Kaira and tag - 'Joru ka Ghulam'

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

According to KD and Manish ji Karthik is "Joru ka Ghulam" as his focus is more on Naira and not on work.

Now one part of KD and Manish ji 's perception is right, which is Karthik 's focus on Naira is more which makes him look like one But he is definitely not Joru ka Ghulam as then these type of husbands do not use their brain and follow their wife's orders always but Karthik has his own brain and luckily is still using them . Its just that his and Naira's perspective is same about life whereas his family members are different that's why so many arguments.

But yes, having said that this also cannot be ignored that Karthik definitely prioritizes Naira more which should also be but then you should know when to prioritize what.

When Naira's performance was about to begin and clients wanted some question and answer session, his focus shifted and he got uncomfortable.

Kaira are so much into each other that when the clients were waiting downstairs for some papers, Naira decided to sort out a serious issue between them which needed proper time. She waS fine with the clients waiting downstairs but wanted Karthik to give her time. Now this is where they are faltering, unable to prioritize the things according to the circumstances.

Secondly, Karthik constant rant about Naira in front of everybody also gives you that impression. Even your friends who meet you once in a while gets irritated with your constant rant about your spouse then family membersnwho stays wiy h you 24*7 are bound to get irritated. So it's fine to support her but other than that allow the members to breathe.

But is Karthik following the correct route after getting to know the problem. No !

He needs to sit and discuss with Naira and analyse and understand why these impressions are coming rather than doing this he is ignoring Naira and repeating the same mistake which Naira did of distancing herself from him. This is not the solution of this problem. They need to sit and discuss, that's the solution and not staying away from each other and hurting each other deeply with their talks.

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Charu

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Posted: 7 years ago

Agree with everything except for kartik's approach..He is trying to "show" naira instead explain her , as to how it feels when you prioritize others and not share your pain, take any decision on your own which affects both...Ideally a husband wife should be as a unit , however, the dynamics are different in a joint family system ..So these kinda issues must be addressed ..But looking at the precap I feel it's gonna be brushed under the carpet yet again as naira will again go missing when she steps out and kartik will be looking for her frantically

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anu023

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Posted: 7 years ago

Kartik and naira are a.perfect example of why u shouldn't get married as early as 19 or 20 yrs. Specially naira. This is the age u finally start feeling like an adult and think u.know more than elders do and try bossing over.

More than love or all that crap 20 is an age u are still coming to terms with newly found adulthood.

Kartik is 70% jhoru ka ghulam and 30% sensible.

Love and emotions should never interfere with ur professional life and kartik more often mixes both

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Posted: 7 years ago

Tag joru ka gulam is common for all protective caring husbands but mere tag doesn't make them joru ka gulam. KDadi is never going to change her negative approach. Naira and Karthik need not always adjust to Goenka family's wish and will. They only need to stop bothering about Goenkas and their opinions but Is it that easy to be unaffected? When your own family blames u calls u irresponsible and unprofessional. Karthik did his work properly even after helping Naira it was all Shubham's fault wheras Karthik was blamed for helping Naira forgetting his own work.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue
Tag joru ka gulam is common for all protective caring husbands but mere tag doesn't make them joru ka gulam. KDadi is never going to change her negative approach. Naira and Karthik need not always adjust to Goenka family's wish and will. They only need to stop bothering about Goenkas and their opinions but Is it that easy to be unaffected? When your own family blames u calls u irresponsible and unprofessional. Karthik did his work properly even after helping Naira it was all Shubham's fault wheras Karthik was blamed for helping Naira forgetting his own work.

