Kartik please stop expecting EMA from Naira, take a step now

Sur89 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#1

I am not bashing Kartik here, but he is actually way too carried away in his emotions that he is not at all heading in the right direction. Days are passing and he is just running behind Naira to get close with her. The right step was to clear this to Vedika first instead of proposing to Naira, but its Ok , it a drama so writers made him do that. And now when Naira has also confessed, what is he waiting for. Why running behind her , what can Naira do now, she confessed in a weak moment but will never get close to him in a sane state. Kartik was clearly acting as he is wanting an EMA with her, not once he said in these two days that he will leave Vedika.

Please writers, Vedika needs to know this directly from Kartik instead of sneaking and listening to their conversations. She might create drama after that or might become mahaan, both ways are wrong ways. Kaira shouldnot be together again like that, they need to take a strong dignified and respectful step. Everyone needs to realize that they all did very wrong by forcing a man who still loved his ex wife crazily to marry some other woman whom he took as his responsibility. Why are you hellbent to make Kaira look wrong and Vedika a bechari. Vedika has already done that to Naira so many times. Dont tarnish her respect anymore.

Bring everything about Vedika’s role in divorce out in open, make this Vekar marriage invalid . this track needs to end with so many self realizations by everyone. Kaira have already realized and paid the price , its turn of Vedika, goenkas and singhus now, they are as wrong as Kaira if not more.

P.S kartik did one more mistake here, if Naksh could take Vedika as his sister , why dint Kartik did the same. When everyone asked him to marry her , he should have said, isko to maine behen mana hai suru se 😅. Waah makers, Naksh lost his sister so Vedika became sister for him, Kartik lost his wife so you made her his wife. Kamal ki soch! Rista vahi soch nayi 👏🙌

Edited by Sur89 - 5 years ago

Created

Last reply

Replies

13

Views

3.5k

Users

7

Likes

30

Frequent Posters

rose2015 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#2

I agree with some of the things you've mentioned but some things I see differently. Today in my eyes I saw a man who is not is senses. It was scary in that he has no sense of what is right or wrong and is taking decisions based on his emotions. We've seen this in Karthik before when he didn't hesitant to present Keerti's baby to Naira when she lost hers. I hate it when he says he considers Vedika his responsibility. What does that exactly mean? What is he doing for her exactly? Just in name he is a husband to her. He is emotionally absent and has neglected her.

One thing that has bothered me in this track is that Karthik doesn't understand boundaries and his constant manhandling of Naira is wrong. You can't restrain a woman and force her to listen to you. He acts like he owns her like she is some piece of property. The way he says that she can only be mine makes me think of him as a stalker. I see a man displaying narcissistic behavior. I sometimes feel he doesn't love Naira but he lusts for her which is different. He likes the feeling of owning her and the feeling of wanting to control her. The look in his eyes was that of a very controlling and possessive person that is suffocating her. Naira brought up the idea that there is no name for their relation in the society they live in. They are ex's. He is married. He doesn't seem to care about that or how his actions maybe perceived by others. He really doesn't care. I don't think any woman is prepared to handle a man like that. It's like he is becoming a psycho stalker of Naira and that makes me feel very uneasy.

I wish he had handled things in a proper way. He should have thought things logically and figured out how he was going deal with the fact that he is married to Vedika yet pursuing Naira his ex. He doesn't seem to care about the consequences of his actions. My biggest concern is Kairav doesn't know about his parents relation and how Vedika is tied in all this. Suppose he hears from someone else that his father is married to Vedika? How would Karthik and Naira handle Kairav's questions then? They are too absorbed in themselves and are not thinking logically and it is very much overdue. As we know in Naira's life happiness is short lived before another museebat comes in her life. My daughter asked me why does this woman cry all the time? At times we know things are not good for us but sometimes those very things appeal to us. In my eyes Naira has a soft corner in her heart for Karthik but she also understands reality. Sometimes the thing we love is not good for us. In my eyes Karthik is not good for Naira. Do we really want to see a thrice divorced Karthik marry Naira? I don't want that for Naira. She will be stuck in a relation again that is not good for her and she will be upset all the time.

