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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ever since Akshara has been thrown out of Singhania house, I have seen lots of posts bashing Bhabhimaa. Yes, we didn't like her kicking akshara out, but none of us has ever shown any empathy with her. Why don't we understand that she too lost her husband. Yes, death is inevitable and everybody has to die one day. But in the situation Bhabhimaa was in, it was easy for anybody to misunderstand. She is not god after all. She too has suffered immensly after akshara-naitik left with their kids. We suffer the most when we know that the pain has come from someone whom we love a lot. Same is the situation with her. She loved akshara a lot and it became very difficult for her when she came to know that akshara signed those papers and after that her beloved husband died.
I am not advocating kaveri(bhabhi maa) but just trying to say that she doesn't deserve the kind of bashing that she is getting from most of us.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I can't agree with your post topic maker..Who has given right to bhabhi maa to throw akshara out from her house..Is this ancestral property only & only of dadda ji & his family..She was absolutely wrong there..Did n't she knew the serious condition of her husband ?..Doctors had already said that dadda ji's condition was critical..Not only she & the whole Singhania's family knew that..Is signing papers is such a big crime did by Akshara? Is it so easy for her to take such drastic decision? What was Akshara's motto? She only tried to save daddaji's life till last ..She signed those papers only in a hope may be it will be good for dadda ji.. Was Akshara deserved that harsh treatment by bhabhi maa & others.?..No is my reply..Is trying to save someone's life is a sin in real life?..No my dear..Every person will try till last to save their important family members in real..What was bhabhi maa doing when her husband was in critical condition?..Doing puja & prayers only..What were her & her daughters Nandini efforts to save her husband & father's life..?.. They both should be in hospital & did prayers there in hospital too...No close member of a critical person is in home whenever ill patients need them most..Bhabhi maa is totally wrong & she deserve the treatment of her own actually..Bhabhi maa like persons use their bahus/betas for everything but sometimes if something wrong happen throw their family members out of their houses in her myths only..If she has lost her husband then Naitik & Akshara too lost their beloved daddaji..No one in real is given any authority to throw out the persons whom in its wrong myth feel others feel guilty of wrong happens..Bhabhi maa must realize her big mistake of throwing Akshara out from her house..Akshara did so much caring of dadda ji in ill condition..How can bhabhi maa forget about that?..She is totally responsible for Akshara's pain in this tract for me & my family..My whole family view.
Edited by meeraverma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: meeraverma

I can't agree with your post topic maker..Who has given right to bhabhi maa to throw akshara out from her house..Is this ancestral property only & only of dadda ji & his family..She was absolutely wrong there..Did n't she knew the serious condition of her husband ?..Doctors had already said that dadda ji's condition was critical..Not only she & the whole Singhania's family knew that..Is signing papers is such a big crime did by Akshara? Is it so easy for her to take such drastic decision? What was Akshara's motto? She only tried to save daddaji's life till last ..She signed those papers only in a hope may be it will be good for dadda ji.. Was Akshara deserved that harsh treatment by bhabhi maa & others.?..No is my reply..Is trying to save someone's life is a sin in real life?..No my dear..Every person will try till last to save their important family members in real..What was bhabhi maa doing when her husband was in critical condition?..Doing puja & prayers only..What were her & her daughters Nandini efforts to save her husband & father's life..?.. They both should be in hospital & did prayers there in hospital too...No close member of a critical person is in home whenever ill patients need them most..Bhabhi maa is totally wrong & she deserve the treatment of her own actually..Bhabhi maa like persons use their bahus/betas for everything but sometimes if something wrong happen throw their family members out of their houses in her myths only..If she has lost her husband then Naitik & Akshara too lost their beloved daddaji..No one in real is given any authority to throw out the persons whom in its wrong myth feel others feel guilty of wrong happens..Bhabhi maa must realize her big mistake of throwing Akshara out from her house..Akshara did so much caring of dadda ji in ill condition..How can bhabhi maa forget about that?..She is totally responsible for Akshara's pain in this tract for me & my family..My whole family view.


I am not judging either akshara or bhabhi maa. All I wanna say is the kind of bashing people giving her. There are many akshara and naitik lovers who can't see akshara in pain but bashing a character so much is not right too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I cant really have any empathy for her..And after today's seg there arent any chances left with it...She is suffering because for her own damn stub-born attitude...Okay for a moment if we say that 10 yrs before what she did was out of the loss she had to bear that time as u said its easy for anyone to misunderstand in sucha condition but after 10 years too she is standin at the same point blaming Akshara ...C'mon man 10 years is a long time to clear out your misunderstandings and accept the reality and if she fails she is to be blamed man...
Akshara did so much for that family especially dadaji.She took care of him all those years when he was ill and one misunderstanding she threw her out of that house blaming her for dj's death..Can you imagine in what pain akshara would have been from last 10 years bearing all that hatred from bm ??

