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kendra

@kendra

Voyager

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Posted: 7 years ago

Kartik and Naira are so spineless. Specially Naira! For God's sake don't you know the way this guy and his family treated you!? Then why are you behaving like such love sick fools!? I really wanted to give two tight slaps to her. Learn to stand up for yourself woman. Naksh was so right. And Goenkas are so brilliant as ever 👏 Kdadi and The Mom are just unbelievable. Nakhre toh dekho dono ke. Did they really forget that their two daughters are married in that family. Chaud toh kabhi kam nahi hoti.

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AnyaRSingh

@AnyaRSingh

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Common signs of an abuse victim...

Emotional dependency
Continued faith and hope abuser will "grow up"
Accepts blame and guilt for violence or abuse
May defend any criticism of abuser
May have repeatedly left, or considered leaving the relationship
Feels guilty for trying to leave abuser

star plus does have social message going just not the one about divorce being ok one about abuse being ok...i jus imagined them having a promo like u no those ones how do u no kaira is perfect for each other theyl make one how do u know kaira is toxic for each other kartik has trust issues...Blames others for his mistakes...Talks shit when angry...

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sam189

@sam189

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh
Common signs of an abuse victim...
Emotional dependency
Continued faith and hope abuser will "grow up"
Accepts blame and guilt for violence or abuse
May defend any criticism of abuser
May have repeatedly left, or considered leaving the relationship
Feels guilty for trying to leave abuser
star plus does have social message going just not the one about divorce being ok one about abuse being ok...i jus imagined them having a promo like u no those ones how do u no kaira is perfect for each other theyl make one how do u know kaira is toxic for each other kartik has trust issues...Blames others for his mistakes...Talks shit when angry...
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OMG Anya you are so right. In real life this would have been emotional abuse, no doubt about that. I am still so weirded out by their sudden flip after divorce into lovey dovey couple 😕 Trust star plus/YRKKH to romanticize what would be signs of abuse in real life. In real life, i would tell Naira to just move on from this toxic broken relationship, anger-and trust-issues husband and a really weird Goenka family who screams and yells at the drop of the hat.

But also, I am enjoying every bit of forbidden romance in the current track, and I am completely ignoring the logical part of my brain that can not make out how quickly they shifted from fighting with each other to yearing for each other lol 😆😆. But anyyywayy I watch the show for pretty people, dresses, weddings and romance, so enjoying the current track much more than last few months. Even though all the story lines up to this point have been a complete khichdi 😆😆

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rose2015

@rose2015

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

Common signs of an abuse victim...
Emotional dependency
Continued faith and hope abuser will "grow up"
Accepts blame and guilt for violence or abuse
May defend any criticism of abuser
May have repeatedly left, or considered leaving the relationship
Feels guilty for trying to leave abuser
star plus does have social message going just not the one about divorce being ok one about abuse being ok...i jus imagined them having a promo like u no those ones how do u no kaira is perfect for each other theyl make one how do u know kaira is toxic for each other kartik has trust issues...Blames others for his mistakes...Talks shit when angry...
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Anya

You are so right and the worst thing is the show romanticizes this behavior and then on social media you have girls getting upset if anything is said to Karthik. (as if he is the one being abused)

Sometimes I feel Karthik displays narcissism. He behaves badly with Naira and then Naira feels guilty that she is the one who did something wrong. Then she apologizes.

In real life a girl in this situation wouldn't divorce to make her mil happy but do it for her own wellbeing and safety. If Naira had presented it this way then there was no way Rajshri would have said you took decision to divorce without thinking. In real life "nayi soch" women have self respect.

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AnyaRSingh

@AnyaRSingh

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

I feel like just because he looks good and says i love u from time to time doesnt make it ok...(think about the pushing her against the wall ripping that ring off her finger, the screaming and accusations humiliations the way she looks terrified when his angry...)

Literally if u think about it this confident, bright girl went from being just that to this girl whose scared she will make her romantic narcissist angry

if we talk about it logically and u read the signs of abusive partners he fits the bill so perfectly. When his charming his the best when his vile his the worst...

(BTW no hate i am a kaira shipper but logically sometimes i am like huh nayi soch? be a doormat dont divorce ur pagal pati coz his cute and says i love u sometimes? but doesnt show an inch of faith in u, would trust a random person on the street more than u the person he claims he loves)

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