Edited by rose2015 - 5 years ago
Sur89 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: rose2015


One thing that has bothered me in this track is that Karthik doesn't understand boundaries and his constant manhandling of Naira is wrong. You can't restrain a woman and force her to listen to you. He acts like he owns her like she is some piece of property. The way he says that she can only be mine makes me think of him as a stalker. I see a man displaying narcissistic behavior.

I completely agree to the things you have said. Even i have felt so many times that Kartik behaves like a narcissistic person , same like the Goenkas. Right now also not for once he felt what Naira must be feeling because of his re-marriage. He is nor thinking about Naira nor Vedika , just himself . Since the moment Naira has returned its all about his loss, his feelings, his pain , his son n what not. But I have stopped voicing it anymore as makers dont listen. They want us to take Kartik as that n accept his madness as passionate love n i have started seeing things that way .

Sometimes I feel in this show everybody gets a free pass to misbehave, make mistakes, be rude, evil , cunning, manipulative , other than Naira. Its ITVs sadistic way to gain trps by showing just the female lead get blamed and disrespected .

Naira was slapped, cursed and hated for what she did but not a single person from both the families did the same with Kartik. No one questioned him for the question he asked, no one took Nairas side and said what she could have done if you questioned her unborn child also, thats y she left. So lets be prepared for more drama, more Naira bashing . Kartik is also pressurizing and suffocating her, now Vedika n G clan will join soon.

aasmanviewer thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#4

Originally posted by: Sur89

I am not bashing Kartik here, but he is actually way too carried away in his emotions that he is not at all heading in the right direction. Days are passing and he is just running behind Naira to get close with her. The right step was to clear this to Vedika first instead of proposing to Naira, but its Ok , it a drama so writers made him do that. And now when Naira has also confessed, what is he waiting for. Why running behind her , what can Naira do now, she confessed in a weak moment but will never get close to him in a sane state. Kartik was clearly acting as he is wanting an EMA with her, not once he said in these two days that he will leave Vedika.

Please writers, Vedika needs to know this directly from Kartik instead of sneaking and listening to their conversations. She might create drama after that or might become mahaan, both ways are wrong ways. Kaira shouldnot be together again like that, they need to take a strong dignified and respectful step. Everyone needs to realize that they all did very wrong by forcing a man who still loved his ex wife crazily to marry some other woman whom he took as his responsibility. Why are you hellbent to make Kaira look wrong and Vedika a bechari. Vedika has already done that to Naira so many times. Dont tarnish her respect anymore.

Bring everything about Vedika’s role in divorce out in open, make this Vekar marriage invalid . this track needs to end with so many self realizations by everyone. Kaira have already realized and paid the price , its turn of Vedika, goenkas and singhus now, they are as wrong as Kaira if not more.

P.S kartik did one more mistake here, if Naksh could take Vedika as his sister , why dint Kartik did the same. When everyone asked him to marry her , he should have said, isko to maine behen mana hai suru se 😅. Waah makers, Naksh lost his sister so Vedika became sister for him, Kartik lost his wife so you made her his wife. Kamal ki soch! Rista vahi soch nayi 👏🙌

Rishta vagi Sochi nayi 😂😂

Did you watch today’s episode till the end? Kartik did say that “Naira ko khud se duur nahi jaane donga, aur ye main sab ko bata doonga. So he is heading towards clearing his stance finally.

That being said I would like to see that Kaira’s second divorce never went through for whatever reason .. Kartik never signed the petition, or judge rejected the case, or any other reason. It would be better to retain their original marriage than Kartik going for the 4th wedding. Anyway Vedika is in illegal marriage throughout, since she married Kartik when he was already married.

At this point, I don’t even care what Vedika did. She just needs to exit the show. She can exit being mahaan or evil, does not matter to me. No point wasting any more screen space on her. She is a selfish, delusional, home breaker; period. No amount of whitewashing is going to help.

Edited by aasmanviewer - 5 years ago
rose2015 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: Sur89

I completely agree to the things you have said. Even i have felt so many times that Kartik behaves like a narcissistic person , same like the Goenkas. Right now also not for once he felt what Naira must be feeling because of his re-marriage. He is nor thinking about Naira nor Vedika , just himself . Since the moment Naira has returned its all about his loss, his feelings, his pain , his son n what not. But I have stopped voicing it anymore as makers dont listen. They want us to take Kartik as that n accept his madness as passionate love n i have started seeing things that way .

