Reduce the over the top melodrama please

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I have always enjoyed watching this show. But like any good show, it also serves viewers too much melodrama in its own way. Which, if brought down to a bit low level, will look good and digestable. Following are the points that I find irritating:

1. Naitik's over romance: It's a blessing to receive the same level of love and respect from your husband even after so many years of marriage as it was in the initial days. But its over the top at times. Especially when naitik finds reasons to be around akshara like a teenage lover. I find him immature when he does so.

2. Rajshri's over concern: I mentioned it in one of my posts(rajshri ka rona dhona) earlier. So u may read it there.

3. Family semi-circle: Each time something happens, all family members in maheshwari and singhania families form a semi circle around the person or kid with that problem(usually those problems are very petty).

4. Over whelming and over the top ways of celebrations: It's great to celebrate with your family and dear ones. But this family has a special budget to spend on celebrations and puja's

, where all males have new sherwanis and kurtas (which they never repeat) and akshara has new hairstyle and make up ( I mentioned her in particular because other females are in their usual styles except her)

5. Akshara being the centre of everyone's universe: Apart from her parents and her husband naitik, it seems everyone focuses unnecessarily on what's going on in akshara's life. Her happiness is the source of great joy of everyone and her sorrow makes everyone gloomy like hell. In yesterday's episode only, varsha is calling shaurya and anshu to reach akshara's home asap as she's in labour. Somebody tell me what are these two gonna do if she's in labour. Totally ridiculous and annoying.

These are those very points which I find irritating in particular(although there are many other small ones).

Do you agree with me? You are welcome to share any other point if you feel so...

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I have always enjoyed watching this show. But like any good show, it also serves viewers too much melodrama in its own way. Which, if brought down to a bit low level, will look good and digestable. Following are the points that I find irritating:

1. Naitik's over romance: It's a blessing to receive the same level of love and respect from your husband even after so many years of marriage as it was in the initial days. But its over the top at times. Especially when naitik finds reasons to be around akshara like a teenage lover. I find him immature when he does so.

2. Rajshri's over concern: I mentioned it in one of my posts(rajshri ka rona dhona) earlier. So u may read it there.

3. Family semi-circle: Each time something happens, all family members in maheshwari and singhania families form a semi circle around the person or kid with that problem(usually those problems are very petty).

4. Over whelming and over the top ways of celebrations: It's great to celebrate with your family and dear ones. But this family has a special budget to spend on celebrations and puja's

, where all males have new sherwanis and kurtas (which they never repeat) and akshara has new hairstyle and make up ( I mentioned her in particular because other females are in their usual styles except her)

5. Akshara being the centre of everyone's universe: Apart from her parents and her husband naitik, it seems everyone focuses unnecessarily on what's going on in akshara's life. Her happiness is the source of great joy of everyone and her sorrow makes everyone gloomy like hell. In yesterday's episode only, varsha is calling shaurya and anshu to reach akshara's home asap as she's in labour. Somebody tell me what are these two gonna do if she's in labour. Totally ridiculous and annoying.

These are those very points which I find irritating in particular(although there are many other small ones).

Do you agree with me? You are welcome to share any other point if you feel so...

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u r post is so good and frame work of u r post s nice ,

i agree it partially some point :)

for my view is day by day concern to husband wife is more and more bcz they both of them understan each other more and more daily :))

in some time i means old age people never leave each other , we see in normal life , so its example , the couples can understand and actually they mutually help to each other ,

in some place if wife died in naturally , husband make sucide and wiseversa like as happen in now a days also ,,

rajashree its her character 😊, each mom is do like as only , its nature , after their child get child also mom thinks his daughter is child ,

our YRKKH is always give good information to us , am feels proud of yrkkh fan

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Originally posted by: kumarandils
u r post is so good and frame work of u r post s nice ,
i agree it partially some point :)

for my view is day by day concern to husband wife is more and more bcz they both of them understan each other more and more daily :))

in some time i means old age people never leave each other , we see in normal life , so its example , the couples can understand and actually they mutually help to each other ,

in some place if wife died in naturally , husband make sucide and wiseversa like as happen in now a days also ,,

rajashree its her character 😊, each mom is do like as only , its nature , after their child get child also mom thinks his daughter is child ,
our YRKKH is always give good information to us , am feels proud of yrkkh fan

Thanx for the compliment. I particularly mentioned 'over the top' melodrama where things are in excess. They would look more natural if they are toned down.

