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CaptiveFreedom

@CaptiveFreedom

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

In yesterday's episode while talking about her and Keerti's bond Suwarna was blaming Keerti for choosing Singhanias...she had audacity to blame Keerti for their strained relationship...there are conditions with Suwarna's motherly love...which her children have to obey in order to get their mother's love and attention...Keerti had to leave people who supported her the most to get Suwarna mata's love...she can't decide on her own whom to support...as Suwarna mata is blinded by her hatred so everyone around her should hate Naira..

I remember a similar situation during Shuham-Suhana wedding preparations she asked Naira that she did a lot for her and always supported her now is the time Naira has to repay the favors...Naira shouldn't try to take away lolli pop (dream of getting married to Suhana) from her son...

Similarly she can give motherly love to Karthik and Keerti only by keeping her own child away from her...

A mother's love can also be conditioned? Is she worthy of being called a mother? In her selfishness she want to destroy her daughter's home...In her hatred she separated two individuals who lived each other and she claimed to love them like her own flesh and blood once upon a time...When Naitik confronted her and told her that she herself is responsible for Shubham's state she was so flabbergasted as if somebody injected her poison...that truth even that bitter truth didn't aroused conscience in her...she can't ACCEPT the truth...she herself know that she is responsible...in her guilt she is suffocating others by repeatedly keeping check on Karthik and his well being as she knew that she was ignorant towards Shubham and his state even when he use to come home in inebriated state...she didn't even spare Luv-Kush in order to keep them "safe"...if she accept the truth that she herself is responsible for her son's death...her cloak of mahanta will wear off...she will be proven wrong...and mahan selfless maa can never ever harm her children...her selfless overly caring overly protective motherly image with get tarnished...even now she is more concerned that Kaira should never reunite...Hating Naira is her way of guarding her motherly image her way of self-defense...the day she start responding to her conscience that bitter truth that she is a failure as a mother...she won't be able to live...she will die of guilt...but for that her shallowness and hollowness need to be filled...that day is nearing as on knowing truth...all of them will hate her...that hatred she is filling in her heart will be the cause of their hatred...Karthik, Naira and Keerti...

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Misfit007

@misfit007

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Tottaly agree! She's flawed as hell but unable to hear the truth et alone accept it.

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parvs

@parvs

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Posted: 7 years ago

and she is starting to become suffocating... even watching the way she acts on screen i feel suffocated not sure how kartik is handling this... i think maybe he feels guilty for ignoring her all these years and the fact that they think his wife is a cause of shubhams death... but still like hes a grown man i think he can take care of himself and doesnt need his mother hovering around 24/7... she freaks out at the littlest thing... my bacha my bacha... hes not 2 for crying out loud... he can take care of himself..

i really liked when naitik called her out for the fact that when shubham was alive she pretty much declared him dead in front of the family... so in a way she is a cause of his death because he was never able to integrate back into the family... he was just too different..

and swarna ignoring kartiks pain just like she did during shubhams time... the whole time she wanted shubham to start loving her so she went to every extent to fulfill all his demands even when they were wrong and not actually looking to see what it is he needs in reality... and now with kartik she is ignoring what he really needs which is of course naira... she thinks hes moved on? like come on lady you were the one who once upon time would be standing up for them telling every one they cant live without each other... and for your selfish reasons you think hes moved? 😕

and i really hope they dont bring her to mumbai to live with kartik... that will be too much too soon... really want kartik and naira to maybe start working their differences out before she springs up again to cause a bajillion more misunderstandings... she will emotionally blackmail kartik with her crocodile tears

like everyone has said before she cannot redeem herself after this... but since it is a show they will show her being forgiven instantly... but i really hope they dont.. and they really make her work for this forgiveness from naira

**and didnt mean to offend anyone😳... just my thoughts on the character, nothing against the actor... i think shes doing a good job playing a negative from an overly positive person... cant be easy to switch like that**

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AJS

@Ajscinesonadar

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Swarna's seems so realistic post leap as in the past when she been to be a selfless infront of everyone, a ideal mother in law though I never had anything against her but always been skeptical whenever seen her scenes especially with naira always raised a question on my mind Is that for real? Later CVs wasnt more concerned about developing her character they continued with selfless mother and a ideal mother in law portrayal for her. But seeing current swarna I so much can say no scope feeling of any doubt regarding her behaviour it is her real her. Only post leap I feel she is faking when it comes to mera beta wala dailogue I dont see any pure love for kartik in her eyes, actually only thing hatred for naira I could see. At this point also I remember even before she easily and indirectly blamed naira when Kaira left GV after marriage and the reason also then was swarna matha, which made me believe the current swarna is real one it was there in her all this natank doing now but then her race was to get kartik's love somehow. I even have doubt the love she given naira before is it just to get kartik closer to her as world knows way to kartik its naira.

Yes so true her love to one depended on conditions then for naira though it wasn't visible she had condition with her also make kartik to stay back.

Now love for kartik and keerti depended on them staying away from naira.

Keerti, post leap one of the best character she standing for herself instead thinking of breaking her family life just for conditional motherly love she chose her in laws where nobody has any conditions.

Edited by Ajscinesonadar - 7 years ago

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