Sometimes I feel in this show everybody gets a free pass to misbehave, make mistakes, be rude, evil , cunning, manipulative , other than Naira. Its ITVs sadistic way to gain trps by showing just the female lead get blamed and disrespected .

Naira was slapped, cursed and hated for what she did but not a single person from both the families did the same with Kartik. No one questioned him for the question he asked, no one took Nairas side and said what she could have done if you questioned her unborn child also, thats y she left. So lets be prepared for more drama, more Naira bashing . Kartik is also pressurizing and suffocating her, now Vedika n G clan will join soon.


I hate the way women are portrayed. I hate the way man are portrayed and put on a pedestal as if they can do no wrong and never have to answer for their behavior. This type of behavior is so ingrained in our culture/mentality and I don't know how to change it. I wish the writers would portray things in a way that sets a good example but instead they want to create telly masala. ( I don't know a better word for it) My issue is with how the characters are portrayed. I don't have an issue with the actors playing their roles. I just wish they were shown in a more mature and positive light.

Akshaya143 thumbnail
Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: aasmanviewer

Rishta vagi Sochi nayi 😂😂

Did you watch today’s episode till the end? Kartik did say that “Naira ko khud se duur nahi jaane donga, aur ye main sab ko bata doonga. So he is heading towards clearing his stance finally.

That being said I would like to see that Kaira’s second divorce never went through for whatever reason .. Kartik never signed the petition, or judge rejected the case, or any other reason. It would be better to retain their original marriage than Kartik going for the 4th wedding. Anyway Vedika is in illegal marriage throughout, since she married Kartik when he was already married.

At this point, I don’t even care what Vedika did. She just needs to exit the show. She can exit being mahaan or evil, does not matter to me. No point wasting any more screen space on her. She is a selfish, delusional, home breaker; period. No amount of whitewashing is going to help.

yes even i want their divorce didn't happened for some reason and that should surprise for them that till now they thought divorce done but it is not...vedika marriage should be declare null
rose2015 thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#7

My feeling is that before Karthik takes a step to clear things with Vedika she herself will ask for a divorce. I can't see Karthik doing this but they will leave it on Vedika to end this.

If this happens Karthik will think that now there are no barriers to he marrying now I don't want him to assume this. They need to show Naira's thought process and give value to what she also wants for her future. Allow her to decide does she want to marry him or not. It should not be assumed just because he wants Naira that is how it should be. It has to be a two way street. Not that Karthik commands it therefore it should happen.

Edited by rose2015 - 5 years ago
Sur89 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: aasmanviewer

Rishta vagi Sochi nayi 😂😂

Did you watch today’s episode till the end? Kartik did say that “Naira ko khud se duur nahi jaane donga, aur ye main sab ko bata doonga. So he is heading towards clearing his stance finally.

That being said I would like to see that Kaira’s second divorce never went through for whatever reason .. Kartik never signed the petition, or judge rejected the case, or any other reason. It would be better to retain their original marriage than Kartik going for the 4th wedding. Anyway Vedika is in illegal marriage throughout, since she married Kartik when he was already married.

At this point, I don’t even care what Vedika did. She just needs to exit the show. She can exit being mahaan or evil, does not matter to me. No point wasting any more screen space on her. She is a selfish, delusional, home breaker; period. No amount of whitewashing is going to help.

Yep i saw that, i said he isnt saying anything to Naira yet. If at all he has to go to Naira again n again before clearing things to Vedika , it should be to make her sure that he will make things right. Not to get close to her. May be he is going to tell all that in tomorrow’s episode , lets see 🤞🏻 . And i also want to see that the divorce never happened, may be judge denied after seeing in court how they both gave up custody for each other or something. I want Vedika’s deeds to come out because I still cant get this second divorce thing. What was the need man !!

I only want Kaira’s love to come infront of everyone in a meaningful way, not in a way that everyone will be shocked , that how the hell Kartik n Naira still love eachother. Everyone needs to realize their mistake and respect the bond of Kaira. This can happen only if Kartik takes a firm stand and clears things infront of everyone himself. I dont want Vedika to sneak and know that there is something brewing between the ex lovers and now she has to take some step. You remember their post first divorce, how people got to know about them just before they were going to tell, on teej day. I dont want it to happen again. Already they have made fun of such beautiful relationship, they have tarnished the essence and purity of their bond. Its enough now , No more disrespect for Kaira please . There relationship is true , pure , above all and everything since always. Period .

aasmanviewer thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: rose2015

My feeling is that before Karthik takes a step to clear things with Vedika she herself will ask for a divorce. I can't see Karthik doing this but they will leave it on Vedika to end this.

