pls guys do read and tell me your views as i really need them iam preg

Guys iam preg wth my second child my older son is 4 years old okay so started watching yrrkkh wen duggu was born and akshra and duggus equation really helped me build my bond wth my son and noe wen iam preg second time i agqin looked up to akshra as iam afraid how i will bal between 2 kids up till now akshara gave me a hope and direction as she balanced and gave imp to duggu but now wen i saw the epi pics tht duggu is sleeping on folding bed its making me uneasy because my dilevery is due in 4 months and after tht everything will change my son is my universe but after 2 baby my centre of attention will change? Son who i loved more than my life will be distant from me i cant imagine hurting the one who made me mother. Idk i cant imagine loving any baby more than my son eill it be unjust wth the coming baby? Is it only in serial or this happens in real life to? I have read many articles and they suggest to give most of your time to your older child so they dont feel insecure is it correct pls all of u who are mothers are expecting or are just single but have any view to share and help me pls do comment i mentioned akshara duggu n naira so its easy for u ti understand and apply the situation if u want to talk in their context its fine i'll apply it on my self but pls do tell me how to be just wth your.children and whatever is happening wth duggu is correct or not? bcoz idk i perosonally feel its wrong and CV's should correct it

I'm only 17 so don't know much but I have a sister who is going to be 1 in about 2 weeks and from that I realised that there's so many things you need to do and most of your time gets spent looking after them and playing with them. I feel that you should give equal time to children like when the baby is sleeping then give attention to the other child so they don't feel hurt or feel like you're giving more attention to the baby and also when you're playing with the baby try and involve the other child as well.

Originally posted by: Yhm_YrkkhHolic

Guys iam preg wth my second child my older son is 4 years old okay so started watching yrrkkh wen duggu was born and akshra and duggus equation really helped me build my bond wth my son and noe wen iam preg second time i agqin looked up to akshra as iam afraid how i will bal between 2 kids up till now akshara gave me a hope and direction as she balanced and gave imp to duggu but now wen i saw the epi pics tht duggu is sleeping on folding bed its making me uneasy because my dilevery is due in 4 months and after tht everything will change my son is my universe but after 2 baby my centre of attention will change? Son who i loved more than my life will be distant from me i cant imagine hurting the one who made me mother. Idk i cant imagine loving any baby more than my son eill it be unjust wth the coming baby? Is it only in serial or this happens in real life to? I have read many articles and they suggest to give most of your time to your older child so they dont feel insecure is it correct pls all of u who are mothers are expecting or are just single but have any view to share and help me pls do comment i mentioned akshara duggu n naira so its easy for u ti understand and apply the situation if u want to talk in their context its fine i'll apply it on my self but pls do tell me how to be just wth your.children and whatever is happening wth duggu is correct or not? bcoz idk i perosonally feel its wrong and CV's should correct it

am not married person , but see my sister family and their child i learn little bit

I think each one here have put right things already-----not much to add

iam not married yet...But i give suggestion as well advice. What we seen in YRKKH it's absolutely team creativity... It's never happen in our normal life... Even same actor and actress acting in YRRKH having child in their home it's never happen in their own life.

congratulations on your new soon to be addition -- i personally feel that soaps and serials are very misleading and should not be followed to be applied to real life, they are just entertainment to be enjoyed. my advise to you is be orgazined and manage your day accordingly, when baby sleeps - spend time with your oldest or even when baby is awake the three of you enjoy your time together involve your older child so they dont feel left out. another misleading topic in the serials are babies sleeping peacefully in the cot/crib -- NOT TRUE for every child -- mine did not, i co-slept with my kids until they were atleast 1.5-2yrs it was easier for me and my sanity and plus its good for the baby... you know the only true advice i can give you is: dont stress - you can read all the books and stories you want at the end of the day your family life/culture, your children are unique to you, once the baby comes everything will balance and fall into place---oraganization and prioritization is key to have a balanced life...take this from a mother with 4 children who works full time... all the best :)

ohhh and to add to my post... enjoy your pregnancy and post pregnancy - dont stress its not worth it! enjoy every moment becasue these moments go by really fast...chill and relax!!

What they show on tv and reality is quite different. As a parent I don't agree with what they have shown. In reality I wouldn't want all those relatives hovering over the baby when they are just few days old. The kids are not immunized. Mine had colic where they cry all the time.Personally I feel it is what you wish to do. On tv they have romanticized it when reality is very stressful.

Thankyou everyone for your valuable suggestions but iam still anxious will i be able o love my second child the same way i love my first born i don't want them to feel left out please help me with this thankyou :)