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I definitely agree with you. I do not watch this show regularly although I enjoy it whenever I get to watching it. I usually watch it on and off. But whether it be me watching an episode two weeks later or a year later, I always see these elements that you mentioned every time. I do like the show and its concept but they do go overboard on certain aspects. Especially agree with you regarding Rajshri's over concern and crying about everything and Akshara being the center of attention.

Though seeing the romance between Akshara and Naitik is probably a welcoming sight for all the Naksh jodi lovers, I agree it does sometimes seem immature. But I have to say, even though their romance may seem immature, the maturity, respect, and understanding of their relationship is something I really love to see and that never gets old for me.

Rajshri's rona dhona is something I really get irritated at times with. Every small thing, she starts crying. I understand some people are just emotional and her character is probably sketched that way, but as a viewer, it irritates me to see her crying all the time even about the smallest things.

As far as Akshara being the center of attention, I have to agree with you on that. Perhaps thats the reason Karishma always feels insecure about making her own place as she is always compared to the ideal daughter-in-law. Though I would like to say that I am totally not in favor of her attitude and behavior as I think she is a bit self-centered. (Then again, I cant say much about her character either as I havent watched this show in a few weeks).

The semi-circle...lol...I didnt even notice or think about it until you mentioned it. But its true, they always do that.

The celebrations...they are over the top at times but I enjoy them. That is perhaps the only over the top thing that I do enjoy in this show.

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i agree with you on most points... here is the thing... the love between naitik and akshara sometime actually most of the time looks immature... eg: akshara in labor screaming naitik naitik... i posted that day too i was laughing so hard... but yes their love, respect and understanding for each other is awesome... but sometime the way they behave is so immature... i mean they are parents of two children time grow up people...

and let me add that naitik is not the only one... akshara is no less... i have said it before she takes her family for granted... Even when she visits her parents her mind is always at home or on naitik... no one does that in real life... Or at least no one that I know of does that... Personally, when I am at my mom's home at with my mom... I talk to her, mess with her, bug her do all that I want to do but never do I ever walk away from my mom if my husband calls... coz he knows very well I am with him all the time and my mom gets very little time with me... and if he does calls when I am visiting my mom then it is for something important and isn't something the requires me to walk away from my mother to talk to my husband... that way my mother feels that she is still important in my life...

about their reactions... I feel that doth families have same reaction to everything... from breaking a nail and messing up manicure to bring in labor not being able to reach hospital... reactions from families are mostly the same... over melodrama, water works, and acting like their world is crashing...

plus akshara having a bad day means that it is a black day in SS... I mean why... The girl isn't allowed to have one bad day... a day when she just wants to be with herself... If my family was like akshara I would die with suffocation... but that's just me...

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Originally posted by: maan-and-geet
i agree with you on most points... here is the thing... the love between naitik and akshara sometime actually most of the time looks immature... eg: akshara in labor screaming naitik naitik... i posted that day too i was laughing so hard... but yes their love, respect and understanding for each other is awesome... but sometime the way they behave is so immature... i mean they are parents of two children time grow up people...

and let me add that naitik is not the only one... akshara is no less... i have said it before she takes her family for granted... Even when she visits her parents her mind is always at home or on naitik... no one does that in real life... Or at least no one that I know of does that... Personally, when I am at my mom's home at with my mom... I talk to her, mess with her, bug her do all that I want to do but never do I ever walk away from my mom if my husband calls... coz he knows very well I am with him all the time and my mom gets very little time with me... and if he does calls when I am visiting my mom then it is for something important and isn't something the requires me to walk away from my mother to talk to my husband... that way my mother feels that she is still important in my life...

about their reactions... I feel that doth families have same reaction to everything... from breaking a nail and messing up manicure to bring in labor not being able to reach hospital... reactions from families are mostly the same... over melodrama, water works, and acting like their world is crashing...

plus akshara having a bad day means that it is a black day in SS... I mean why... The girl isn't allowed to have one bad day... a day when she just wants to be with herself... If my family was like akshara I would die with suffocation... but that's just me...

