akshara-Aarohi being step sisters and Aarohi's constant dislike for Akshara. If her own family cannot understand Akshara's pain behind her smile how will Abhimanyu understand that?

Yes you're right. Elder sister's responsibility is not to make sacrifices for the younger one but to show her the right path. In a way by doing all this Akshara has herself allowed aarohi to do all the nonsense which she kept on doing.

Even in real life, sisters fight. They make mistakes but they are not vengeful like aarohi is. Akshara could have tried to build that bond by standing up for herself.

And why can't akshara stand up for herself? Why they are showing today's girl as tyaag ki devi?

She should have corrected aarohi since day 1 when Aarohi asked her to do things for her happiness.

If such a situation arised that both sisters like same guy, akshara should have made aarohi understand and not given in to her demands as that way she is allowing future misery. Like today, aarohi conveniently said am going away if anything happens you're responsible for my broken marriage

Originally posted by: iheartChai

True Abhi is hot headed. But did Akshara even give him the opportunity to know and understand?

Akshara does not have fully disclose her childhoos trauma. She could have explained to him that she kept quiet on the day of the tilak for her sister's sake. Her rishta just got broken.

She could have said I am not sure about my feelings for you Abhi. Thank you for loving me this much. But I cannot except your feelings. I love my sister too and she seems to like you. I don't want things to get complicated. Please forget about me and move on.

The CVs could have taken another way to have these characters paths cross again and again to build that tension of love that is there but circumstances as such that keep them apart. But anyways they decided to take this another direction and here we are 🤔

No body will disclose their child hood trauma to someone whom you have just met and this is akshara who has hidden her feelings for so long its hard for some people

She sucessful ly distanced herself but abhi created the whole mess by agreeing to marry Aarohi where is akshu to be blamed in this

I agree.

At the same time Akshara has had issues properly opening up and letting her feelings out. She hides everything and hides it behind her smile so no one suspects a thing. Even though Kairav picks up on it I feel even he never gets straight answers from her.

Which is probably why I feel Akshara needs a Abhimanyu in her life to help her not feel guilty about expressing oneself. It is not selfish. But Abhimanyu needs to learn there is always a time and place and a way to express yourself.

Akshara has it within her we have seen it peak out now and again. She stood up for herself in front of Mahima. She gave Harshvardhan a good lecture about his behavior when he slapped the money in her face at the music therapy session. She has the ability with "strangers" or what is right and wrong but when it comes to family and her own happiness that is where she falters.

Originally posted by: apra

No body will disclose their child hood trauma to someone whom you have just met and this is akshara who has hidden her feelings for so long its hard for some people

She sucessful ly distanced herself but abhi created the whole mess by agreeing to marry Aarohi where is akshu to be blamed in this

I feel Abhimanyu deserves to know Akshara and Aarohi are step sisters. Maybe then he could have understood Akshara's majboori behind her sacrifice and wouldn't have taken this dumb and impulsive decision of marrying Aarohi. Plus, Akshara's own family, her elder brother, her grandparents, great grandmother don't completely understand her even after knowing about her childhood trauma then how will Abhi understand her?

My vote goes to Akshara, she is the most immature and in most wrong here.

Aarohi is wrong but that is how she has been bought up to be selfish at all times and get her way. She knows how to get what she wants right or wrong by hook or crook. The way she went around Manish with Akhilesh to get the Goenkas/Birlas to agree to the match is a testament to how smart she is. She managed to emotionally blackmail Akshara and take all credit but Akshara could have put an end to it at any point, she did not. The reason Aarohi managed to get the entire Goenka and Birla family on her side was facilitated by Akshara. It is not that she was not asked but she chose not to take a stand, in short she avoids confrontation.

Abhimanyu is wrong and he tried all different ways to convince Akshara but she stuck to her stand. In the end he gave in to his family's manipulation because what else could he do when his desired bride refused to accept him. It is unfortunate that his emotionally stunted family decided to choose his love's sister as his bride. He is probably the biggest victim so far, His love keeps popping up in vicinity at all times and refuses to give him closure or explain herself making him feel like a delusional pervert who can't seem to let her go. Instead she keeps giving him mixed signals which keep giving him hope and prevents him from moving on. He is going crazy and everyone is seeing it but everyone is ignoring it for their own selfish reasons.

Now back to Akshara, it is great that she is realizing that this might not be the right match but what if she had that realization after their wedding, she would have effectively destroyed three lives. Now she is talking about honesty, truth and true love but she herself has lied, been dishonest and let us not even talk about how she treated her true love. The level of hypocrisy is insane. If her sister committed a murder and told her to take the blame for it, would she do it? If her sister asked her to marry an unsuitable match to make her happy, would she do it? Every relationship has boundaries and she let Aarohi breaks her and kept justifying it. She made choice for Abhi and that was wrong. The sensible Akshara would go to Abhi and explain that while she felt some stirrings of attraction but she did not think she was a good match for him more so when Aarohi also was wanting him. She has decided to backoff. Some relationships are not meant to be , atleast he would feel vindicated that he did read her attraction correctly and he needed to decide what to do next. Or she could tell Aarohi that both of them will try to Abhi fairly and the decision sits with Abhimanyu if wants to end up with anyone of them. In principle Aarohi has already lost because Abhi did not chose her over Akshara and other matches but because she was the only option provided to him. If Akshara does the right thing now ...she will break everyone's heart.

It is an unpopular opinion but everyone keeps giving a pass to Akshara citing her childhood trauma. Who amongst these three is not suffering with a childhood trauma- Aarohi saw her mother die and she overheard her grandfather talk about bloodlines, That is what drives her to best and maintain appearances. Abhi has his own childhood trauma (not disclosed so far) that created a rift between him and Harsh and fuels his anger issues and stubbornness.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I agree.

At the same time Akshara has had issues properly opening up and letting her feelings out. She hides everything and hides it behind her smile so no one suspects a thing. Even though Kairav picks up on it I feel even he never gets straight answers from her.

Which is probably why I feel Akshara needs a Abhimanyu in her life to help her not feel guilty about expressing oneself. It is not selfish. But Abhimanyu needs to learn there is always a time and place and a way to express yourself.

Akshara has it within her we have seen it peak out now and again. She stood up for herself in front of Mahima. She gave Harshvardhan a good lecture about his behavior when he slapped the money in her face at the music therapy session. She has the ability with "strangers" or what is right and wrong but when it comes to family and her own happiness that is where she falters.

I totally agree. Abhimanyu became way too impatient with her. I had always criticized him when he was being overconfident and was pressurizing Akshara to express her love in front of everyone without trying to understand her problem. I thought he got reality check when Akshara rejected him in front of his own family but he became even more adamant and instead of trying to find out her reasons, put more pressure on her. Though during that time Akshara should have told him her reasons but she hurt him even more with her lies. Aarohi took advantage of this situation and manipulated Akshara to say that Aarohi and not she who is worthy of Abhimanyu and Abhimanyu decided to marry Aarohi for teaching Akshara a lesson and to make his mom happy. Both are dumb and immatured and I really hope this incident will make them more matured post marriage.