Akshara's fault

SM is full of people blaming akshara for choosing arohi and I don't understand why so?

A girl who has lived her life craving her sister's appreciation and gets nervous quite often is chased by an accomplished man who falls in 100 percent shudh pyaar in what 10-20 days with her?! The first time he confronts her she remains mum and that is ok, both sides had confusion and she was in a spot. Second time, despite knowing her love and concern for her sister he rejected, he brings her to his family.

Who does that? He knows she gets panic attacks but he choses to have their first conversation of romantic nature in front of his khandhaan. Whyyyyy... whatever reasons Abhimanyu has, he is responsible for his own pain specially when Akshara hasn't made any commitment.

I have been following HC since LRL and he is a terrific actor but i can't seem to connect with Abhimanyu.

Originally posted by: Moodyblue

SM is full of people blaming akshara for choosing arohi and I don't understand why so?

A girl who has lived her life craving her sister's appreciation and gets nervous quite often is chased by an accomplished man who falls in 100 percent shudh pyaar in what 10-20 days with her?! The first time he confronts her she remains mum and that is ok, both sides had confusion and she was in a spot. Second time, despite knowing her love and concern for her sister he rejected, he brings her to his family.

Who does that? He knows she gets panic attacks but he choses to have their first conversation of romantic nature in front of his khandhaan. Whyyyyy... whatever reasons Abhimanyu has, he is responsible for his own pain specially when Akshara hasn't made any commitment.

I have been following HC since LRL and he is a terrific actor but i can't seem to connect with Abhimanyu.

so true... he is taking one sided decision based on his delusion. He needs to understand that he can't impose his delusional wala love on Akshara and can't force her into anything without her consent.

Akshara is a grown up woman and can take her own decisions . I'm glad she rejected him which was necessary to give him reality check.

Abhi needed a bit of a shake up. Harsh warned him.

I feel even despite later knowing Akshara's reasons Harsh will always harbor ill feelings towards her and not trust her as she broke Abhi's heart one too many times.

I wonder how Manjari will feel about Akshara because she adores Abhi. But since Manjari and Akshara have similar thinking she may understand Akshara more and be more forgiving.

Akshara's life is her family and she will do everything to keep that harmony intact. I wonder if Abhi truly understands what that means because in his family everyone seems to be separated. And they continously dig at one or another.

I think they will be his character growth to be patient and talk before taking any decision. He is always in hurry.

Akshara growth will be you can’t force someone to love you even if that is your family so have to let go and move on. Her family love her without Chachaji, and arohi rather than doing my aru and taking all insult move on.

Exactly! She doesn't owe anyone anything and she is right technically. They never discussed their feelings, never confessed anything, never talked about marriage so how can Abhi decide for both of them and go on MERI AKSHU MERI AKSHU

Also it's not even 10-20 days ka pyaar it's just 2-4days pyaar and then too they have hardly talked twice or thrice

It’s a wake up call for Abhimanyu.. glad that Akshara rejected him, he should learn to clear out the things with her first and then bring her to meet his family. I’m sure his character shapes up in the coming episodes and we may see a different side of him too.. And as far as HC is concerned, though he is a very experienced and senior actor, he is playing a character of a doctor who is in early 30’s far younger than his age. So we can’t compare this role with the previous ones where as all the other roles that he played are very close to his age. There must be some reason for him to choose this role, based on his experience he might have not chosen a wrong one. For now I’m not liking this sacrificing phase, but hoping that we may get to see them back soon.