So true. You understood well what I wanted to say via dis post. I like dis show as it mostly serves as a feel good factor to me and does teaches to value and respect your family and relations which very few shows have done so far. But few things are really over here. Over love, over concern, over gloominess, over happiness. Seems everyone has the problem of erratic sentiments. And yes Love doesn't always mean to bind yourself with the person you love. This much love suffocates. I understand that a woman wanrs to be with her hubby at the time of delievery of the baby but c'mon no one reacts like the way akshara does. If Naitik doesn't come at the time of delivery, then wud it stop the baby to come out. And I really don't understand all family members rushing at the place of delivery to be with akshara. Like I said dat varsha calling shaurya and anshu to rush to akshara's home. What the hell are these two gonna do??? Seems no one has got work in Singhania and maheshwari house holds but just to be with or around akshara...Ufff. It sucks a big times at times.

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Originally posted by: maan-and-geet
i agree with you on most points... here is the thing... the love between naitik and akshara sometime actually most of the time looks immature... eg: akshara in labor screaming naitik naitik... i posted that day too i was laughing so hard... but yes their love, respect and understanding for each other is awesome... but sometime the way they behave is so immature... i mean they are parents of two children time grow up people...

and let me add that naitik is not the only one... akshara is no less... i have said it before she takes her family for granted... Even when she visits her parents her mind is always at home or on naitik... no one does that in real life... Or at least no one that I know of does that... Personally, when I am at my mom's home at with my mom... I talk to her, mess with her, bug her do all that I want to do but never do I ever walk away from my mom if my husband calls... coz he knows very well I am with him all the time and my mom gets very little time with me... and if he does calls when I am visiting my mom then it is for something important and isn't something the requires me to walk away from my mother to talk to my husband... that way my mother feels that she is still important in my life...

about their reactions... I feel that doth families have same reaction to everything... from breaking a nail and messing up manicure to bring in labor not being able to reach hospital... reactions from families are mostly the same... over melodrama, water works, and acting like their world is crashing...

plus akshara having a bad day means that it is a black day in SS... I mean why... The girl isn't allowed to have one bad day... a day when she just wants to be with herself... If my family was like akshara I would die with suffocation... but that's just me...

you are so right and your post was super funny.I would feel suffocated too. Reaction is the same whether it's labor or something that just requires a bandaid. I am a mother too but rajshri obsession for her daughter is over the top. I must say Dadi is very sensible. I love her character. If it wasn't for her rajshri would be living with akshara. On a serious note the little kids should have been kept away when she was going through labor pain. They did not need to see her in pain because kids get scared.(duggu)

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Originally posted by: rvmluthra
you are so right and your post was super funny.I would feel suffocated too. Reaction is the same whether it's labor or something that just requires a bandaid. I am a mother too but rajshri obsession for her daughter is over the top. I must say Dadi is very sensible. I love her character. If it wasn't for her rajshri would be living with akshara. On a serious note the little kids should have been kept away when she was going through labor pain. They did not need to see her in pain because kids get scared.(duggu)

Rajshri living with akshara thing is absolutely right. No denial to that. She's not as excited for shaurya-varsha's daughter as she's for akshara's.

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Agree with you partially, the serial does go over board sometime but that is quite natural for a daily soap. But regarding Rajshri,she is a mother and a mother is always worried about her daughter. I am 40 and I am married for twenty years now but still my mother is very much concerned about me. She does call me everyday and she does complain that I work a lot, she asks me to come home (mother's place) to have some rest. I can completely relate to Rajshri's character

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