If he did marry arohi, he would not be able to let go of his feelings for akshu. One thing that's very clear about his personality is that he is a very emotional person who has often had to try and bottle up how he feels just for family, for his mother particularly, but that bottling up only makes him miserable and more temperamental. If he marries arohi for the sake of his mother and family, then it would just be the same with how he just puts up with his father who he hates for the sake of his mother. He wouldn't hate arohi like he hates his father, but he would have a very formal and emotionally distant relationship with her the way he has with his father, and he would still feel lonely and bottling up how he feels all the time just for his mother. Long-term he would just feel suffocated and so would eventually arohi. These two are just not compatible whatsoever.
Arohi is self-serving, cunning, childish and also unreasonable when it comes to wanting something or things being her way. These are traits of arohi that abhi will definitely not like if he knew exactly what she is like and he would definitely be the kind of person to call her out on her behaviour and not let her get away with it the way goenkas have pampered her to encourage such behaviour of hers to continue.
Arohi on the other hand is someone who on surface level can pretend to be accommodating of other's feelings and needs, but she will ultimately only do what she wants, so her true colours and how much of a self-entitled tantrum queen she is would come to be known to all birlas after she married abhi eventually and she would clash with some members of birla's, causing utter disharmony like never seen before in that family. Arohi would no longer act all meek and quiet in front of abhi for long even after marriage. If she realises that her day dreams of a happy marriage and thinking she can get akshu out of abhi's heart and mind after becoming his wife don't transpire, then she will start showing abhi her true colors and how much venom she does actually have for akshu.
Abhi and arohi would be worse than shefali and parth in husband and wife cat fights, because the source of the latter's fights is actually parth and shefali loving each other but career taking precedence by one of them over their relationship, leading to feelings of neglect by the other.
However, with abhi and arohi it would be a nightmarish case of one of them not being emotionally committed to the marriage, whilst the other getting a rude awakening that the marriage didn't turn out the way they wanted despite having forewarning and full knowledge beforehand that the person they were expecting a life-long commitment from is not emotionally committed before the marriage as it is.
Edited by Miss-Behave - 3 years ago
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