who's fault - Page 2

Originally posted by: A HUGE FAN

I say both are but I think its a bit Naitik's fault because not once, but twice he went up to Shaurya & demanded answers. Even his own family told him not to talk about work stuff but he didn't listen.

I agree that Shaurya should not have made that comment about the house, that was wrong. But anger makes you do/say alot & Naitik said things too.

Originally posted by: naraine

What's great is that the writers are actually consistent. Both characters are acting like they should be. Shaurya has always been impulsive. Naitik has always been a Mama's Boy and used to always getting his way and doesn't every think he's wrong.. Even though he's a nice guy, they have shown his character from Day 1, not being considerate towards Akshara's family, like she is to there's.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

I totally agree with you...shorya is quite until someone really provokes him and then he will lash out...natik on the other hand cannot hear no or somebody disagreeing with or not getting his way and that is becuase g3 pampered him so much and never thought him that in life we do not always get our way...and yah he is always inconsiderate of her family which is so unfair since akshara always takes crap from his family without complain...and the two times she lost her cool and answered back to them natik shut her up and asked her to apologize however natik himself never cares what he says to anyone else or if he hurts them...

I think Its both of their fault. Mainly it was shaurya idea to business with natik so he should have known that at times Business between family do spoil the relations.

Shaurya did wrong by bring the house talk. I do agree anger makes you do alot but I think its wrong to say Natik was at fault. I think both made mistakes and are at fault

Originally posted by: parri814

I am not a Naitik basher or a fan of anyone in particular. I do watch this serial closely but not fanatical about any character.

What i would like to say is that I felt it was very archaic of Naitik to expect Akshara to just forget her Maayka on his say so. Even the elders in his family were humiliated by his behavior. I am NOT saying that Shaurya was correct either, but am highlighting Naitik's unjust behavior towards Akshara because i want to understand why a women is always expected to sacrifice. What if Akshara told Naitik, I want to live separately from your family because they are thinking f giving my child to your cousin. What if she asked Naitik to forget his family? She in fact constantly tries to keep the unity despite his mothers interferences. She does not even complain to him. He is so lost in his own world that he does not even see what is happening in his own home let alone in his office. I am astonished to find that some people are actually praising him as 'the angry young man' and find his behavior attractive. Are we as women really worthy of that kind of discrimination?

I've been thinking about the difference in temperament in the Singhanias and Maheshwari households. The latter home is so much more carefree and supportive as opposed to the former that instills fear more than love. As much as we ridicule Rj for being the minister of worry, at least she supports Varsha in all her endeavors (minus the studying during pregnancy period). Whereas Gayatri never misses an opportunity to spit out snide remarks and accusations or show false pride. Akshara's Daadi seems to be the trump card (voice of reason) in the Maheshwari household and her common sense filters down to her sons. Nobody is perfect at the Maheshwaris, but they do seem to portray more patience and tolerance.

Originally posted by: parvarish00

@bold if Akshara says something like that to Naitik then like in 2009 he will send her to her maayka.

Other than treating her like a dictator he has not been anything

He is the worlds best husband if akshara nods her head for everything he says, the moment akshara does something which he does not like then he makes the life of akshara miserable.

what else can we expect from him? In all his business failure he has always shouted on her without remembering that if she had not made those jewellary designs singhaniyas would have been still on small cottage with his ego hanging high and dry

FORGOT TO PUT ONE POINT, IN THE END ALL THESE STORY WILL END WITH NAITIKS FINAL DIALOGUE" AKSHARA AAP MUJHE MAAF KARDHIJIYE"

Then the whole cycle repeats itself