Abhimanyu doesn't seem like a great partner to me

Keeping aside all the toxic masculinity and self obsession( there are 100 forum posts regarding that) abhimanyu's EQ( keeping aside his IQ inherited from manjari maa and his doctor degree) doesn't seem like someone who would understand Akshara's emotions or her past traumas. He himself seems mentally unstable with his own issues- the way he cries, breaks thing and we know YRKKH FL's have the most issues in life and they are dukhiyadi pro maximum, do you think abhimanyu can handle akshara? 😆

Even on a serious note,if you look at it, he made zero effort to know that why akshara had a panic attack in the trip, why she was so moved when abhimanyu asked her to music therapy for a mother, he hasn't even had a proper Convo with her about how she lost her mother. All he expects is for her to come in his life to solve his issues? As he said- love is the problem to all my solutions 😆( hormonal problems too 🤣)

If we look at it, akshara has had a very rough past with years of gaslighting by her sister and family and today the way she smiled after hiding the mehendi in the pallu it really moved me. It shows that the girl has been hiding all her emotions behind the mask of a smile. I feel she deserves a better partner than a crybaby. She deserves someone who would made efforts in knowing her rather than someone who would just be impressed by her music and find 100 ways to seek revenge on her.

I mean your not wrong. But don’t let Abhi’s support group come after you and blame Akshu for the way he is 🙃

Every person has a pros and cons so as Abhimanyu too. But the tantrums throw by abhi is because of akshara she has crossed all the level for arohi still arohi selfish hai lakin creatives doesn’t have any story to show so they are dragging it.

I am not blaming her bec main cause toh arohi hai

See aaj ka episode tha kis liyeah .... everything is clean now.......zero... score ....now...next step aarohi truth.... nothing will change......abhi will cancel this marriage ....drama....abhi humesha yeah chahtha tha....ki ak abhi ko apni first priority rakhe.........so aarohi naam ka grahan dono ki zindagi se gaya...ab aarohi rahegi toh bhi kya karegi....itni bholi ak bhi nahi hai ..dekho pyar toh rahega per under cover......next dono ek dusre ko samajhenge.....bhool jao....1-2mahine shaadi main lead ki......things will change ....writer bhaut samajhdar hai...

I don't want shadi but something ok other than arohi atleast for sometime..they dragged really so much with her character..

Both are equal now...

Originally posted by: imkt

Every person has a pros and cons so as Abhimanyu too. But the tantrums throw by abhi is because of akshara she has crossed all the level for arohi still arohi selfish hai lakin creatives doesn’t have any story to show so they are dragging it.

I am not blaming her bec main cause toh arohi hai

I mean I don't get it. Whether it is for aarohi or for anyone ( I don't like akshara's mahanta and am not a supporter of how aarohi was the reason behind akshu rejecting abhimanyu but keeping that aside) , if a girl says NO it means NO. What gives the right to a random guy to come and claim love every single second, project their feelings into a human , torture her by picking her up from her own house, saying leave your house.

Imagine I reject a guy who has one sided feelings for me ( a very normal real life scenario) and he comes to my house and says leave your house, i don't want to see you in your house only 😆 who are you to tell me all this bullshit that he said in today's episode when he has himself got the rishta for my sister?

Matlab mere ghar aa kar mujhe hee suna Raha hai 😆

And am i not a human being? Why am I expected to reciprocate feelings for a guy when I don't want to? Reason can be anything.

I would deeply sympathize with him and all his deep love bullshit, if he chose to maintain his dignity and stayed away from akshara after she rejected him. Especially when she became his saali, that should have been the end of that relationship from his side.

What's funny to me is today he goes and says I don't want you in my life ,I can't bear the burden of this relationship whereas akshara never said keep me in your life and she had already made it clear a long time back that this relationship has ended 😆 and it ended when he got proposal for aarohi 😆 why saying such things suddenly after 3-4 functions have passed.

Imagine me rejecting a guy 10 times and he comes and tell me after this "I am also rejecting you back!" 🤣😆 I mean how childish!!