Liked your post ..But didn't naira know that kartik worked hard the full night for his office project ? Didn't kartik know this ? Then what made naira think that he is distracted ? She believed dadi or dadi influenced her mind ? And distanced herself ...in a way she believed kartik can concentrate on his office and not her academy so it's better he should be left alone ?.So there she is wrong ..Kartik is not wrong because he knows the complete truth and is hurt ..He knows , neither he is irresponsible nor naira can come in between his work , he knows he is not joru ka ghulam , does he need to prove it to the world ?No..Just what naira thinks matters to him

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_

Liked your post ..But didn't naira know that kartik worked hard the full night for his office project ? Didn't kartik know this ? Then what made naira think that he is distracted ? She believed dadi or dadi influenced her mind ? And distanced herself ...in a way she believed kartik can concentrate on his office and not her academy so it's better he should be left alone ?.So there she is wrong ..Kartik is not wrong because he knows the complete truth and is hurt ..He knows , neither he is irresponsible nor naira can come in between his work , he knows he is not joru ka ghulam , does he need to prove it to the world ?No..Just what naira thinks matters to him

Naira knew Karthik worked really hard she defended Karthik when MG was blaming him for being irresponsible more than KDadi I think MG influenced Naira. She decided to leave on her own without sorting it out with Karthik but when Karthik showed her government notice if for instance Karthik get to read it, will he be able to concentrate on his own work? I think NO, his work required substantial time, he by leaving his work could have done anything to solve that problem for Naira even if she refuse. Karthik is immensely hurt as when he can put everyone's opinions down for Naira how can Naira be affected by whatever other people say but he is forgetting that its not the matter of trust but its the matter of priorities Naira wanted Karthik to prioritize his work over her at the crucial time when MG needed him and he himself worked harder for a project. Him solving Naira's problem (that government notice one) could possibly distract him from his own work. But Naira forgot that he can solve her problems and ignore his work in future too that's why them deciding to set their priorities at times like these except asking for help when actually required, was better than leaving him so she was partly wrong.

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Posted: 7 years ago

.That means naira IS a distraction or her work is a distraction and kartik must be a superhuman to handle both, so naira may be correct ..But how many times will she do it ? Ultimately it should be sorted between the two of them..Naira didn't tell him, she is telling pungi...Obviously she is at fault ..

Also joru ka ghulam etc is not a "blame" ..I believe it's not meant to be taken seriously..Whichever husband loves his wife will be named joru ka ghulam , in our culture before shadi only people start calling the boy with that name jokingly ..Likewise every bahu is believed to "snatch" or kaabu mein kar kar liya the beloved son who was different before shadi ..One really cannot do anything to change that kinda mindset ..

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A HUGE FAN

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Posted: 7 years ago

Both Kartik and Naira need to balance their time together and their professional lives. They also need to communicate with one another and need to be honest with each other, not hide things from one another., especially, Naira. The girl needs to talk to her hubby and actually trust him that he'll do the right thing for her and for himself.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_
.That means naira IS a distraction or her work is a distraction and kartik must be a superhuman to handle both, so naira may be correct ..But how many times will she do it ? Ultimately it should be sorted between the two of them..Naira didn't tell him, she is telling pungi...Obviously she is at fault ..

Also joru ka ghulam etc is not a "blame" ..I believe it's not meant to be taken seriously..Whichever husband loves his wife will be named joru ka ghulam , in our culture before shadi only people start calling the boy with that name jokingly ..Likewise every bahu is believed to "snatch" or kaabu mein kar kar liya the beloved son who was different before shadi ..One really cannot do anything to change that kinda mindset ..

Yah she should've communicated with Karthik about it in more appropriate way though she expressed her distress a few times previously whenever Karthik was blamed for his shifted focus she assured him that she can manage it alone. Naira's solution to the problem wasn't the solution in actual. Distancing herself from Karthik even to make his work his priority over her for short duration was not the solution. Karthik hadn't seen the way KDadi and MG blamed her, anyone would feel bad. Only super human won't feel bad after being taunted and blamed for everything that goes wrong in her husband's life. If she shared Goenka's outburst with Karthik it would mean inviting more trouble for herself. This joru ka gulam title is used jokingly most often but it is also used to instigate others though there is nothing wrong in caring for ur wife more than anyone but the tag is use to demean those efforts.

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Tipsy11

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Posted: 7 years ago

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This is a bit off topic, but all I want to say is that kaira
Romance is a bit too much like half of the episode is filled
With there romance and then the main story line is
Shown so less and it's in almost every episode
Who else agrees with me here

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