If this happens Karthik will think that now there are no barriers to he marrying now I don't want him to assume this. They need to show Naira's thought process and give value to what she also wants for her future. Allow her to decide does she want to marry him or not. It should not be assumed just because he wants Naira that is how it should be. It has to be a two way street. Not that Karthik commands it therefore it should happen.

@bold: The beauty of Kaira’s relationship is that it has always been two way. They both have loved each other intensely, and reciprocated expressively, hence the sizzling chemistry.

They both made mistakes, realized, apologized and forgave.. but never stopped loving. After the first divorce, they both were longing for each other. Kartik was sneaking outside Singhania house, while Naira went to joggers park to look for him. This time again, Naira still loves him but had been denying her feelings due to Vedika.

aasmanviewer thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 5 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: Sur89

Yep i saw that, i said he isnt saying anything to Naira yet. If at all he has to go to Naira again n again before clearing things to Vedika , it should be to make her sure that he will make things right. Not to get close to her. May be he is going to tell all that in tomorrow’s episode , lets see 🤞🏻 . And i also want to see that the divorce never happened, may be judge denied after seeing in court how they both gave up custody for each other or something. I want Vedika’s deeds to come out because I still cant get this second divorce thing. What was the need man !!

I only want Kaira’s love to come infront of everyone in a meaningful way, not in a way that everyone will be shocked , that how the hell Kartik n Naira still love eachother. Everyone needs to realize their mistake and respect the bond of Kaira. This can happen only if Kartik takes a firm stand and clears things infront of everyone himself. I dont want Vedika to sneak and know that there is something brewing between the ex lovers and now she has to take some step. You remember their post first divorce, how people got to know about them just before they were going to tell, on teej day. I dont want it to happen again. Already they have made fun of such beautiful relationship, they have tarnished the essence and purity of their bond. Its enough now , No more disrespect for Kaira please . There relationship is true , pure , above all and everything since always. Period .

Based on the precap, he may clarify his stance to Naira soon. I had created a thread after their second divorce, asking the same question. What was the need for second divorce when they were to come together again. It is mockery of the marriage institution. It was done only to create drama and drag the story. One way to do damage control here, is to show that second divorce never went through. The makers can still show Kaira wedding to commemorate their Milan.. not for legal aspects this time.

And yes their relationship is very beautiful. They both are good human beings who can love immensely.. but make mistakes too ☺️. Out of their kindness, they are tolerating Vedika for so long, and got manipulated by her.

Edited by aasmanviewer - 5 years ago

Related Topics

Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai thumbnail

Posted by: Ajab.Pehchan · 1 months ago

This is how we behave when we have recently married/lost our spouse https://x.com/Ruhbutterfly/status/1959088826007146834

https://x.com/Ruhbutterfly/status/1959088826007146834
Expand ▼
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai thumbnail

Posted by: madhuvan · 3 months ago

Getting a feeling this time Legacy FL child will ne negative itself rather than the side or 3rd angle. Maira is too much of trouble maker. This...

Expand ▼
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai thumbnail

Posted by: shahsb_26 · 4 months ago

not my idea... Bass instagram par dekha and thoda sensible laga... https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ87FNNTech/?igsh=MXBxNXBwMXBsZ2pqaw==

https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ87FNNTech/?igsh=MXBxNXBwMXBsZ2pqaw==
Expand ▼
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai thumbnail

Posted by: Agni_Jytsona · 5 months ago

By dialoguess - "Kiara ek toxic relationship main haa. That's problematic" "Bhai ne pati patni ke rishte ki insult ki haa" "Woh selfish ha "...

Expand ▼
Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai thumbnail

Posted by: Aleyamma47 · 5 months ago

[QUOTE=Krinya] If I were to blame , it'll be in the order of abhir charu Kiara.. Kiara has been obsessed with abhir but she was no way...

Expand ▼
Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".