But akshu also went when she said no she has stick to that word,but she did bday party,ruby case,etc..and engagement time me bhi he forcely taken his hand and bandage his hand, she always gave mixed feelings try to ask her behaved rudely..bas fark itna hai she didn't say yes and abhi made clear his love...we can find more faults in everyone here....i m nt abhi supporter i supported akshu too..but my case i can clearly say both are fault and now can start fresh with each other...if they think again

Originally posted by: ishq_vibes

But akshu also went when she said no she has stick to that word,but she did bday party,ruby case,etc..and engagement time me bhi he forcely taken his hand and bandage his hand, she always gave mixed feelings try to ask her behaved rudely..bas fark itna hai she didn't say yes and abhi made clear his love...we can find more faults in everyone here....i m nt abhi supporter i supported akshu too..but my case i can clearly say both are fault and now can start fresh with each other...if they think again

I didn't know doing such good things for someone is considered mixed signals and expecting toxicity in return is okay.

As for supporting in ruby case- it was her moral responsibility and she made it clear to abhimanyu she would have done it for anyone - no mixed signal there . Abhimanyu himself considered moving on after she did this

Bday party- his mom forced akshara and he got to know about this.

Engagement time- she knew he has injured his finger because of akshara that's why she wanted to help.

These 3 situations cannot be considered as mixed signals from anyone.

I don't see any other mixed feelings. She didn't show him any great hopes or told I love you to him nor they were in any official committed relationship for a long time.

I am making such posts considering I have seen such things in real life of one sided feelings, how relationship between teenagers, then married couples and all work. Anyone would say abhimanyu is coming across off as creepy and intrusive.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I mean I don't get it. Whether it is for aarohi or for anyone ( I don't like akshara's mahanta and am not a supporter of how aarohi was the reason behind akshu rejecting abhimanyu but keeping that aside) , if a girl says NO it means NO. What gives the right to a random guy to come and claim love every single second, project their feelings into a human , torture her by picking her up from her own house, saying leave your house.

Imagine I reject a guy who has one sided feelings for me ( a very normal real life scenario) and he comes to my house and says leave your house, i don't want to see you in your house only 😆 who are you to tell me all this bullshit that he said in today's episode when he has himself got the rishta for my sister?

Matlab mere ghar aa kar mujhe hee suna Raha hai 😆

And am i not a human being? Why am I expected to reciprocate feelings for a guy when I don't want to? Reason can be anything.

I would deeply sympathize with him and all his deep love bullshit, if he chose to maintain his dignity and stayed away from akshara after she rejected him. Especially when she became his saali, that should have been the end of that relationship from his side.

What's funny to me is today he goes and says I don't want you in my life ,I can't bear the burden of this relationship whereas akshara never said keep me in your life and she had already made it clear a long time back that this relationship has ended 😆 and it ended when he got proposal for aarohi 😆 why saying such things suddenly after 3-4 functions have passed.

Imagine me rejecting a guy 10 times and he comes and tell me after this "I am also rejecting you back!" 🤣😆 I mean how childish!!

hmm that’s the real world and it’s an fictional character. Feelings are reciprocate to each other by a different ways here. If akshara said no to abhi then why akshara showing so much emotions towards abhi. The real reason behind the mess is arohi that’s what I mean to say .

We all know they both love each other. Why akshara is denying because of arohi, right ? Akshara ko toh sab pata hai then why she is not speaking?

Now coming to Abhimanyu character he sounds to be a complex person from the starting whether it’s is now towards akshara or his father or Neil or his cousin sister? He has a different equation with everyone.

Let’s take in this way you are saying if akshara said no toh you would have liked Abhimanyu if he had taken her No in a positive way with dignified manner right

Then what about akshara she said no right why didn’t she stopped everytime she always go ahead do things or help for Abhimanyu. Bhai, he is your jija now taken him as her half brother now . There are various examples of her where her actions are different then her words toh jo Banda yeh soch raha hai i mean abhi woh toh last time tak try karega by hook or crook because he know akshara loves him.