P.S. regarding that bashin bm toh i dont want bm in Naksh's life anymore...Hence that post of mine..Bm doesnt deserve to be in their life as she toh accepts that hasnt got any Beta and Bahu.. 🤢
Edited by ..Arooj.. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Why to show empathy for bhabhi maa...What good she had done by throwing out her bahu from her house & let her lived with guilt of blaming & only responsible person for dadda ji's death?.. It's not so easy to live in guilt as well as to live so far from your near & dear ones whom she never had a will to do that..Why Akshara & Akshara's parents & her family to bear the sufferings of living long distance with each other in just one or few persons wrong myths..How can anyone forget the care, selfless seva, so much concern of Akshara for dadda ji the past years..It's purely show her selfish nature nothing else..Even after ten years she said in t'days segment that she had no bahu & beta..If she had no bahu & beta how can she show her right for duggu & naira..What creatives want to prove in this tract?..The creatives must show that bhabhi maa & others should repent what they had done with Akshara & also thought about Akshara's pain & suffering..No sympathy for bhabhi maa..She deserves the same treatment which she did with Akshara in her wrong myths..
Edited by akshara456 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i totally disagree with the topic maker bhabhimaa has no right to throw aksharra out of the house after all naitik has also some right in the property. She was influenced by that dhongi guruji to such an extent that he lost all her mind and was even saying that doctors doesnt know anything.Before also when a tofee was stucked in daddaji wind pipe akshrra only saved him if he would have died that time than wat bhabhimaa have kicked out duggu out of the house bcoz he only gave daadji the tofee she should have listened to akshrra and naitik and the circumstances created before throwing them out if the house.All the other members in ss as well as ms are supporting our naksh but only bcoz of her they live away from their family. She shuld have understand that all people here are not fool all are educated and have some reason for which they are supporting them. I think duggu shuld be tell abut this and he shuld hate bhabhimaa instead of naitik.I have no emphaty for bhabhimaa she has lost all her minds and shuld be send to mental hospital and Naitik should do case on him like of MANHAANI..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i totally disagree with the topic maker👎🏼👎🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well said meeraverma-- agree with you.. What bhabhi maa did with Akshara was totally wrong & with that that naitik , duggu , naira, Akshara's maiyaka walas as well as devyani , naman, karishma suffered ..Only & only becoz of dictator bhabhi maa & later on her daughter too joined her..Can't understand still rajbanna's attitude too..In order to make bhabhi maa happy, he let his son, bahu & their children suffered the pain of living far away distance from their near & dear ones..Why she (bhabhi maa) is dictating & throwing tantrums even after 10 yrs..If she truly loves her family , she would definitely try to change herself & her attitude but creatives are showing she is still the same filled with arrogance, attitude, self centered nature & has become more dominating than before..What creatives are trying to prove in this tract? Was she right? No is my reply..How can she show her right on duggu & naira even if she won't have any bahu & beta?..Why creatives? Enuf of her & some Singhania's family tantrums in the show..Even her t'days dialogues were very irritating too which clearly showed her stubborn as well as selfish behavior when she said no need to do telephone to naitik & akshara as he is in his house & with that they will call him back earlier..Is this not the selfish behavior of her?..In her hatred she has crossed all the limits..Creatives need to show bhabhi need to get treatment of her own medicine..Not only bhabhi maa we want rajbanna , nandini too repent to both Akshara & Naitik for their stern behavior..We will n't be happy creatives if you will try to end this tract again on a sorry note said by Akshara & Naitik..How many times & For what? No way..The most sufferer is Akshara as she had been dragged out from her house & the blame of dadda ji's death was put on her by bhabhi maa & some others..No empathy for bhabhi maa &rajbanna & to some extent for nandini too.
Edited by jayasingh - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To be honest I think she deserves it, Bma is being ruthless heartless.. No one in their right mind reacts this way. She was obsessed with the swami Ji earlier too & one would think shed have learnt a lesson back then but I guess she's not one who learns from her mistakes!! I'm sorry I don't really have a soft corner for bma, I mean she's pretty selfish.. the lalla she's all obsessing over she was ready to separate him from his parents just for her daughters sake..
After all akshara did from day 1, she did NOT deserve to be thrown out without even being given a chance to speak up for herself.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Both mother and daughter are selfish
One sorry of Nandini can't make Akshara forget her pain of 10 long years

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